For men who only want to date a virgin, why? What is the appeal?

>>81715912 (OP)
I don't want some other guy to have fucked my wife, simple as that.

>>81715912 (OP)
My guess is they think they'll compare unfavorably to other men she's been with, most guys definitely won't be the very best in every single way. So if she's a totally inexperienced virgin she simply won't know any better

>>81715912 (OP)
Tainted

>>81715992
No way this is an original comment.

>>81715984
This is pure 100% female projection. No man is worrying about comparing unfavourably to past partners. It is a territorial thing, see >>81715950

>>81715912 (OP)
Knowing another man has touched her would hurt viscerally. my first wouldn't be special for her, I'd just be number 2, 3, 4. I'd have to emotionally detach myself not to be destroyed

t. 21yo KHHV

>>81716008
>No man is worrying about comparing unfavourably to past partners.
lol

lmao

>>81715912 (OP)
I'm a virgin, what would be special for me would be just the second, third, fourth or fifth time she did that, i also be very fucking upset and uncomfortable knowing some other guys fucked the shit out of her in every possible way before she got with me so that's why virgin only for me

>>81716008
No, that is 100% how I feel as a man.

>>81715992
I asked what the appeal of a virgin woman was

As someone who has had sex more than once, there is nothing special or magical about your very first sexual experience. If anything it's mostly cringe and awkward and not very enjoyable for anyone involved, it only gets good after you figure out where everything is and how it works.

Same with partners. I've been with virgin girls and I've been with absolute sluts and shockingly enough the best kind of girl is somewhere in the middle.

>>81715912 (OP)
i dont really have a preference, but it would be cute to explore sex stuff together

>>81716102
NTA but shared innocence for me, if you're not a virgin and want a virgin girl you're just fucking weird or insecure imo

>>81715912 (OP)
Because I am virgin myself. And I also want to experience innocent romance. I want to learn with her. I want to do things for the first time with her. I just think of sex as the most intimate thing another person can do and I can't really relate to or want to associate with someone that doesn't take it serious like I do.
And I am also Christian so I want to only have sex with the girl that I will marry.

>>81715912 (OP)
>What is the appeal?
matching experience levels

>>81715992
is a man tainted too?

>>81716287
Honestly it doesn't even need to be more than this.
Why should you expect otherwise?
Isn't there a clear imbalance when you are 2 people with such a difference in experience?
Most say it's wrong for a 30 year old to date an 18 year old because of how different their life experience is right?

>>81716344
no because a man that can get laid deserves merit. some slut spreading her legs is no praise worthy achievement.

I don't want to be compared to other men, plain and simple.
I don't want her to lie there and think about how ex#4 was bigger, ex#2 ate her out better, ex#10 had better strokes, etc.
I don't want her to try and make me feel better by saying I'm better than SOME of her exes.
I don't want to be who she SETTLES for because I'm at the end of a long line of bridges she burned or was burned on.
I don't want her to cry and complain about her abusechad exes.
I don't want her to be completely on guard and wary of me, or have her heart closed to me because of things I WOULDN'T DO, BUT OTHER MEN DID.

>>81716380
so its ok for a man to be horny and have sex but its not ok for a woman to be horny and have sex or else shes a slut is what you're saying

>>81715912 (OP)
I want a shared experience

>>81716394
wont you compare her to your previous partners?

>>81715912 (OP)
>only want to date a virgin
can't be just that
>she has to be at least a 8/10
>she can't dye her hair
>she can't have any piercings
>she can't have any tattoos
>she can't travel
>she can't be on social media
>she can't have male friends
>she can't be into modern music, or modern movies, or modern tv shows
>she has to be a complete prude who is embarrassed of her own vagina, while also being a sex slave who worships my penis
>she can't have any political opinion different than my own
>she can't be smarter than me, but also can't be dumber than me
>she can't go out dancing with her female friends
>she can't have any female friends, just to be safe

and dudes be like "I'm not asking for much"

>>81715912 (OP)
It's all about control with these ppl

>>81716399
it's impressive for a women to practice restraint. It's impressive for a man to show he is charismatic and desirable.

>>81716424
>It's all about control with these ppl
No it isn't

>>81716424
>have a literal dozen reasons ITT
you:
>hurr durr it must be le control!1

>>81716430
it is impressive for a woman to practice restraint but being a man whore isn't something to be proud of either

>>81716453
He shouldn't be a whore but he shouldn't be a complete failure when it comes to courting women either.

