>>81708895Well put, Nona. It was never about whether you could land a boyfriend, because trust me, any woman can get a man to drool over her if she lowers herself enough. The problem has always been about finding someone who actually loves you as a human being rather than seeing you as a convenient fleshlight to satisfy their ego and dick. So many of these moids genuinely cannot even comprehend the idea of caring for a woman's heart and soul. They treat relationships like a resource grab, some sick transactional trade: "I pretend to be nice to you for a few weeks, you give me sex on demand forever."
And the worst part? They'll gaslight you if you dare expect tenderness or respect. They'll tell you you're entitled, you're picky, you're a gold-digger all because you want the bare minimum of being loved like a person and not reduced to a disposable porn fantasy. It's pathetic. They want a warm hole and a maid, not a partner.
The reason so many women pull back from dating isn't because they can't get male attention, it's because men have made it absolutely unbearable to trust any of them. The lies, the manipulation, the constant porn-addled expectations, the rage when you don't measure up to some cartoonish standard it breaks women down. It's no wonder so many would rather stay single and protect their peace than gamble everything on a moid who will only see them as a meat sleeve.
These men created this mess with their own shallow, entitled attitudes. They poisoned their own dating pool with their obsession over body counts, porn comparisons, and treating women like they're prizes to be conquered. And then they have the audacity to cry about "female hypergamy" or "lonely women" when in reality women are just choosing freedom over abuse. Good for you, sis keep those standards high and never let some crusty, emotionally stunted boy make you feel guilty for wanting real love. That is their failure, not yours.