How do NEET anons that live with their parents fucking do it? I've had a part-time for about a year and it finally hit me the other day how irritating it is being in this situation (kek when I remind myself how I've never had a major issue with it until recently). The main issues are privacy and control.

They've always been like this, but I've never complained or rebelled because it would have just increased the lack of privacy/control and their house their rules. The classic example is not letting me go out really, or have friends of my choosing throughout middle and high school. I kept dealing with it in uni because they were paying, which I am very grateful for, but, again, I never did certain things out of fear they would stop paying. For example, I remember expressing interest in dorming, which would have been cheaper than commuting in my scenario, but they repeatedly said no. Later they did change their minds (2 years or so), but I decided against it for academic reasons. There are more examples of things throughout uni, but I'm not going to continue.

I'm a year post uni now. I realize I'm pretty privileged because I could be fucking homeless right now with uni debt and working a shitty part-time instead of not having to pay rent/many bills, but I know I'm not crazy for letting it get to me (add on not having friends). I'm working harder to make my situation better, reaching out to people for opportunities, looking out of state, etc.. Every day is a hard, but I remind myself how I made it through MS/HS/UNI. To ease the stress a little, I started drinking aside from working out. Am I being dramatic? Was it worth the sacrifice of freedom for almost zero financial stress?
>t. early 20s yo guy

>>81675346 (OP)
Also, i'm obviously a KHHV.

>>81675346 (OP)
i'm in your shoes too, anon
honestly yeah, the biggest drawback is the privacy/control and the fact that its kinda hard trying to make friends/have someone come over

how i go around it is to just... stop listening to them
i know your parents won't listen to you but who do they listen to? their own parents? i complained to my grandad and he's been a great help

>>81675346 (OP)
Well fortunately for me my parents actually love me and are awesome and let me do whatever the fuck I want whenever I want without any exceptions. Sucks to be you.

>>81675365
>stop listening to them
I mean, I want to secure a full-time position before I go this route lol. Probably secure an apartment/roommate too. I wanted to know how NEETs fucking do it. Guess they are just lucky like anon >>81675388

>>81675430
the longer you wait, the harder it is to move out

i should know, i'm 27

>>81675528
>i should know, i'm 27
this is my nightmare desu. holy fuck

>>81675544
it started out innocent enough
>"i'll stay a few years so i can save money"
and then shit happens and they need my help, as in my my money, then at one point they got sick, and again my money, and here i am now broke at 27 with no friends and nothing to my name

get out while you still can

>>81675566
>gain my money, and here i am now broke at 27 with no friends and nothing to my name
i envy european neets. i met some white norweigan on discord that has his own apartment from neetbux. grass is always greener i guess.

>>81675658
i've accepted my lot in life
don't wanna sound evil but i genuinely think my life will be better once both my parents die

im happy living with my parents
it could be soooo much worse

>>81675700
>happy living with my parents
are you a guy neet?

>>81675688
>but i genuinely think my life will be better once both my parents die
how do you cope? drugs and alcohol?

>>81675346 (OP)
i'm a 19yo NEET khhv and this will be me in a few years

>>81675851
talking to you guys
cigarettes and coffee
and yeah, alcohol occasionally

i did a thing where i stopped doing all of those and i genuinely went insane lol

Your parents are infantilizing you and setting you up for failure and permanent codependency. This is how shit parents abuse their children. They dont treat you with the respect or give you the freedom that you need to grow into a capable adult. Your mission needs to be to figure out how to get away from them as soon as possible.

>>81675811
yes I'm a male NEET
yes

>>81675896
hit the nail on the head
get out asap, OP because the way things are going, your parents are banking on you taking care of them when they're old and decrepit

they're not thinking about your future, they're thinking about theirs

I don't think I'll ever be able to gain independance from my parents and move out into my own place. I'm grateful for all that they do for me and that they let me live with them while I'm at my WfH office job but I never gained a sense of independance. I don't know what I'll do when they finally pass away. I might aswell just kms when they do because even with a full-time job, I doubt I'll be able to support myself. My dream was to just live in basically a shoecloset and have my own apartment to work from home and play games in my freetime but now I just realize that's childish cope to fantasize about being on my own, able to do what I want.

>>81675896
>Your mission needs to be to figure out how to get away from them as soon as possible.
Yeah, that's what I'm doing right now. I'm focusing my efforts on getting a full-time position so I can move out. Get a roommate (though I think I would hate living with strangers).
>they're not thinking about your future, they're thinking about theirs
They probably don't need my help. They have their own money and mog me moneywise. At least I have that in the future if they don't cut me off (as fucked as it sounds kek). I'm fine. I just need to set up my own career.
>>81675986
>ecause even with a full-time job, I doubt I'll be able to support myself.
What do you mean? Is your job not enough? I'd focus on building a career to get the cope you want. But easier said than done. look at me

>>81676174
meant to include anon >>81675933

>>81676174
>What do you mean? Is your job not enough? I'd focus on building a career to get the cope you want. But easier said than done. look at me

My job isn't enough because I only earn $18.90 per hour. I got a 0.90 cent raise after 1 year. There isn't really any opportunity for upward advancement but I can't job-hop because the job market in America has been fucked for years. If I send my resume out now there's no guarantee I'll be able to line up a better job before quitting my current one.

>>81676174
>>81676183
they might need your help now, but who's to say in 10 years

>>81675346 (OP)
>How do NEET anons that live with their parents fucking do it?
My mother was based and chill. As she was over-protective, she was glad I was home and safe.
Thankfully, outside of burgerland, there is no culture of parents making their kids homeless at 18.

>>81675346 (OP)
It sucks but everything feels impossible i don't know what to do

>thread still up
oh nice

I would guess you should just make a lot of money lul that'll solve everything... too bad you can't. and like fix all your issues lul.
you could save money by just living with your parents and using your money to make more and more money... this whole thing is just a money issue. Good Luck!
Just a friendly reminder no adv.

>>81678185
>and using your money to make more and more money...
>investing
investing can't make me 70k a year right now. i need a better day job.

>>81675346 (OP)
European parents aren't psychopaths

>>81675346 (OP)
>Live with two parents
>They are not junkies or do other retarded shit
>Complain
Lmao, you have no idea how bad things could really be, so yeah you are a soft beta bitch

secondly, yeah you are being cucked around and have no control and urgency of your own life
>Oooh I might be homeless!
I imagine you are not living in the fucking antarctic? so what
literally who fucking cares

Enjoy being cucked by your parents and never living

>>81680619
Why are you so mean you faggot

>>81680619
>Being homeless isnt that bad hurr durr I've been coddled all my life.
Stfu.