>>81716424
it is lol

>>81716399
you don't see me complaining that men are called creepy, perverted or pigs for being interested in sex while women get a free pass for some reason.
all women have to do to get laid is go out and spread their legs, they don't even have to put effort into it. and that's ALL women. so it's nothing special and gives no woman bragging rights.

>>81716444
OP here, not really. The only main reason people have listed in this thread is: a virgin wont compare me to other guys. (Sans the majority of virgin men in this thread who want a virgin woman for the shared inexperience, which I would say is a valid reason)

>>81716494
>bro can't get the free easy pussy that ALL women are giving out, apparently

>>81715912 (OP)
Likely antagonizing common sense from anons, I wouldn't want to date/marry a virgin. The idea of taking someone's virginity sounds scary to me, and I'm not sure I'd be up to the responsibility of being an exemplary husband

>>81716505
>a virgin wont compare me to other guys. (Sans the majority of virgin men in this thread who want a virgin woman for the shared inexperience
aren't those the same reason, just worded differently

>>81716518
i didn't say women give it to anyone, disingenuous freak

>>81716505
And why do you call that control?

>>81716414
What previous partners?

>>81716534
>i didn't say women give it to anyone
so what's the problem?

other than, they didn't give it to you

>>81716529
No. Like >>81716413 mentioned, it makes sense for a virgin to want another virgin since it is a first time activity for the both of them. Ive yet to see a reason that is not centered around a perception of non-virgin woman, like ~they were fucked by 10in bbc before i dont want that ahhhhhhh!!!!!!!!~. I wonder if there are other reasons, but if thats the only one, then Ill accept it I guess.

>>81716582
>so what's the problem?
>other than, they didn't give it to you
you changing subjects.

>>81716529
No, I have more to offer than sex and can always improve. If they can't accept that, they can fuck off. Therefore, it's not about control, bitch.

>>81715984
r*ddit feminist meme which some NPC instinctively blurts out with zero thought, can we have a real conversation

>>81716049 >>81716062
so you think about other dudes having sex with your gf/wife a lot, well if you marry a virgin you don't have to worry about that

if you're curious about sex and how to bring her to orgasm you can easily find videos of women masturbating and using dildos to learn about the clitoris and g spot and so on, no need even for you to taint your penis with some nasty whore's pussy and get HPV, or, you know, you could just ask her

there is no need for your wife to be a stupid whore and get fucked by 20 niggers to prove you are good at sex

>>81716613
Personally I would only date a real lady, and a real lady has had sex with at least 100 hung black men!

>>81716494
i don't understand what you mean by this. are you justifying men sleeping around because they always have to put in the effort but its not ok for a woman to sleep around because they don't have to put in as much effort?

>>81716025
These days you'd be number fucking 374

>>81716679
i'm saying that women that brag about sleeping around like it's an achievement look stupid.

The only reason I don't care is because I am not a virgin. Virgin men unironically deserve virgin women (and vice versa)

But even I dont want to date the town bicycle. Quit being gross whores

>>81716687
I'd marry such a woman and then not have sex with her, that's the bvIIs job

>>81716697
i think it's nasty for either gender to brag about it so i agree with you on that

>>81716583
>it makes sense for a virgin to want another virgin since it is a first time activity for the both of them.
Why exactly, though?

In the context of any other activity involving two people, surely one person with at least some experience would be better than two people with 0 experience?

>>81716728
Bro sex isn't fucking language learning, you just put it in the hole and start humping

>>81716593
My guy I'm directly asking you what the problem is with women having sex

>>81716735
but then why does it "make sense" for them to both be completely inexperienced?

>>81716728
Two people with zero experience get to try and build something together, from scratch.
It's a lot more romantic than one being like "yeah I like when chad choked and slapped me then left me for dead"

>>81716754
So it is all about guys being insecure about being compared to ex's

>>81716753
It's nothing mechanical or functional, it's just insecurity. Some men just can't handle the thought that their gf was man handled by a 45 year old muscular black man whose girthy virile BBC measures 10 inches, and that that block of a dick was violently shoved into her pussy and asshole. Completely unreasonable if you ask me though, I'm more than fine with that thought

>>81716772
No, that's you projecting. It's about building something together instead of walking into something someone else built then pissed all over
t. Nonvirgin sex haver

>>81716739
them thinking they are held to the same standard as men.

Me and my future wife both need to be pure under the eyes of God.

