What are the best traits a girl could have? Femanon here. - /r9k/ (#81703575) [Archived: 682 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:53:57 PM No.81703575
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Is there anything that you dislike or love about a girl appereance of personality? Asking for a friend here..
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:55:25 PM No.81703596
>>81703575 (OP)
>Femanon here
nice try stinky 20+ year old basement dweller
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:55:31 PM No.81703597
>>81703575 (OP)
Virgin fr ori
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:56:26 PM No.81703608
>>81703575 (OP)
You should own a horse
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:59:44 PM No.81703632
>>81703575 (OP)
Best traits starting from most imporant
>being my gf
>caring
>loyal
>nice
>understanding
>communicates openly
>has real interests in something and can talk about it
For bad things it would be the opposite
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:59:47 PM No.81703634
>>81703575 (OP)
Yeah when she's not a skank begging for attention from randoms
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:02:01 PM No.81703650
>>81703575 (OP)
Lovable traits and features
>Virgin
>Eating disorder (neuroticism is endearing)
>Passionate
>High cognitive empathy
>Green eyes
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:08:14 PM No.81703693
>>81703575 (OP)
>love about a girl appereance of personality?
Passion
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:08:22 PM No.81703696
>>81703575 (OP)
One of the best traits is not posting on this board.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:08:33 PM No.81703700
>>81703575 (OP)
Have hobbies and interests. Be interesting. Then we'll have stuff to talk about and if we have children, they'll be interesting too.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:09:38 PM No.81703706
>>81703575 (OP)
Desirable women don't post here. So you're already off to a bad start.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:11:30 PM No.81703725
>>81703575 (OP)
personality wise? kind. kind women drive me crazy.
appearance wise? a bit chubby maybe? a nice smile
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:11:31 PM No.81703726
>>81703596
I SWEAR IM A GIRL!!! I dont come on here often im sorry if i used to wrong terminology,,
>>81703608
??? Are you into those white girls that obsess over horses
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:11:38 PM No.81703728
best traits
>skinny
>virgin
>big tits
>short
>big ass
>good at sex
>loyal
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:16:46 PM No.81703768
>>81703632
Isnt this just the bare minimum though?
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:17:01 PM No.81703772
>>81703575 (OP)
>appearance
Looks like anime girl
>personality
Has personality of anime girl (ideally tsundere)
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:18:18 PM No.81703783
>has her own life, she complements and enrich yours
>supportive, not a yes woman but encourages you to step out of the comfort zone and do those things you wished but feel you can't
>trusting, you can tell her anything and you feel she can tell you anything
>optimistic, being with her is a guarantee of a nice time and a brighter day
>caring, you feel you are a team with her and you can not only count with her on anything, but also feel pride and joy in supporting her with her own things
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:19:04 PM No.81703793
>>81703575 (OP)
Be there when I need you
Let me do my hobbies without cringing or getting the ick
Don't sue me for false rape allegations
Don't steal my money and run away with the first Andrew Tate lookalike who promises you a car ride
Be unvaxxed
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:19:34 PM No.81703800
>>81703772
How does one look like an anime girl???? Heavy editing and jap makeup?? Harajuku shit?? Anime girls look like they're the farthest thing from humans but still considered human.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:20:09 PM No.81703806
>>81703768
Yes and no. You have no idea how many girls don't even meet this, especially the first one.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:21:30 PM No.81703829
>>81703575 (OP)
You should own a horse (female)
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:24:32 PM No.81703874
>>81703768
And yet no woman can meet those standards.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:25:40 PM No.81703885
>>81703806
I guess it's different for everyone though. Someone's hobby might seem insignificant to you,, or not enough of an interest. Everyone has something they like except someone people are shy or insecure about it.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:27:11 PM No.81703908
>>81703693
Passion how?
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:28:46 PM No.81703929
>>81703725
What is considered chubby and what is considered skinny. I dont know where i fit in myself with 4 chan standards WWW
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:29:49 PM No.81703939
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>>81703800
You start with having really good genes, ruski and half-jap half-ruski girls are the closest by default. Then you stay in shape, don't get tattoos or piercings, have bangs. Then jap makeup. Clothes don't really matter, but I guess J-fashion drives the point home a bit more.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:35:09 PM No.81703990
>>81703885
That is okay I just said they have to have something they are interested in and that they can talk about. Shy is even a plus. Listen I only put in the minimum standards because women can't even meet them.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:40:18 PM No.81704038
>>81703929
>What is considered chubby and what is considered skinny.
