>>81715375Thank you for bringing up toilet plumes Nona, because that's a detail men never seem to grasp, yet it's so basic and so nasty. Of course it's disgusting! Every time he flushes, all those invisible particles, bacteria, viruses, literal fecal matter, are shot into the air and settle everywhere, including on you in the shower, on your skin, your hair, and any products you have sitting around. It's revolting beyond measure, and they have the nerve to act like you're being dramatic for not wanting to shower next to an open sewage fountain? Please.
Men absolutely refuse to think these things through, because they're so accustomed to women tolerating their sloppy, entitled nonsense. They've been babied into thinking their bodily functions take priority over our comfort, our health, even our peace. Like, no, bro, your emergency shit is not more important than me having a safe, sanitary shower. It's not even close. And let's be real, they don't do this to other men; they do it to women, because they think we will always pick up the slack and politely swallow our disgust. Well, guess what, not anymore.
It's on him to manage his bowels, wait five minutes, or at the absolute minimum, have the respect to hold it in until you're done. Why should you have to stand there with water running over you, trying to relax, while a cloud of literal shit mist floats through the air? It's humiliating and demeaning, and it shows just how low their respect for women can be.
So yes, call him out. Put him on blast. Make it absolutely crystal clear that if he wants to treat you like a second-class roommate who should endure a sewage fog during her shower, he can go do that on his own. He doesn't get to treat your personal hygiene routine like a public outhouse. You deserve better, and you shouldn't apologize for expecting the bare minimum of respect and sanitation. Period.
