>not respected, just pitied by friends
>people just talk at me, don't care about what i have to say
>won't join me when i suggest activities
it feels like i'm literally the NPC random +1. is the only solution getting a new group?

>>81685426 (OP)
Start doing your own thing. Get some self respect. Get a good job. Get a nice hobby you can do with different people. Get multiple hobbies. Have a busy schdule where you are doing different things with different people every day.
Soon enough, the opinions of joe blow won't matter so much.

>>81685426 (OP)
Stop suggesting playing vidya. It's boring.

>>81685426 (OP)
>>won't join me when i suggest activities
this is the one that bothers me the most

>>81685426 (OP)
what you just described aren't friends, how fucking old are you??

>>81685814
i've suggested vidya obviously, but tabletop games, restaurants, and watching anime. it's hard to make suggestions because my house is too small to host. they're ignored
>>81685822
i just don't know if looking for new friends is the only solution. i've known these guys forever so the social roles have already been pretty set, i think