imo it's not something you can determine based on weight / height alone, it's something you notice when you see the body as a whole.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:43:28 PM No.81704067
>>81703575 (OP)
>dislike
Stupidity
Masochism
Childishness / helplessness
Overly sensitive / can't take bants
Self-harming
Overweight
High pitched voice
Ugly short fat feet
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:46:50 PM No.81704107
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>>81703575 (OP)
either goblin archetype (loyal, mischievous, adventurous, sometimes mercurial) or gnome archetype (kind, warm, thrifty-crafty, stable)

do not be the siren or dryad
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:48:00 PM No.81704117
>>81703575 (OP)
No clue. As for me, there's no "best" trait I'm looking for. There are only redflags and if a girl doesn't have them, I'm okay with her.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:01:43 PM No.81704256
>>81703939
She just looks like an asian girl who probs has a very active instagram account and weirdly American. This screams 4th generation immigrant not anime girl.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:07:13 PM No.81704315
>>81703990
Im noticing a lot of "women cant meet bare minimum standards" and it makes me think. So many men don't take care of themselves or their fashion sense and look just plain. You have to guess when they last showered and if they even brush their teeth. Same insecure men babble on about a "male loneliness" epidemic,,, females this,, females that!! Surprisingly (not really), men who take care of themselves or do the bare minimum usually don't think of women in these demeaning ways. At least thats what i have noticed with men my age.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:10:25 PM No.81704346
>>81704315
See how you start talking about looks when I did not mention them at all. Strange isn't it? Almost as if women treat you better when you look good. I shower every day, have a skin care routine and do other basic hygiene tasks. You are clearly from reddit or baiting.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:21:09 PM No.81704458
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>>81703575 (OP)
Personality:
>Being herself and not being a normie that follows the trendy stuff to fit in or because everyone else is doing it, willing to resist social pressure
>being very introverted or asocial if not a little misanthropic
>being Christian and wanting a family
>having hobbies like vidya, reading, drawing etc.
These are all things that are similar to me so I want someone that is like me is the most important, because I think I can only love and be loved by someone like myself.
Appearance:
>doesn't dress to show offish, either pretty basic or just not too showoffish, can be anything from dresses and skirts to just hoodies and t shirts and jeans, just not slutty
>kinda chubby so she's soft and has some boobs and ass, anything is good unless she reaches obesity
>doesn't matter if she wears makeup to look good or not as long as it's not super much
>white
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:23:10 PM No.81704479
>>81703575 (OP)
I like when a girl posts her panties
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:24:41 PM No.81704494
>>81704458
>Christian
Is that what you claim to be?
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:30:22 PM No.81704551
>>81703575 (OP)
Being open minded, capable of delaying pleasure and just be able to bear something instead of endlessly bitching about it. Honestly I don't think I even care about anything else or a girl's interests, these are enough to make her wife material.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:35:43 PM No.81704592
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>>81703575 (OP)
Positive, lustful, unambitious, unpretentious, apolitical, creative, unshaven, homebody, tech savvy, able to build trust, curvy.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:36:14 PM No.81704600
>>81704346
Looks has a bare minimum. Girls are not really attracted to homeless people are they? And don't bring up "net worth" now. You're focusing on the wrong points here.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:39:17 PM No.81704633
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>>81703575 (OP)
>Looks
I don't really have any strong physical preferences.
Short or tall, this type of hair or that type of hair, white black this or that whatever.
I've liked girls that are short, girls that are tall, girls that are curvy, girls that are very flat. Im sure there are underlying biases that I have but nothing too strong.
As long as you're not fat. By fat I don't mean a lil chubby, that's fine, I mean fat.

>Personality
I do have clear biases here. I like women that can stand up for themselves, that can be assertive and that can challenge me. I like people with a bit of an edge to them.
I don't mean crazy or anything but people that like to tease you and challenge you and mess around with you in a playful manner.
I like people with a strong sense of themselves.
I really don't like the more passive or demure types of women that a lot of guys here fetishize. I don't want a lil kid or a slave.
Think Misato from Eva. She embodies a lot of traits personality wise that I like.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:42:13 PM No.81704662
>>81704551
Everywhere I go it's just overgrown, whining children completely incapable of thinking for themselves and bitching about the stupidest shit
>ANON IM BORED CAN WE DO SOMETHING ELSE
>HEYY ANON CAN WE DO SOMETHING?
>like what
>UUUUUUUHHHHHH
>how about X
>NO I DONT LIKE THAT
>ANON HOW DO I DO THIS
>ANON WHAT DO I DO
>ANON IM BAD AT THIS SO IT SUCKS AND IS STUPID
>ANON IM BORED
>ANON DID YOU HEAR ABOUT CANDACE
>ANONANONANONANONANONANONANONANONANONANON
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:43:54 PM No.81704681
>>81703575 (OP)
I like athletic girls because it shows they actually take care of themselves, and also have a certain mental strength to them. Thus, they are less likely to be leeches.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:51:18 PM No.81704752
>>81704681
Leeches????
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:54:51 PM No.81704793
>>81704752
>Leeches????
Metaphorical leeches. Offering little to nothing and continue benefitting off you.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:58:14 PM No.81704830
>>81703575 (OP)
Its difficult to even care anymore. That's likely the reason nobody makes a move on you.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 12:09:24 AM No.81704941
>>81704315
We stopped giving a shit about our looks precisely because women can't meet the bare minimum. If they can't meet the bare minimum, why should we?
