I hate being Asian - /r9k/ (#81713097) [Archived: 630 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:25:16 PM No.81713097
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>Be me
>Asian guy, late 20's
>Never had a gf
>Never had sex
>Sister can't stop gushing over white guys
>Constantly talks about which white guy celebrity she thinks is hot
>Never once ever mentions any handsome Asian celebrities, just white guys
>A few months ago, she tells us she's dating a guy in college
>Of course, it's a white guy
>It sickens me to think about the kinda degrading race roleplay shit they do in bed
>My parents are not even objecting to her dating a white guy because all they care about is having a grandchild
>Sister introduces her bf to our cousin's and all her friends
>Next minute, this white motherfucker introduces all her friends and single female cousins to his white frat bro buddies
>In a span of like 6 weeks, all my single female cousins and all my sister's hot friends, including the one I had a crush on, are all hitched up to one of his white frat boy buddies
>Every family gathering now feels like a humiliation ritual specifically directed at me
>All the young females are starry eyed with their white bf's
>Meanwhile, I just sit there like a cuck getting mogged by white frat boys
>I try telling my parents that it's literally impossible for Asian guys to get girlfriend's anymore
>Parents just dismiss my concerns and get on my case for not having a girlfriend
>Other relatives like uncles, aunts get on my case for not having a gf as well
>They literally don't give a fuck about my struggles and won't even listen to me
>Asian girls won't date me
>Literally most other females of other ethnicities are taller than me, so I have no hope in hell of getting with any of them

I fucking hate being an Asian man. It's life's greatest humiliation ritual. God was like, "Oh let's make these motherfuckers even shorter than the females of other races. The only people they will be taller than will be the females of their own race who I'll biologically hardwire to be attracted to men of European descent.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:27:46 PM No.81713121
>>81713097 (OP)
Anon I think you just want to fuck your sister.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:30:45 PM No.81713151
>>81713097 (OP)
>Parents just dismiss my concerns
Iktf. I'm not Asian, but south asian parents are the same. They're utterly disconnected from reality and I think the issue is that both cultures promote conformance and taking the path of least resistance.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:35:01 PM No.81713199
>>81713097 (OP)
Oh, come on, East Asian is a pretty good race to be born as. High average IQ and good athleticism. Japan came in at 3rd place in the last Olympics (would have probably gotten 4th if Russia wasn't banned), South Korea 8th, and China 2nd.
Well, that's if you're East Asian. If you're Southeast Asian, my condolences.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:35:18 PM No.81713201
>>81713151 Yep. All my parents give a fuck about is having grandchildren. You tell them how brutal the dating market is, and that getting a girlfriend is literally impossible for us. And they'll something stupid like "Look, your father also short. I still marry him." And it's like yeah that's because he was young like 100 years ago in a country where every guy looked like him. I am competing against 6 foot guys with blue eyes and muscles. I am completely fucked.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:49:13 PM No.81713340
>>81713097 (OP)
>Meanwhile, I just sit there like a cuck getting mogged by white frat boys
if you're skinny bulk up otherwise yeah, deepest condolences ricecel - fully understand if you go ER one day but seeing as you've made it this far I'm sure you have good money to cope?
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:54:07 PM No.81713391
>>81713097 (OP)
>be me, white
>out of all the asian girl-white guy couples I see irl it's either some old man with a fillipina or a very mid girl with an even more mid white guy
>9.9/10 times I see a cute asian girl walking with her boyfriend the boyfriend is an asian guy usually mid and skinnyfat
it's all in you head
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 8:05:32 PM No.81713494
>>81713391 Oh yeah so all my female cousins and my sisters female friends dating white guys and gushing over them non stop is all in my head. Okay yep, makes total sense retard.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 8:06:58 PM No.81713505
>>81713097 (OP)
im quite certain white hands typed out this post
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 8:11:19 PM No.81713541
>>81713097 (OP)
tell them that your sister and family are all the white mans whore and race traitors, and the rest of your races women are no better than (insert other asian race)'s hookers

i think asian parents get really mad about asian race relations.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 8:15:54 PM No.81713603
>>81713121
keklmao i think so, good observation anon
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 8:16:35 PM No.81713613
>>81713097 (OP)
i've seen cute white girls date cute asian guys (we don't have latina or black girls here)
most asian guys have gfs
white girls love misogynistic asian men as evidenced by kpop
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 8:18:17 PM No.81713634
>>81713505
Yeah. It is bad but if you've got Asian social circles, you absolutely have a chance. I barely know any Asians though lol.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 8:42:26 PM No.81713905
>>81713097 (OP)
it's not really fair anon, sry