>>81716781
but it is the same standard ? You want a virgin gf if you're a virgin yourself

>>81716795
i want some of what you're on right now

>>81716754
>chad choked and slapped me then left me for dead
>>81716775
>heir gf was man handled by a 45 year old muscular black man whose girthy virile BBC measures 10 inches, and that that block of a dick was violently shoved into her pussy and asshole.
what if she just had sex with a normal guy, and the relationship didn't just work out

not this top-shelf over the top scenario where her last relationship was being gang banged by a group of elderly korean businessmen who shoved a squid in her asshole or whatever

>>81715912 (OP)
Personally, don't care if she's EXACTLY a virgin, just that she has as low a body count as can be.

A. Low body count means less experience. You can grow with your partner, and make sexual moments also romantically intimate, and sometimes silly too especially if you also don't have as much experience.

B. Low body count means less intimate past relationships. Statistically speaking, the less exes she has to think about, the less likely she'll be thinking about any one of her exes. Now, this of course isn't an exact science; it just takes one phenomenal ex to bed her once for her to think about it intermittently for years on end. But, the less exes, the less chances that one ex exists.

C. Low body count means higher chance at long-term relationships. There's been plenty of studies that show how body count correlates VERY strongly with the strength of marriages, and in pretty much all of those studies, the more bodies she has the less likely she is to stay. Now if she left me, it wouldn't be much of a problem... save for the fact that American court systems tend to reward alimony/spousal support to the wife even if she makes more money, even if she has another boyfriend in line, and so on. So, I also want to save my bank account too, and not go homeless because I chose the wrong broad and she hid her motives until she could get her name on my house.

So, it's less about if she's a virgin or not, and more about how many experiences she's had in total. Virgin is excellent, but only 1 or 2 bodies is still phenomenally good. Though like in point B, if she has that one super-great ex, it can all come crashing down despite.

>>81716824
Why the fuck did she only have sex with a normal guy? I want my woman to have some standards, and if she takes twc she is not wife material (I am white myself)

>>81716823
I wish you would finish your thoughts and explain yourself

>>81716847
i dont like repeating myself

>>81716840
what is twc

>>81716860
Tiny white "cock"

only pure and wholesome virgin men who deserve pure and wholesome virgin women know what a twc is

>>81716881
that nigga is clearly trolling.

it's kinda insane to me the bait people will take as reality when it fits their agenda.

>>81716881
Virgin women make me wanna throw up. I want a black only slut to cuck me

>>81716826
You listed some personal pros to wanting to be with a less experienced woman. Now what pros would you offer to a low body count//virgin woman in return?

wanting a virgin when you're not a virgin yourself is retarded. your partner will be forever insecure

How are people seething so much over virgin guys wanting a virgin girl? "NOOOO YOU CAN'T WANT YOUR GIRLFRIEND PURE LIKE YOU, WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU WON'T MARRY SOMEONE WHO TOOK IT UP THE ASS HUNDREDS OF TIMES WITH RANDOM GUYS?" bruh

>>81715912 (OP)
>get a virgin gf
Oh boy a choose your own adventure book! Let's look at the endings.
1. She remains a virgin, as virgins tend to do. If she didn't fuck anyone else, she likely won't fuck you either. She'll feel that you're constantly pressuring her into sex.
2. You have sex with her, and eventually the relationship ends - as relationships tend to do. Congrats you're now the sex creep who took a girl's virginity after pressuring her into having sex, and then broke up with her. Or became so intolerable she had to break up with you.
3. You have to marry this girl because she won't have sex before marriage, and you stop having sex altogether after a few years & a couple of kids. You spend most of your children's college fund on cam whores if not actual whores because you feel like you missed out on exploring your sexuality.

>>81716932
> a woman is either a pure virgin, or she has taken a thousand penises in every hole

wouldn't you be immediately disgusted with her the second you had sex with her and she stopped being a virgin? One penis is just as bad as a thousand, apparently.

>>81716944
I can tell why youre single

>>81716962
not him but anything more than 3 is a redflag and my virgin bros deserve better

>>81716962
If you think women have a normal amount of sex nowadays you were probably homeschooled, girls in my school were mothers before entering high school, if she doesn't wait until marriage nowadays odds are she's fucking a lot, wich isn't a problem for me, i'm just not marrying someone like that, you can fuck whatever is alive and moves if you want, just don't expect others to coddle you and change their standards to make you feel not like a slut, because if you sleep around before marriage no matter your gender, you are a slut and should be ashamed

>>81716932
They're mad that we have standards that matter more than they'll ever be willing to admit.

>>81716962
Are you just purposefully being obtuse and retarded? The reasons guys give here are obvious and doesn't take a genius to understand. The type of person who would do that wants to sex virgins as a form of sexual conquest Tristan Tate style, most guys here are virgins themselves so they just want someone similarly inexperienced to them so they can learn together, because it's more endearing and wholesome when you're both each others firsts, that's literally it, the fact you morons don't understand this is baffling. If you find it appealling to be someone's 100th good on you, guys here are usually romantics/idealists so it doesn't appeal to them.

