As a 30 year old virgin, I just do not understand orbiters, or guys who say that men and women can't be friends. In all of the crushes I've gotten and talked with them but was too scared to make a move, all of the conversations we had just made me like them less with time and the infatuation eventually faded. I had no issue ever being friends with them, but in being the eunuch male friend I would ALWAYS find out some shit that made me think "whoa good thing I never made an attempt to elevate this into a relationship"

Likewise I completely understand the women who say they like guys as friends but would never want to date them: I know plenty of girls who are cool "dudes" to hang out with but would never want anything more with them ever

>>81672915 (OP)
This girl you posted is still the cutest girl I've ever seen after all these years.

>>81672915 (OP)
single men and women can't be friends, women start ovulating and become whores and if her male friend is a pimp then he is going to take advantage of that and fuck her, also men and women can't be best friends with each other because your best friend is the partner you married a person you would trust your life to that isn't your sibling or your parents, if you have a relationship like that with someone else then you will end up cheating or getting cheated

>>81672915 (OP)
>or guys who say that men and women can't be friends
Can't happen unless there's quite literally 0 attraction and possibly even repulsion, and even then I'm not convinced. It's only delusional women that believe this or lie to themselves to keep male resources at hand

>>81672915 (OP)
It's so retarded, if I crush on someone is because I like them and enjoy their company and personality. How the fuck would I want to NOT be her friend?

>>81673327
What's discussed is being ONLY friends

Whats New York like?