Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:22:50 AM No.81708235
has your father ever voiced his disappointment in you? mine did it through my childhood alot, because i didnt get in trouble or want to play sports like he did as a kid.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:26:52 AM No.81708259
>>81708235 (OP)
i didnt talk to my father as often as id have liked to.
try not to dwell on the shitty parts of the past, focus on the good instead
i didnt talk to my father as often as id have liked to.
try not to dwell on the shitty parts of the past, focus on the good instead
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:27:53 AM No.81708265
>>81708235 (OP)
Father's gate seeing their sons come out as troons. Even if they never troon. Troondom is a state of being. If you were the quiet kid who never got on trouble or showed interest in anything then you are functionally a troon in your father's subconscious. It would only be conscious if you put on the makeup but most of us here are severe disappointments to our father's deep down. We talk about chad all the time, but really, chad is just the kind of guy that makes his father proud by being who he is naturally. We will never be that.
Father's gate seeing their sons come out as troons. Even if they never troon. Troondom is a state of being. If you were the quiet kid who never got on trouble or showed interest in anything then you are functionally a troon in your father's subconscious. It would only be conscious if you put on the makeup but most of us here are severe disappointments to our father's deep down. We talk about chad all the time, but really, chad is just the kind of guy that makes his father proud by being who he is naturally. We will never be that.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:30:27 AM No.81708277
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:31:59 AM No.81708285
>>81708259
aw :( im sorry. i try to be positive but i dont have many good memories in life so it is hard
>>81708265
i had interest in art and apparently clothes according to my mom but i dont remember that
i feel like that shouldve been enough for him, and he could have forgiven me for not being cool and masculine as he would have liked me to be
aw :( im sorry. i try to be positive but i dont have many good memories in life so it is hard
>>81708265
i had interest in art and apparently clothes according to my mom but i dont remember that
i feel like that shouldve been enough for him, and he could have forgiven me for not being cool and masculine as he would have liked me to be
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:37:26 AM No.81708317
>>81708235 (OP)
Nah, my father was really proud of me growing up. He was a good dad.
He's dead now, and I miss him a lot.
Nah, my father was really proud of me growing up. He was a good dad.
He's dead now, and I miss him a lot.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:48:13 AM No.81708384
When I was a nerdy kid he always called me a faggot
He was right
He was right
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 8:05:00 AM No.81708488
>>81708235 (OP)
I stopped caring about what my father and the men in my family and extended family think when I began to see them as people and not as authoritarian figures in my life.
I stopped caring about what my father and the men in my family and extended family think when I began to see them as people and not as authoritarian figures in my life.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 8:07:53 AM No.81708506
I was probably 10 years old. He knew I was didn't. Just thought I was retarded or whatever and felt like I was a chore to be around. Mind you, this is still when he was trying to rekindle a relationship with us kids before he just stopped giving a fuck.
He's in a wheelchair now, so HAH.
He's in a wheelchair now, so HAH.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 8:10:38 AM No.81708519
>>81708235 (OP)
sometimes but they raised me like a lazy loser so i cant really take it seriously
sometimes but they raised me like a lazy loser so i cant really take it seriously
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 8:11:55 AM No.81708526