>>81675840 (OP)I'm 43yo. I come here whenever I have time to kill or I'm sick. Don't feel bad I started turning my life around at 38yo.
My life story:
1)outsider autistic kid/teen who got into nerd shit like anime, games, Warhammer etc for escapism.
2)Lived in my parents house untill I was 41yo, in a messy room showering 2 times a week. Towards the end I was staying indoors for months on end literally not knowing what day it was going to bed at 8 in the morning.
3)I kept trying to change all of 2019 (38yo) but kept failing. Finally on new years 2020 I committed to changing (as cheesy as that sounds). What I did was realize I could do tiny incremental daily habits and snowball them from there.
4)by new years 2021 I realized I had cleaned my room every day for a year.
5)by new years 2022 I was exercising, fasting, learning how to invest and meditating.
6)by new years 2023 I went back to school full time while doing side hustles. I started having my own money for the first time.
7)by new years 2024 I got my licenses, and bought a car with cash, and put a down payment on a condo and moved out of my parents house.
I'm not bragging my point is small changes can move mountains over time. I literally started with: making sure my laundry was in the basket.