i lucked out at least being femoid and asian
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 9:31:27 PM No.81714394
>>81713097 (OP)
so did you actually ask women out and took care of your body or did you just stay inside studying and then you complain about women dating men who have actually shown interest in them?
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 9:39:12 PM No.81714469
>>81713097 (OP)
If all Timmys get asian GFs, then there won't be anymore Timmys, just a generation of Elliot Rogers. The gook genes are winning in the long run.
WMAF=white genocide.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 9:41:47 PM No.81714488
>>81713097 (OP)
it's not because you're asian. its because you're autistic and probably ugly
have you ever asked a girl out?
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 9:44:41 PM No.81714505
>>81713097 (OP)

Well it's obviously time to stop posting, acquire a firearm and perpetrate a mass casualty event!
What are you waiting for, yellow FAGET?
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:11:25 PM No.81714800
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>>81713121
Based Asian anon, living up to your roots
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:13:22 PM No.81714823
>>81713494
My family has the men dating whites with one engaged, my sister is dating Mexican, its almost as if every situation is diffferrreeeeennnnt~
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:18:17 PM No.81714871
>>81713097 (OP)
Okay, I can't help but see that the dude in this pic looks similar to me, except I have baggier hair and a stronger jawline.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:21:34 PM No.81714901
>>81713097 (OP)
last year i turned an asian girl gay and i always think of her when i read these threads. your women literally decided their partners being tall and white is more important than their partners having dicks. i am more attractive than you even to straight women.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:27:53 PM No.81714953
>>81713097 (OP)
sounds like you should get a white BF too
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:28:55 PM No.81714968
>>81714901
have had pretty much only white bfs.... they seem to really like asian pussy lol
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:34:32 PM No.81715013
>>81714469
I'm not sure if I'd call it winning.
>mom complains about me not being bigger/taller
>also keeps asking when I'll get a girlfriend
>jokes about not wanting to be a grandma so young as a coping mechanism
>don't really belong anywhere
>undesired by pretty much everyone
To be fair, it could be worse though, so I can't complain too much. At least video games will always be there for me.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:41:46 PM No.81715077
>>81714901
As revenge, I'll turn you straight
t. Asian
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:44:43 PM No.81715104
>>81713097 (OP)
Sounds like a you issue anon. Im east asian and I have a gf. But im also a decent height and not autistic. Go outside for once and stop cucking yourself.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:49:13 PM No.81715147
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>>81713097 (OP)
Im so happy I was born a bean and not rice. My women still want me despite also wanting whitey unlike yours.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:49:53 PM No.81715155
>>81715104
How tall and what is your skin tone?
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:50:54 PM No.81715166
>>81715013
The males are culled but the females will continue to reproduce. Your genes will live on as long as the males arent Asian or hapa.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 10:53:25 PM No.81715188
>>81715147
im a bean and literally look semi-jeetish and it doesnt even matter because I grew up knowing how to talk to women. of course jeets are fucking ugly and many beans are as well, but there's just something about the demeanor of jeets that put women on edge. I dont feel I have free reign with women, and in particular asian women are tough nut to crack

all I know is I have not struggled with women as an adult.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:08:20 PM No.81715339
Oldfags are right u guys are pathetic, who gives a shit
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:09:06 PM No.81715350
>>81715155
>How tall
Im 5'11 but im also 135-140 ish pounds so thats my trade off but women don't really care.
>what is your skin tone?
Umm, Im east asian, so yellow? But if you're asking if im a brown/tan looking asian, then no.
And if it give you hope, im average looking and I would say my gf is above average but that might be bias.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:15:30 PM No.81715417
>>81713097 (OP)
you're a pussy and a Ioser, go hit the gym
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:16:34 PM No.81715427
>>81715166
Some families will have only guys though. In the case of my family, you work hard a lot of your life, for what? So your kid can jerk off and play video games for the rest of his life? It is lucky for me, but I do feel a bit guilty about it. Seems like a real waste for people that care about continuing their lineage and all that.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:20:04 PM No.81715471
>>81715350
Well, anon. A sea monkey like me is only 5'3" and I'm brown. So, how fucked am I?
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:20:39 PM No.81715481
>>81713097 (OP)
I don't feel like reading your cuck fantasy but you probably had a shit father and you need to find some purpose in life, OP. I'm a white guy but I'm still an incel loser, quit blaming shit on your race. I'm pretty dead set on fucking off to east asia (maybe Japan or China) at some point here and I think being Asian would be awesome as it would allow me to fit in better. There are plenty of benefits to being asian such as:
-Japs who run no gaijin restaurants more likely to let you in
-cheaper prices with hookers in asia
-don't stick out like a sore thumb in asia
-statistically speaking you're more likely to have a high IQ although I don't know you
-asians can all eat like pigs and stay thin somehow so maybe enjoy some noodles or something I dunno

