Being handsome sucks - /r9k/ (#81643008) [Archived: 796 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/28/2025, 8:12:33 AM No.81643008
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Most 8s, 9s and 10s are having LESS sex than the average 7s and 6s.

Women feel VERY INTIMIDATED by handsome men and it makes most interactions impossible. They're in awe with his beauty but can't make things progress forward.

It's very rare for a handsome man to get sex in a natural wa because girls hate it when the dynamic is shifted and they don't know how to handle it. Out of ego alone they will purposely fumble their chances with the handsome guy cuz she can't handle being the one who's 50x more willing to do it

Women are self-aware about the way they react to cute guys and they hate the fact that they can't do anything about it. Either they surrender and in their minds become "just another girl for this player" or they fumble it and run away.

Handsome men are just toys to be fawned over at a distance and be inserted in their stupid dark romance fantasies

Guys having all the sex are usually 6s and MAYBE 7s who are in shape and still need go play the game and chase, and it makes women feel good about themselves. Girls love that dynamic especially as they get more and more arrogant with the rise of simping.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 8:24:33 AM No.81643069
Thank you, I'm autistic but researched all those red pill channels and never noticed because I'm bad with eye contact but a lot of women look at me like that and sooo many dudes get jealous as fuck and resort to gay accusations.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 8:46:11 AM No.81643178
What level of cope is this
Originally
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 8:46:20 AM No.81643179
I want so bad to believe this is my issue but it seems like the world's largest cope.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:25:28 AM No.81643402
>Go through puberty and most of my teenage years being weird looking and invisible to girls
>I don't even bother trying to pursue women because I already know I'm not attractive enough
>Suddenly something changes in my mid-20's and people start finding me attractive, some people think I'm hot enough to the point it drives them a bit crazy
>I still carry the self-esteem of a 16 year old who couldn't get a girl to even look his way, as well as the insecurity of being not losing my virginity. Have no idea how to flirt with girls and I'm terrified of being intimate
>People assume that I get play all the time and have no problem getting girls. They're shocked to find out I've never dated anyone.
Becoming hot wasn't all it was cracked up to be
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:28:36 AM No.81643423
>>81643402
It's true that if you miss out on teen love you're fucked for life. Getting hot in your 20s won't change how jaded you grew to be.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 10:14:02 AM No.81643704
>>81643423
Nah I got a glowup in my mid 20s and life is great. You can actually use all the blackpill/redpill knowledge for your own benefit not just theorize about it online.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 10:16:09 AM No.81643724
>>81643008 (OP)
A sea monkey like me isn't even a 2/10
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 10:20:29 AM No.81643749
>>81643704
I had a glowup in my 20s aswell and it just made me unable to deal with the different treatment, so I became a khhv mentalcel with avoidant disorder.
Didn't help that when I got a bit heavier again at age 28, that I got bullied again.
I am now a wizard at age 32, at least I lost the weight again but it didn't do shit. I still don't have a job or a degree and still avoid social interactions.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 11:59:59 AM No.81644415
>>81643179
It is true. Women resent attractive men.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 12:57:19 PM No.81644948
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I'm no Chad, but I am somehow ugly-handsome like James Gandolfini. Albeit I'm a manlet autist NEET.
Women sometimes stare at me, but never approach or talk to me. I get likes and matches, but they never speak, or DTF.
As a result, I am still incel as fuck at almost 39. I may finally be getting my first unpaid fuck today, yet I still expect it to fall through. People say I'm handsome and photogenic, despite baldness, but my experience has me feeling totally undesirable. I can't even get myself hard or cumming on my own.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 2:08:02 PM No.81645503
>>81644948
Based bald embracer
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 2:34:08 PM No.81645692
>>81643008 (OP)
Didnt read your wall of text, but yea, the good old trusty 6s and 7s get all the pussy and all the cocks. Its the same for both genders, thats why mid women think they are hot shit, they look approachable. OP, if you are too good looking as you say, you gotta be approachable by being easygoing, you already climbed the first step that is being handsome, if you make some social gains, you will be unstoppable.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 4:33:54 PM No.81646405
>>81645692
>Didnt read
Maybe you should.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 5:09:44 PM No.81646712
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>>81643008 (OP)
This is true for model-tier men. They have resting bitch faces. The combination of hooded eyes, strong bones, big skull, makes them look scary when they're not smiling. They're also tall and that just adds to the intimidation.
Everyday attractive is a little more soi. More rounded around the edges, a bit goofy. When I think of an everyday chad I picture Travis Kelce. Slightly pudgy, dumb-looking, dumb-behaving. Women want to feel like they're in charge of a beast.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 7:08:30 PM No.81647726
>>81646712
That's part of it for sure. Desu.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 8:51:00 PM No.81648689
>>81643749
U gotta put that arreacricdnes to use dude
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 8:54:34 PM No.81648720
>>81643008 (OP)
This is a cope for delusional incels.
>Women are cold and rude to me because they're actually attracted to me!!!
No, you delusional idiot. They are like that with you (us) because they see us as unattractive and low value.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:02:50 PM No.81648796
>>81643402
Kinda similar experience. I've had 7 women including a Stacy showing signs of interest, even jokingly saying they want my D. Stuff like rubbing their tits against my arm, touching my arms for no reason, laughing at everything I say, getting their faces too close to mine and looking at me. Ended up a wizard anyway, lol. The part about not knowing how to flirt is what resonates with me most. I just can't do it without feeling ashamed and scared I'll creep them out. Luckily I'm introverted so I don't beat myself up too much about this, as I prefer being alone.
I've known since my early teens that I'll end up like this. I'm simply not capable of taking opportunities even when they're being offered to me, when it comes to women. I've somehow managed to become an engineer, build some friendships, build wealth and generally appear successful to others. But not having sex or relationships. I even still find it unbelievably odd when the sex-having normies at work talk to me as if I've had their experiences and I can just go to a pub and attract a woman to fuck. They consider me one of their own but in my mind I feel like a complete alien.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:04:43 PM No.81648810
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who crafted this bait? its so delicious and filling... mnghfhhh....
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:05:30 PM No.81648814
>>81648720
and how does that make you really feel?
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:08:19 PM No.81648835
>>81648814
I'm used to it you son of a bitch. It sucks but that's life. Life will always be a hierarchical system, women are blind to how they put certain guys beneath other ones. They do it on auto-pilot. Just the way it goes.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:12:24 PM No.81648869
>>81648835
yea you like being beneath guys don't you faggot.
when you going to transition? cause clearly you're still in middle school KEK
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:13:48 PM No.81648876
>>81648869
>He purposely changes the conversation to gay stuff as soon as possible
For some reason, it made you upset that I pointed out that incels are delusional copers who think women are mean to them because they are handsome. Only you know the true reason why such a statement would draw out your insecurities.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:19:37 PM No.81648917
>>81648876
men are toys op right
and don't ever use the word incel infront of me again
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:21:55 PM No.81648935
>>81643008 (OP)
So that explains why I can't get any pussy
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:32:55 PM No.81649053
>>81648917
No, the word toys never crossed my mind here. I just hate when delusional incels cope like this. We all need to accept that women don't like us, there are no sophisticated loopholes here. There is no hope.