Why does borderline personality disorder in women - /r9k/ (#81637268) [Archived: 747 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:02:35 PM No.81637268
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Have such a terrible reputation. My experience dealing with them is mostly positive. I'll admit getting split is rather scary the 1st time but after that you know what to expect and its not so bad. They also strangely do not get the ick from spergs. They'll definitely notice your social

Unlike normie women BPDs actually feel bad about when their bad side comes out and admit its their fault (they feel so bad about it a ton of them die by suicide).
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:15:50 PM No.81637427
>>81637268 (OP)
They only "know" such women from discord
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:16:47 PM No.81637436
>>81637268 (OP)
> But they are x criticism here
The only way they are worse than normal women in any way is splitting which is legit scary the 1st time it happens given how sweet they are before but eh once you know what to expect and that it passes its not so bad.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:19:09 PM No.81637460
i wonder if she enjoys anonymity too?
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:20:27 PM No.81637477
>>81637268 (OP)
Close friend of mine had such a gf, it stops being fun when they cut up their arms and legs and you have to bring them to the hospital (again)
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:21:08 PM No.81637485
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>>81637427
And the women in question are 19 year old kangel egirls with "beautiful princess disorder" (ie girls who don't have BPD)
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:23:05 PM No.81637512
>>81637477
1. Not all BPDs are cutters.
2. I don't mind as long as they are only hurting themselves (which is mostly what BPDs do when they are very upset, they generally just threaten to hurt you but only actually hurt themselves).
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:23:08 PM No.81637513
>>81637268 (OP)
Why do they like spergs so much?
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:24:29 PM No.81637532
>>81637512
I just got to know those that have pretty bad self harm tendencies and also tended to harm others
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:24:51 PM No.81637538
>>81637485
Yeah BPDs though often knockouts do not think they are a princess its pretty universal BPDs actually fucking hate themselves. BPDs can't rationalize their bad behavior the way most women can...
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:25:30 PM No.81637550
>>81637513
Spergs are gullible retards than they can manipulate easy
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:26:25 PM No.81637558
>>81637513
For whatever reason the fact that your social cues and body language are off doesn't bother them. I don't know why this is a part of being a BPD but it is. They CAN TELL you are off and they know what being an autist is they will be able to tell... they just unlike normie women don't seem to care.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:28:12 PM No.81637587
>>81637268 (OP)
>BPD women admit it's their fault
lol, lmao even. This is another emotional manipulation they do but they don't sincerely believe anything is ever their fault.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:28:16 PM No.81637590
>>81637550
>manipulate
But it didn't even work, I just called her a freak when she tried to manipulate me and then she showed me her naked body.
Very pink, very nice.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:28:18 PM No.81637592
>>81637550
BPDs are horrible at manipulating people compared to normie women. I guess BPDs recognize that spergs do tend to end up really liking them really quickly. BPDs are easier to read for us and we like that. They probably like that we really like them.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:29:09 PM No.81637597
>>81637590
Are you diagnosed and if so at what age?
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:29:27 PM No.81637605
>>81637587
> No they are just lying about feeling bad about things
Why the high suicide rate.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:31:07 PM No.81637631
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>>81637590
Based! Filler filler fo filler
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:31:54 PM No.81637642
>>81637513
No idea.

t. avoidant schizoid and ADHD haver that has only ever attracted BPD hoes
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:32:55 PM No.81637663
>>81637605
Suicide is a selfish action. You seem to think it's virtuous self-sacrifice or something.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:33:10 PM No.81637669
>>81637268 (OP)
Most people here are retarded zoomers who can barely interact with normal people in a healthy manner. Interacting with BPD people requires a more develop theory of mind, so obviously the average retard is going to think that BPD people are evil or whatever the fuck. That said, there is a subset of BPD that is very high in antisocial traits and you can never win with them.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:33:57 PM No.81637678
>>81637663
Not saying its virtuous but its damn good evidence that they really do feel bad about something...