As you can see, there are many benefits to being an asian man. Your impression of white men is only based on chads, not losers like me.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:29:05 PM No.81715566
>>81713097 (OP)
>>It sickens me to think about the kinda degrading race roleplay shit they do in bed
Weird that that's the first thing your mind goes to. The overwhelming vast majority of couples, normal or race-mixers, just do normal vanilla sex.

>My parents are not even objecting to her dating a white guy because all they care about is having a grandchild
Sounds like you could have prevented their apathy by giving them the grandchild they wanted yourself.

>>81713151
>Parents just dismiss my concerns
I'm white and they do this to me too. It's a pretty universal parent thing to do.
Besides, it's normal for them to dismiss race concerns.
>Well gee anon, I was an an asian male too and I got a gf (your mother), so how hard can it be? Also there's like over a billion of us so clearly most of us figured it out
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:31:25 PM No.81715585
>be me
>6'3
>white
>single

Idk what to tell you OP.
It's not some magic get-gf combo.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:32:27 PM No.81715597
>>81713151
I feel bad for asian bro but I will never feel bad for you, disgusting jeet. Fuck off.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:39:02 PM No.81715661
>>81714469
Yeah but then theres no white girls. I dont want half asian girls. Something about them seems off mentally.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:39:36 PM No.81715668
>>81715585
>It's not some magic get-gf combo.
dont act retarded. being 6'3, which is well above average and comfortably above the 6'1 minimum height threshold for most foids, as well as having the most sexually desirable ethnicity in the world, places you in a much more advantageous position than a short, timid east asian man living in a western country where his race is considered probably the 2nd or 3rd least desirable to almost all foids. the only saving grace he has is either nichemaxxing and hopefully finding a western girl whos obsessed with asia (though this will only work if hes korean, japanese or maybe chinese) or if he finds a traditional girl of his own ethnicity who doesnt want to marry out of her own kin either by her own choice of her parent's.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:46:18 PM No.81715729
>>81713097 (OP)
I'm white and I totally sympathize with you man keep your head up
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:48:38 PM No.81715749
mewve to europe or b2asia they like asian guys americas too brutish
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:59:41 PM No.81715830
>>81715668
It's actually more extreme than that. Thanks to people lying about their heights what women think is 6'1 is actually 5'11 max. I'm speaking from experience. I am 6'1 in the evening barefoot and I have been told quite a few times that I must be 6'3 minimum, both by men and women. So a legit 6'3 would probably register as 6'6 or something in their eyes
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Anonymous
7/5/2025, 12:28:19 AM No.81716117
>>81715597
Lol the reasons ppl have for hating indians pretty much all apply to asians, asians just get a pass because muh anime and ramen. They are also taking your jobs and your population but keep seething at indians kek
Anonymous
7/5/2025, 12:39:39 AM No.81716253
>>81715668
Are you retarded? You're agreeing with me while pretending to argue with me.

What I said:
>it's not a 1hitKO, there are other other factors
What you said:
>It puts you in a more advantageous position!

