>go to Friday mtg to make friends
>meet a guy my age who isint super autistic
>we hit it off well
>add him on discord
>Says he plays ff14
>I play ff14 :)
>ask if he wants to run a raid together says he will later
>later
>ask if he wants to play
>says nah cus he's too tired
>goes to plat rainbow six beige
>rinse and repeat twice before realizing this guy dosent like me
Is my entire adult life just going to be a futile attempt to make friends with narcissists who are too lazy to make an effort?

>be me
>27 just moved to new town for job
>no friends max loneliness skill
>join weekly board game night to meet people
>everyone smells like sweaty socks and passive aggression
>find one dude not totally cringe
>talk about games he likes elden ring no instant build flex
>feelsgoodman
>add him on discord get small hope
>he online every night
>ask if wanna co op
>nah too tired grinding solo
>next night same excuse
>but see him in full party playing league
>he lied like terms of service nobody reads
>keep trying cause emotionally bankrupt
>realize im just background npc in his life script
>mfw im tutorial friend deleted after 30 mins
>mfw adult life is getting ghosted by polite high school bullies

>>81702248
You described it perfectly

>>81702283
im glad you enjoy the chatLGBT response

>>81702197 (OP)
I never accept game/discord invites from girls because i fucking suck at talking unless it is face to face
it might just be that he is a bit retarded, like me

>Is my entire adult life just going to be a futile attempt to make friends with narcissists who are too lazy to make an effort?

yes

Oh no he didn't want to play once, you can never be friends

>>81702629
It's a common theme in my life, people not wanting to commit to do shit but are happy enough to do things with others.

>>81702197 (OP)
Is anyone who doesn't want to play vidya with you a narcissist

>>81702704
No, but the constant flakiness and lack of mutual interest among gen z really fucking bothers me.

Its better to find someone with tolerqble interests who hates and dislikes the same as you. Much more agreeable and works out better in the longterm.