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:35:03 PM No.81637685
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>>81637268 (OP)
fuck off, BPDemon
we are wise to your ways. you cannot fool us.
note to Anons: BPD women drive men to suicide on a regular basis. you will never hear about this in the news.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:36:38 PM No.81637709
>>81637597
No idea, don't think so, people would just think I'm a mental midget and I wouldn't get gibs for it so I never got checked as an adult.
But it's pretty obvious to anybody that I'm a sperg, other spergs included.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:36:48 PM No.81637711
bpd cycle
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>>81637513
We make for easy victims.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:37:19 PM No.81637719
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>>81637268 (OP)
BPDangels deserve the world
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:37:28 PM No.81637720
>>81637678
Of course they feel bad hence the depressive part of manic-depressive. They're miserable people that can't help but destroy themselves and everyone who cares about them.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:38:02 PM No.81637723
even reddit therapists talk shit about bpdemons
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:38:14 PM No.81637726
>>81637720
>manic-depressive
You are confusing Borderline Personality Disorder with Bipolar Disorder
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:40:12 PM No.81637749
>>81637709
So you don't actually have autism? I bet you're a cluster b tard yourself
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:40:38 PM No.81637759
>>81637720
> Destroy themselves
Yes generally they eventually do this.
> Destroy everyone around them
If things get bad enough people generally walk away they are not insidious conniving gold diggers looking to divorce rape (in fact I do know a guy who was married to a BPD, she cheated and had mood swings and all of that but declined to divorce rape and admitted the divorce was her fault; even though she ended up poor and eventually a street prostie before dying of drugs after that).
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:41:40 PM No.81637771
>>81637723
> Reddits has a negative opinion of them
LOL more evidence that they get a bad rap.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:56:03 PM No.81637920
>>81637749
Do bonesaws magically give you autism only when they say you have it?
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:57:53 PM No.81637937
>>81637920
Every tiktok zoomer has supposedly autism
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 11:00:06 PM No.81637962
>>81637937
>Every tiktok zoomer has supposedly autism
What the fuck is "supposedly autism"?
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 11:01:17 PM No.81637975
>>81637962
Yep you're one of them
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 11:05:29 PM No.81638009
>>81637975
>Yep you're one of them
Because I'm not so retarded as to use "supposedly autism" in a sentence?
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 11:08:17 PM No.81638032
>>81637268 (OP)
Splitting is the reason, during splitting some can become psychotic. Some will cheat on you or leave you for zero reason as well. If you want someone hyper co-dependant find someone with DPD or the rarer ASAD instead, all the attachment with none of the splitting.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 11:21:06 PM No.81638174
>>81638032
Splitting is terrifying the first time it happens but once you've been through it not that bad. If you know about it and the girl knows she BPD you can even work out a procedure in advance to minimize impact.
> Some will cheat on you and leave you for no reason
This is normal women. I would say BPDs are more likely to cheat but less likely to leave.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 11:30:09 PM No.81638269
>>81637937
It's "every tiktok zoomer SUPPOSEDLY HAS autism", ESLbro.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 11:38:34 PM No.81638370
>>81637268 (OP)
My one and only girlfriend gave me that look when I met her for the first time after flying to her. She turned out to be a BPDemon and now white girls scare me. Sadly brown girls are self hating whores and im not into the other races.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 11:50:36 PM No.81638530
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>>81638370
> Its the faggot who claim brown girls don't like white guys
Tons of nigger and spic chicks with a white guy fetish you lying faggot.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 12:18:04 AM No.81638891
>>81638530
Im not white, dude. What are you on about. Thats the problem. All brown girls have white fetish and im not gonna fuck some girl thats ever sucked on some pink dick. Did the whole I flew to her to meet her thing not clue you in?
