What to do with a girlfriend? - /r9k/ (#81653378) [Archived: 718 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:41:23 AM No.81653378
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Why do people even want a girlfriend? I just wanna be left alone ngl.
Lets suppose a girl approaches me. What then? I have 0 hobbies other than doing some martial arts.

I dunno, I've been trying to search for a hobby, so picked up modeling a few days ago. It ain't that bad.

What about you? Do you think a girlfriend with someone like you is a realistic scenario?
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:44:22 AM No.81653398
>>81653378 (OP)
>Do you think a girlfriend with someone like you is a realistic scenario?
No, because I don't want a girlfriend.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:44:42 AM No.81653399
>>81653378 (OP)
Yeah sure i also play games, watch animes, read mangas, but I don't consider these as hobbies anymore since almost everyone practice them.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:52:10 AM No.81653470
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>>81653378 (OP)
> Do you think a girlfriend with someone like you is a realistic scenario?
probably not. i sometimes go to speed dating events but every time i receive 0 response from women for wanting to go on a second date with me. approaching women at the bus stops doesn't work either. i think it may be my looks, plus im balding fast. i work as a software engineer during the day, and i also make 1k a month passive income from my hentai game. i think some people are meant to be without a significant other, because in my situation, my side hustle is creepy and not normal, i sometimes watch anime with little girls in them ("ew pdfile"), i prefer to stay indoors and a calm life. meanwhile, most women are "adventurous", they want to travel, go to loud places, and "experience" things, while i quietly collect money and enjoy simple things in life.
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:54:59 AM No.81653497
>>81653378 (OP)
So are you just trying to flex on us robots with the whole martial arts and modeling bullshit? I can't tell.

Most people want a gf for personal validation. Most people want to reproduce so that's another thing. As for me. I really don't fucking care about getting a gf. It's not gonna make me happy. I find no interest in sex or bearing children. Even if a female were to find interest in me I'd either avoid her outright or tell her to leave me alone.
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:55:21 AM No.81653499
>>81653470
May you find a girl who is into your side hustles and more, anon.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:56:55 AM No.81653517
I like the idea of having one, but I know that the reality of it is much more complicated. When you think about it, I haven't really grown up, I just want a chance to relive the days of playing games, talking late at night with someone and not having a care in the world.
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 7:57:51 AM No.81653523
>>81653497
No, I didn't want to flex that shit on anyone. I said what i said about martial arts and modeling because in my mind, a girl would want to date someone who's successful and has a life, yet even so my hobbies are too little.

If I made a mistake, then i'm sorry, it's just something i am very insecure about.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:00:47 AM No.81653557
>>81653517
Agreed. This whole gf thing kinda just jumped out of nowhere and suddenly everyone has one. It used to be so simple back then.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:05:47 AM No.81653608
>>81653470
Anon, you don't quite understand.
>most women are "adventurous"
lowest and most retarded of human delusions: do nothing and have everything. But incarnate. This boundless hedonism does include everybody else being a slave to them and them being the main character, and all that pyscho bullshit too.
>they want to travel
females are retarded. but in this they want status. travel means nothing to a bitch, because she won't ever go to the remains of the ancient roman city and listen to a 4 hour lecture about the chores and the simple, humble life the Roman plebs led/had.
>go to loud places
same. females are retarded, so this translates to being seen in public, but in "good", arbitrarily decided, and doesn't factually matter, not in a million years, places. And in better company (men with status/money) and to waste money the males make.
>and "experience" things
you guessed it, female are retarded. this translates into flexing onto other people, esp. other females. they want to flex status, money, etc, that they don't have and never will on other "bitches". The idea of a female having fun is
>look good and teehee
half a functioning brain cell at best. They never want to a learning experience, which matters, they want to do fuck all or be fucked. Shallow and empty.
>while i quietly collect money and enjoy simple things in life.
because you're a man of value, who does what any and every man ever should. Build himself up, build value up, build the world up, be prepared for the bad times, etc. You probably have a life a male should have. Having a braindead, eye candy if you're lucky, husk of a human in your life is only ever detrimental to your life. and qol.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:06:06 AM No.81653615
>>81653378 (OP)
A girl I liked acted like my girlfriend part time for two weeks and it was the only time in my life I've been happy
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:09:34 AM No.81653646
>>81653615
commit sudoku, you disgusting pussy slave.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 10:05:26 AM No.81654372
>>81653615
>>>/soc/ you disgusting animal
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 10:10:18 AM No.81654403
>>81653378 (OP)
>Do you think a girlfriend with someone like you is a realistic scenario?
I don't want anyone to be like me. I hope no one in this world is like me. It would be very sad to know there is a pathetic human being like me.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 10:36:43 AM No.81654579
>>81653378 (OP)
Same question. Each time I see and hear what others do with GFs
>walking her almost daily like a dog
>talk nonstop pretending to be more interesting than you are
>scan for "interesting" activities for the weekend
>mateguarding from more attractive men
I immediately get discouraged from dating at all. A chance at 10 minutes of grinding cock against a starfish is not worth it.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 11:13:49 AM No.81654743
>>81653378 (OP)
IKR. I'd hate to have to constantly entertain someone all the time, or I get cucked by the next Chad to look at her.
I just want a female willing fuck partner.