Thread 81702974 - /r9k/ [Archived: 632 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/3/2025, 8:49:23 PM No.81702974
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>be me, incel, and desperate for love
>have female irl friend who is objectivley good looking, has decent job, no issues with love
>we get close as friends because we have similar taste in games and TV
>i ask her a lot for advice with females and how to talk to them
>whenever it goes south i ask her for advice on how to cope
>she tells me she feels like our relationship is just her playing therapist and i dont do anything but complain to her
>she says she feels like all i do is be negative and doesnt remember the last time we had a conversation outside my love life
now what? im fucking stuck, no female wants me and the one that did in a friend way is now saying im mentally draining to her.

fuck this, fuck all of them im gonna fucking commit
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 8:50:55 PM No.81702996
Females only want to be friends when they're getting something out of it and you had nothing to offer her
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 8:53:59 PM No.81703035
Try shutting up and listening to her for once? she literally told you what is wrong with you
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 8:54:36 PM No.81703045
Friends like you are tiring though, nothing you say will ever be good enough for them

Im sorry youre feeling down OP but realistically you are gonna drag your friends down as well if youre like this
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 8:55:57 PM No.81703062
>>81702996
i dont wanna believe this but it seems to maybe be true, i really did value her as a friend
>>81703035
isnt the point of a FRIEND to have someone there for you?
>>81703045
i dont try to be tiring, i just need support and like advice from my friends
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 8:58:27 PM No.81703084
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>gets annoyed because his friend wont be constant therapist for free
>confused why friend calls him out
lmao youre a retard
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:00:53 PM No.81703102
i can literally tell from this post you are the most whiny insufferable little bitch, i dont blame your friend for ditching you
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:10:07 PM No.81703192
She probably wasnt a very good friend if she was willing to drop you over you needing her to be there for you

Dont sweat it OP, youll find another friend
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:18:25 PM No.81703263
>>81703192

listen to this anon OP.

sorry OP but a female will never be a friend to anything but good dick from good genes, money and fame. they exist to suck up anything they can and give nothing back but the bare minimum to anyone that isn't their children, and even that they fail to do.

want female companionship? be a brash fuckhead and treat them like shit. ignore literally everything they say. don't do the opposite, don't fight it, just ignore. they don't know anything, and if they did they still wouldn't tell you.

get a dog, find some good bros and come to peace with this. you can make it OP, I believe in you.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:25:38 PM No.81703328
I feel bad for your friend honestly, i wouldnt wanna put up with your annoying attitude either
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:41:09 PM No.81703468
why dont you just talk about something else retard
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:42:49 PM No.81703485
>>81703192
this is the thing, she was a really good friend, it just hurt when she said this
>>81703468
like what? i have no other hobbies outside of games, i just want love, thats what im desperate for, i would think a friend would get it
>>81703263
i dont have it in me to treat someone like that
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:03:07 PM No.81703657
>>81702974 (OP)
How about you just stop talking to her about that stuff and spend time together doing things you enjoy? Clearly nothing good has come from these conversations and you may as well stop so you can at least retain her as a girl that you can have positive times with.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:22:22 PM No.81703846
>>81703485

you do have it in you to treat yourself with dignity, OP. that's why you started this thread. you know the way she treated you was unfair, it was painful, and something is amiss

you don't have to be an awful person to females. you can just ignore them. you should only treat them like the absolute shit they are if you want their companionship

it's a simple dichotomy all unattractive males (>90%) inevitably have to come to terms with. the sooner you realize and accept it, the sooner you'll start to be happy

just remember: you think you don't have it in you to treat someone like that, but they have it in them to treat you like that. the female you befriended literally did just treat you like that. think carefully if you want this to be your life going forward