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 12:26:51 AM No.81638988
>>81638891
> All brown girls have the white fetish
No some of them hate white guys lol in accordance with leftist ideology. You're not a chad like Andrew Tate why don't you get to a point where you have women chasing you before you decide you're going to reject them over shit like muh body count.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 12:33:07 AM No.81639076
>>81638988
Nah, I'll reject any whore for whatever reason I want.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 12:55:40 AM No.81639363
>>81637268 (OP)
I get along well with BPD women because I have quiet BPD myself and can match their level of splitting flawlessly
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 1:22:26 AM No.81639673
>>81639363
Can someone tell wtf splitting is. I dont want to google shit and this is the only human interaction I can get nowadays.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 1:24:17 AM No.81639690
>>81639673
Splitting they go from the coolest funnest chick you ever met to ussually a brief bitchy period transition followed by them exploding on you... generally they don't do more than say mean things and they feel bad afterwords.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 2:38:05 AM No.81640364
>>81639690
Ahh. I see. She called it spiraling. Shed be fine and then act like the world is ending.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 2:59:08 AM No.81640553
>>81637268 (OP)
Npds hate schizos and bpds because they are too hard to control. Also being around bpds bring out all their shame
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 3:00:25 AM No.81640566
>>81640553
Npds love and hate bpds
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 3:00:46 AM No.81640567
>>81638032
>for zero reason
Lol. Ok bud
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 3:03:48 AM No.81640596
>>81640566
They love the bpd till the bpd starts seeing right thru the npd. They also love the bpd because narcissists can not feel their own emotions. Theyre like some fake husk of a human. And definitely don't split on an npd because it brings out all their shame. It reminds them that they aren't good enough for this existence
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 4:35:15 AM No.81641518
Bpd shmeepeedee
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 5:57:32 AM No.81642137
>>81637685
Lmao my bpdemon drank smirnoff like water and almost drove me to rope
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 6:18:41 AM No.81642320
>>81637268 (OP)
not a woman but i suppose ive always wondered if theres a chance i have bpd
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 8:54:00 AM No.81643225
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I'm just realistic. Since I struggle with depression, I think a girl with mental health issues would be a good match for me.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 10:11:23 AM No.81643689
>>81643225
BPDs tend to have insane sex drives plus they like the validation so if you're looking for virginity or at least low body count that they are not the best bet.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 10:20:54 AM No.81643752
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>>81643689
Nah, I'm way past the age where virginity can be expected
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 12:04:13 PM No.81644459
>>81637427
Wrong. So far this year I have banged a 330 pound BPD girl, a 225er who was human trash (ghosted her) and a 325 pounder. That is nearly 1000 pounds of BPD hoe. I like how they get the discoloration on their inner thighs. I love meeting their parents and seeing the look of confusion on the fathers face trying to figure out what I am up to. The reality is that I am just obsessed with 300+ pounder BPD girls
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 12:07:58 PM No.81644496
>>81644459
>That is nearly 1000 pounds of BPD
good lord
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 12:18:48 PM No.81644605
>>81637268 (OP)
psychology is so fake and gay
Some people are loonies. All these gay little classifications are completely made up, theres no such thing as BPD npd AbCDEFGPD it's all fake and gay
That said loony women are attractive I wish I was hot enough to get one
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 12:34:54 PM No.81644754
>>81637268 (OP)
male BPD is what's cursed. foods can kys
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 1:18:12 PM No.81645130
>>81644754
Would you mind explaing this?
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 2:52:20 PM No.81645812
>>81644459
> Fat BPDs
Rare. BPDs share one commonality with their more evil cousins in the cluster Bs. They really really want to keep a good appearance.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 3:34:12 PM No.81646026
>>81645812
Not rare, it's common for BPD girls to also have PCOS which is why they get so fucking fat and hairy.

>>81638174
>not that bad
Yeah, when they split, discard and monkeybranch on you over something minor that isn't so bad at all and totes isn't devastating.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 3:40:34 PM No.81646054
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>>81646026
Well lets put it this way fat BPDs aren't going to give you the charm offensive so why would you ever encounter them whereas the attractive ones are like sirens.
> Splitting is bad
Sure the 1st time. Once you know BPDs not so bad.
> Discard you over something minor
Thats normie women. BPDs very specifically don't discard you when they split you... the worst episode I had of it in my career I said how about you don't contact me again and I'll do the same (this was after her saying I'm a lower form of life a parasite that I had terrorized her etc) and of course she says no (and btw mostly very fond memories of the girl in question).
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 4:12:07 PM No.81646237
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>>81644459
>The reality is that I am just obsessed with 300+ pounder BPD girls
Based beyond belief