>>81654948That's good, I'm happy for you.
>Yes, you are.How then? I wouldn't say I've said anything pickme except calling you a bitter shrew.
>You see it when you get closer in the relationship. Their dynamic changes and you start seeing their lies. This seems more like you or the people you know have trouble finding good life partners.
>They never cared about us in the first place. They want us to submit to them and be at their beck and call.Never in my life have I or the people I know experienced this. Never. This isn't the 1940s anymore.
>If we don't? They just gaslight us as just crazy dumb whores who are on their period or we have the modern day hysteria known as borderline personality disorder.If you have had relationships like this then I'm sorry, no one should have to go through that.
BPD is a genuine personality disorder and it actually changes the chemistry and structure in your brain. Both men and women can have BPD. It's not the same as hysteria.
>Yes, we are.Saying this is offensive to women who actually live in oppressive states. If you care about womens rights as much as you say you do then you'd see that.
>We're told to ignore these bad traits from them. If they have a bad day, we have to be there to support him. To be fair, men and women ignore/tolerate a lot of the bad traits in each other for relationships to work. That's just how relationships work. There are always things you won't like. You should support your partner if they're having a bad day, that's a given for both men and women.
>If we have a bad day? Oh we're just whiny bitches on their period and go wash the dishes, do his laundry, take care of the crying child, etc.I'm sorry if you've experienced this, you should always feel like you can lean on your partner if you've had a rough day.
Now from my experience this isn't true in most relationships either.