I met a Chad and became friends with him and we get along pretty well. One day, I was on a videocall with my girlfriend and Chad appeared asking ''can I say hi?'' so he did and everything was normal. At some point I told my girlfriend I felt insecure about my looks when I compared myself to him, as a response she asked me for his instagram because ''the cam was blurry''

I didn't do it. I would have let it slide but each time I brought him up she asked for his instagram. At some point I confronted her about it and she told me she wanted to make me jealous because it was ''cute'' and because she felt insecure I would lose interest in her (right now we are long distance, we met in person but we had plans to meet in september)

We had an argument, she told me she didn't believe her when she told me she loved me and I really don't, she is too pretty for me but I'm also mad at the fact that she knew I was insecure about my looks and used my friend to make me feel even worse

>>81687030 (OP)
you just have to move on now

you sperged. let this be a lesson

>>81687030 (OP)
sounds like you saved yourself a headache
if she truly cared she wouldnt like making you jelly

>>81687030 (OP)
Eeeesh now she will go and find your friend and fuck him until she cums so hard and realizes you were never worth it. hate to be you brah

>>81687030 (OP)
What a cuck bitch lmao, hopefully this is a larp.

>>81687242
How am I a cuck? I broke up with her over her asking me for his instagram, a cuck would do the opposite

>>81687238
If you knew how to read you would know that we were long distance. We met in person but due to many different circumstances I had to move to another country for work. It's not geographically possible for her to fuck him which makes all of this to be even more silly

>>81687274
Its a simpcel who thinks using his enemy's lingo will work as effectively on them as it does on him.
Dont pay attention to it.

>>81687287
Thanks Anon, I did actually felt like a cuck and that's what pushed me to break up, I don't know how some people can genuinely be cucks, it seems so painful

Now she is bouncing on chads dick lmao

>>81687030 (OP)
>long distance
lol
mention that first so I can stop reading and start laughing at you sooner

>>81687337
on my way to leave my coffee at work

>>81687030 (OP)
>At some point I confronted her about it and she told me she wanted to make me jealous because it was ''cute'' and because she felt insecure I would lose interest in her
Good riddance. You don't deserve that manipulative bitch.

>she is too pretty for me but I'm also mad at the fact that she knew I was insecure about my looks and used my friend to make me feel even worse
She was probably trying to monkey-branch to your friend and tried sustaining the relationship as long as possible for that reason. If she didn't (big if), let that be a lesson for her. Either way, it was her own mistake, not yours.

>>81687885
>If she didn't (big if), let that be a lesson for her.
If that's the case I kinda feel guilty for leaving her honestly, maybe she made a mistake by acting retarded without meaning it

>>81687285
Plane tickets exist.
Women will do the most insane shit to spite you.

Anyway, it sucks but you're better off with a girl who doesn't try to make you feel insecure.
And if you can't get one of those, you're better off alone.
>instagram
DAMN KIDS GET OFF MY 4CHAN REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>81687030 (OP)
A sea monkey like me wouldn't mess this up

>>81687905
It's a hard thing to ponder.
Women are by and large retarded, so it's not like you'll ever have one in your life and not have these retarded moments. But sometimes the worse ones will be so retarded it will actually make your life significantly worse.
Here's your coping medication, take 2 per day until you feel better:
If she loved you, she would try to contact you to get back together. As long as she stays quiet it's probably because her mouth is already full of cock.

>>81688083
She did try to contact me because she wanted to keep the relationship and asked me if I could trust her and I told her I couldn't. I feel bad for her, one of my female friends told me did act retarded and maybe didn't realize how much she had crossed the line

>>81688229
I don't know the timescale here, but I don't mean an "immediately after / week after the break-up" thing, I more meant like in a couple of months once it's really had a chance to die down / settle in.
An action, not a reaction, if you will.

>>81688057
Will you stop posting about muh sea monkey? You are pathetic. Go to the gym and dial back being so beta as fuck.

>>81687030 (OP)
Sounds like a bullet dodged desu.
>hurr durr give me your hot friends insta i wanna make you jealous tee hee

>>81688240
I know it will sound delusional but I don't think she is that type, I could be wrong, sure. But I think the jealousy game was her being retarded rather than an actual desire. Do you think I should avoid getting back with her?

>>81688258
The gym can't fix me

>>81688046
you're really committed to this faggoty cuck fantasy of yours based on a stranger's basketweaving forum post, aren't you?

>>81687295
She probably wasn't joking, plus "jokes" tend to come from a real place, especially with women who are much less capable of compartmentalizing banter from genuine sentiments. Teasing is one thing but if she knew you were insecure and continued to press your buttons about wanting to fuck your friend then frankly it's grounds for dismissal, there's a zero percent chance she wouldn't have been hurt by being subjected to the same thing but more likely she would have fucking exploded if you had joked about wanting to fuck her more attractive friend.

Your anxiety if I had to guess mostly stems from the fact that you're now single and don't know when the next girl will come but if you got one you can get another, there's just no telling whether this one will be any better since modern women are all so busted. Whatever you do, don't go crawling back to the old one, nothing good will come from it and you'll just make the situation far worse.

>>81688371
Thank you for your advice Anon, I really appreciate it. Yeah, I'm also genuinely feeling bad for her so one part of me wants to write her to ease her pain and tell her that yeah, she did mess up but I also had my own trauma who played a role and it wasn't completely her fault, just a bad combination of insecurities exploding. I want her not to feel so bad but I also don't want her to think I want to come back to her by sending her that message

And that's what I thought, she told me she felt insecure too, and if she had told me ''oh I have this coworker who is really pretty and has a really nice body and makes me feel insecure'' if I asked for her instagram I would be fucked, and also our common friends would think I'm a piece of shit so I don't know why she diid that to me. Do you think she wanted my friend? She said he wasn't her type but was curious as to how he looked like since I kept saying he looked way better than me