Yeah, no shit. I never said otherwise. I said that there's more to it than that. So, instead of focusing on that, focus on the other stuff.
I'm here on the chans just like you.
I have those traits you're envious of, and I'm single.
If you believe that "if only I had those traits!" you would have a gf, then you're indirectly claiming you're better than me in those other areas. Maybe it's true, I don't know, but it comes across awfully arrogant.
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Anonymous
7/5/2025, 12:41:34 AM No.81716270
>>81715830
I don't even understand why women want (such) a tall guy. As the 6'3 guy, I've seen a few legitimate 6'6 or 6'8 guys, and you know what my first thought was? That's actually kind of intimidating. Maybe it's selection bias because I almost never see anyone bigger than me, but damn.
I also saw a woman taller than me a few times and that also throws brain for a loop.
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Anonymous
7/5/2025, 12:49:10 AM No.81716356
>>81715471
>So, how fucked am I?
Idk to be honest anon. But judging from your other post you first need to stop being such a cuck and in all honesty a loser. (assuming ur OP) Ik this might be crazy to you but height, race, and skin colour isnt the end all and be all. Ik lots of short guys that have gfs by just being not autistic. Ik ur gonna say "ofc the somewhat tall person with a gf is givng bullshit generic advice, im doomed blah blah blah". If so, I think it really is over for you. But you cant change you race, height, or skin colour so just stop dwelling on it and focus on something else like being a better person, making more money or smth. Also, how tall is your dad and how old are you? You might still grow taller. Also, hit the gym, and thats coming from me a 140 pound twig, but do as i say and not as i do. Keep your head up king, theres hope for everyone.
Anonymous
7/5/2025, 12:49:47 AM No.81716367
>>81713097 (OP)
Sorry to heard that east asian living in western country, I as east asian living in the east think you a wuss just like the rest of west asian men that bitch and moan but I don't blame you entirely due to propaganda of yellow peril. But still I think you are very lucky because I would totally date and fuck white women if I were in your shoes.
Anonymous
7/5/2025, 12:57:04 AM No.81716462
Yeah anon I think this is exclusively a you problem. I'm Asian too and the only girls I've fucked were other Asian girls. All my first experiences were with Asian girls. You sound like a loser that's blaming all your problems on some obscure reason

> t. Asian anon
Anonymous
7/5/2025, 1:00:07 AM No.81716502
>>81715147
Go outside and touch grass. Every single race prefers dating their own race compared to others
Anonymous
7/5/2025, 1:02:59 AM No.81716539
Wtf are with all these normalfag responses, normalfags would rather pin the blame on someone who's not good looking instead of offering sympathy, disgusting. All this virtue signaling to maintain just world fallacy and make you feel like you did a good thing by telling someone how they need to pick themselves up by the bootstraps, literal boomer tier rhetoric.
Anonymous
7/5/2025, 1:12:43 AM No.81716642
>>81716270
Well we should be grateful for being 6'1/6'3, that range is about where you get all the benefits without it being awkward in everyday life. Of course giants have bragging rights but idk if it would be worth it
Anonymous
7/5/2025, 1:13:44 AM No.81716648
>>81716253
>it's not a 1hitKO, there are other other factors
it may not be a 1hitKO, but unless youre a 3/10 or below in the face or are mentally handicapped, its quite literally yours to lose. im assuming youre neither because you never claimed as such
>then you're indirectly claiming you're better than me in those other areas. Maybe it's true, I don't know, but it comes across awfully arrogant.
didnt mean to come off as arrogant but i see how you couldve gotten the impression. im not saying that i am better than you in other areas, im saying that your celibacy is more than likely voluntary if you can manage to be in the top 5% of male height and arent ethnic/brown but still cant get a girlfriend
Anonymous
7/5/2025, 1:17:11 AM No.81716676
>>81713097 (OP)
I've seen tall asians around.
Every now and then I will see an asian guy that's over 6ft. Even the sea ones.
Is it not possible to get a gf from your country of origin? Why not try to go there?
Also kpop made asian guys popular among social media addicted girls. Plastic surgery is cheap as hell in asian countries and optimal for asian faces. You could try that.
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Anonymous
7/5/2025, 1:18:46 AM No.81716693
>>81713097 (OP)
What height and what ethnicity?
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Anonymous
7/5/2025, 1:20:33 AM No.81716717
>>81713097 (OP)
Elliot talking, I present my respects to the supreme gentleman
Anonymous
7/5/2025, 1:23:31 AM No.81716743
>>81716676
OP is just retarded and probably sits inside all day wondering why he can't get a gf.

Asian guys statistically are the most successful race of guys to end up with Asian girls as people tend to stick with their own race. So I don't know what OP is complaining about.
Anonymous
7/5/2025, 1:32:16 AM No.81716821
>>81716693
OP here, 6'10 and Chinese. If you're asian and under 7 foot, you're a manlet and will never have sex in your entire life