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 12:10:26 AM No.81704945
>>81704458
>misanthropic
>wants a family
Lmao.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 12:17:55 AM No.81705015
>>81704494
That's what I am
>>81704945
Sure? Misanthrope might not be fully accurate but it's something close.
Distrust or lack of faith in normies and the mainstream maybe.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 12:50:23 AM No.81705266
>>81703575 (OP)
absolute must have requirements, seriously if you fail on any of those, even this retarded forever alone incel on /r9k/ that is me would reject you.
>biological female
>not obese BMI < 30
>not physically disfigured (e.g. hard facial asymmetries, burn scars)
>virgin
>age < 30, wants kids
Nice traits and you should have at least a few of them:
>cute face
>cute body (flat)
>acts like an anime girl
>IS an anime girl
>is white
>has weird special interests that she gets exited about when she explains them to me
>humms little melodies when she's happy
>is racist and dislikes degeneracy
>Is not a career chick that works 50+hours a week
>is clingy obsessive type
>will write you good night and good morning messages last thing before sleep and first thing when waking up
>asks for my help whenever she needs it and appreciates when I enjoy helping her
>tells me she would literally murder-suicide me if I were to cheat (which i won't do)
>is loyal and obviously wouldn't cheat either
>will install spyware on my phone and a gps tracker in my car
>actively avoids doing shit that might shake my trust in the relationship (e.g. no "totally just a friend" male best friend, even if he's gay and/or really just a friend, no spending 1on1 time with other males who aren't me or maybe your dad or something)
>wouldn't get too mad if I asked for a paternity test if we ever had just for piece of mind (even when I'd be 99.99...% sure she's loyal)
>wouldn't even need to ask her for a paternity test if we ever had kids, she'd just think its a given that males should obviously do one by default before signing a birth certificate regardless of circumstances, hence she'd book an appointment without me even needing to ask.
>will support me in public unconditionally infront of all and any 3rd party, no matter who it is or how retarded my opinion is
>will tell me in private how retarded my opinion is and convince me to change them if they are actually retarded.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 12:52:40 AM No.81705272
>>81705015
>That's what I am
Claiming you are something doesn't make you that thing.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:04:49 AM No.81705368
>>81705272
not him, nor a christfag?
but I'm pretty sure all you have to do to be a christfag is be like
>I am a Sinner, I accept Jesus Christ as my lord and saviour, I accept he died on the cross for my sins.
And if you actually and unironically believe that 100% to the core, that makes you a Christian (and you will go to heaven).
Did I understand that correctly or were the Christfags who explained that to me lying?
Because AFAIK you cannot gatekeep anyone out of that, if they say that and believe that, they are DEFINITIONALLY christians, and Jesus will save them, even if they have otherwise different interpretations of christianity or do weird different shit like evangelicals vs catholics vs orthodox vs whatever else christian sects or denominations are out there...
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:08:41 AM No.81705393
>>81705368
I just find it so weird that "Christians" do absolutely nothing in their power to be "good" ppl. Also really makes me wonder what kind of skeletons that they have in their closet that they need some imaginary fairy in the sky to save them
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:09:30 AM No.81705399
>>81703575 (OP)
>Is there anything that you dislike or love about a girl appereance of personality? Asking for a friend here..
you are secretly hoping someone describes you, right?
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:10:09 AM No.81705404
>>81705393
"Christians" are a group of people over 1 billion in number. Your American hick village of 30 nutjob evangelicals does not represent the whole of Christianity.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:10:24 AM No.81705406
>>81703575 (OP)
cute, with subjects shes passionate about.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:11:54 AM No.81705420
>>81705404
Not a deep thinker are ya bud. Kinda embarrassing tbqh
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:12:38 AM No.81705425
>>81704941
Im not gonna bother. Yes females only care about your looks and net worth. yes we're gold diggers. no we don't care about families. you should freeze your eggs and work and also i suppress this male fantasy version of me inside that has a breeding kink. This is what every woman on the globe thinks right? They're too stupid to be a decent human being riggghht??
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:16:31 AM No.81705456
>>81705399
No. So many anons think im talking about myself but i just want a general opinion. Im curious about randoms prefrences not a 4 channer wanting me. Im not that desperate habahahahaag. "What about a girl matters the most to you" would be a better title.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:17:03 AM No.81705463
>>81705272
Sure but I attend church and believe in Jesus Christ.
>>81705393
I don't really have skeletons in my closet. Not that I think I wouldn't be willing to talk to other people about.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:19:08 AM No.81705488
>>81705463
>I don't really have skeletons in my closet.
And he's liar. Very Christlike of you
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:19:57 AM No.81705493
>>81705456
>"What about a girl matters the most to you" would be a better title.
if that's the case, then the thing that matters the most is empathy and care. physically speaking, i'd say... maybe her not being obese?
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:22:46 AM No.81705521
>>81705488
What makes you think I'm lying?