Do not date a girl with bpd, you can fuck her, you can be friends with benefits with her, but do not let her be your gf or marry her unless you want constant headaches, fighting, insecurity, and threats and no its not hot and fun and cool like the crazy girls in your favorite animes or whatever. Fucking annoying. Enjoy this free wisdom from my life though

you really married her? why?

>>81705438 (OP)
Bpds only get triggered by narcissists so maybe get some therapy bud

>>81705438 (OP)
Why don't you leave her?
>>81705449
>t. BPD roastie

>>81705449
ssshhh no bpd people are evil and narcissists are victims
don't go against the status quo

>>81705508
Narcissists can't stand bpds that stand up to them and avpds that ignore them

>>81705528
Lol. Oh ya. I forgot

>>81705443
I wont go to much into my personal life beyond just this post here as that is not the point to this thread, the point is the warning, Ive been with my gf for a few years and we are planning on getting married, I put up with her shit because her genes and looks are what i want and we also share nearly identical beliefs and she is very loyal ontop of that, but when her bpd phases kick in it lasts usually for hours, sometimes fucking days and its just basically dealing with a angry or sad animal at the drop of a hat and theres no logical way or emotional way to guide her out of it, you just have to deal with it and it gets old quick

>>81705553
I'm so sorry you had to go through that.

>>81705553
What does she do when she's angry?
What does she accuse you of?

>>81705631
She threatens with suicide alot

>>81705553
>and it gets old quick
that's why it happens, because you don't care

>>81705740
oh how devastating would it be for the girl you pretend to care about to kill herself! THE HIT TO YOUR REPUTATION!!!

kill yourself

>>81705993
how much do you weigh you fat bitch? the fact you even think i have a reputation to begin with shows that youre a over socialized normie whore, good job defending literal mental illness by the way that makes you look like someone others should listen to

>>81705553
why are you planning on getting married then you retard

what do you think is going to happen once she has the legal power to divorce rape you into slavery

>>81706036
there's nothing wrong with you OP, you did the right thing

>>81706049
im to poor to divorce rape

>>81706036
you don't like her, support her, care about her, or talk with her and complain about her online to vent all of this out and SHE'S the MENTALLY ILL ONE?

I really hope she finds a way to crawl out from under your narcissistic abuse

>>81706080
no you're not, the courts don't fucking care and even if you were any assets you gain during the marriage are liable

I'm calling you a retard because I love you OP. I care about you even though you're a fucking moron putting pussy on the pedestal and probably too young to make responsible choices

don't marry this ballache unless you think whining on 4chan will help you feel better once she starts getting worse

>>81706084
get your fucking fat ass on a scale and read to me what the fuck it says, do you understand what is coming out of my MOUTH

>>81706320
More narcissist rage. Pathetic

>>81706333
oh trust me, when i rage, the world begins to tremble, you would feel the horrible dark aura of my malice from 10000 miles away, you havnt even begun to witness my inner demon form

>>81706433
>world begins to tremble
Oh shut the fuck up beta

>>81705449
>>81705528
>>81705530
are y'all retarded lol BPD is not some "strong independent woman-itis" disease, it's a mental illness that's well documented as being extremely difficult and draining to be around in both men and women.

>>81705993
idk why everybody is immediately pinning OP as a narcissist but threatening suicide is like one of the biggest dealbreakers to a relationship I can think of, and it's not dependent on gender

>The hit to your reputation
no retard it's because having someone you care about threaten suicide over and over again is an emotional rollercoaster and not something that the average person should have to deal with

>"but if you care about her you'll stick by her"
sure, but also there's nothing wrong with leaving someone because they're too mentally ill and unstable. just because something isn't somebody's FAULT doesn't mean that people should just deal with it

>>81706468
Alright I see, well perhaps maybe a slight sort of ''demonstration'' is in order then, lets say hm 20% of my power?
>enters my powering up stance
rrrrrruuuaaaaaAAAAAAUUUUUUUHHHHHHHGRR!!!!
had enough yet? are you scared now? or do I need to unleash even more of my wrath out onto this pathetic little planet that you call home

>>81705438 (OP)
Is she insane enough to date a 5'3 sea monkey?

>>81705438 (OP)
Britbong here my German gf has Schizophrenia and BPD, she was just committed to a mental institution. I feel broken, I just visited her two weeks ago and she was fine, now she's only partially there and thinks that people are out to kill her. I was writing her poetry when I got the call, I love her so much I can't let her go, she's all I have and she's locked away countries away. I fucking hate this world, this life or the next I will meet her again.

I went to group therapy once and there was a girl with bpd there. I had to fight the urge to call her a BPDemon with every fiber of my being lmao

>>81707792
yea when theyre good and normal its the best, but the lows are so low that it usually isnt worth it all together for most guys id say