>>81716912
Honestly? I couldn't say I have much, is the problem.

In terms of physique, I am short (5'6), and my high metabolism does make it hard for me to get upper body muscle, so I'm quite lean. I do say I have good hair and well-toned leg muscles, since I bike often (and sometimes tens of miles in a day just for the hell of it.)

In terms of money, it's kinda shit right now. I'm working as a pharmacy tech right now and it makes decent money, except hours are an all-time low. Once I complete a few optional trainings I might see about getting a job in a different larger hospital and see if that helps the situation. Constantly trying to improve myself through certifications and on-the-job type of work, since I don't do college very well.

In terms of past relationship experiences, I'm a virgin, but only because I've never penetrated before. Only had two relationships, and they were both absolute shitshows (one where I got used, the other she became way too controlling for my liking). I'm vocal about what I want and like, and I am unafraid to tell anyone when I don't like something, often bluntly, though I'm definitely up for a lot of experimentation.

Anything else? Well, I'm easy to please, low maintenance, and I'd love to simply coexist with someone. I prefer someone's presence over needing to worry about doing activities constantly, though I also do like to adventure sometimes, either inside or outside the home.

Other potential cons? Kids are a non-negotiable with me, I want to be a dad at one point or another. I also DO NOT TOLERATE people trying to change my patterns in a drastic way AT ALL. I'm definitely more conservative than liberal, but I do know how to be quiet when someone doesn't like my political beliefs. Oh, and I sperg out about video games and such.

I try to be self-aware.

>>81717069
Hey anon, not the guy but i'm a 19 year old anon thinking about majoring in toxicology, if you don't mind me asking, how was it to you to get into pharmacy? is the job market decent?

>>81716912
>Now what pros would you offer to a low body count//virgin woman in return?
The same pros I would to any woman? What an odd question.

>>81716824
>what if she just had sex with a normal guy, and the relationship didn't just work out
She's not for me then, simple as.

>>81717116
I started as a PT trainee at Walgreens, and still working there somewhat (though put in an application for a somewhat-close clinic and got an interview lined up). If you can, see if there's any openings at Walgreens/CVS/Watkins or any other store-type pharmacy, since you can more easily get trainee skills there so long as you have even like a month or two of retail, warehousing, or stockroom experience at any other job.

Here in Michigan, getting to be a pharmacy tech isn't that difficult when it comes to job openings. There's quite a few locations in a half-hour drive or 3-hour bike that were looking for at least one person.

Would I recommend it? Depends. It's great as a field to get started in and work your way up; it's a good source of certificates/licensures since doing PT opens you up to getting other licenses to draw blood, administer vaccines, among some other things. For toxicology, it's probably a good bet. I'd say try to look into it.

The most important thing is getting that license, as that'll allow you to work in hospital and care facility pharmacies, which are (As of here and now) decently stable positions to make a living off of. But if you can't get into a line of work that'll pay for the classes/test (which is like $550 out-of-pocket), then it might be harder to get into.

>>81717198
Yeah, think i'm gonna get into toxicology or atleast in some area of pharmacology, Thanks for the advice anon, God bless, i'll see if i have any job openings like that near where i live

>>81716996
>If you think women have a normal amount of sex nowadays
They're having less sex than previous generations.

>>81717025
what happens if one or the other turns out to have, or develops, a weird fetish?

>>81716980
that's fair, at least you're not fully autism-brained where you think women can either be pure virgins or slutty whores with absolutely no middle ground.

>>81717069
Oh, for anyone wondering what I mean by
>DO NOT TOLERATE people trying to change my patterns in a drastic way
I moreso mean changes to my sleep schedule, wardrobe, diet, or PERSONAL leisure activities. If you don't like me preferring to wake up at 11:00 AM, please don't try to make me wake up earlier or later. If you don't like the shirts I wear, please don't throw away my clothes. If you don't like that I eat fish a lot, please don't throw away my fish. If you don't like that I prefer to unwind after a long day of yardwork or actual work by playing Minecraft, please don't pull the plug on my device.

You can dislike anything you want about me; if you stay, that's your choice. Just, don't try to change some of the stable things in my life, is all. Definitely a trait to do with my autism, but it's how I live, and how I stay happy.

>>81716422
me personally i don't have a problem with 90% of those things but more likely than not she won't have those if she was a virgin if we're being real

>>81717227
Good luck, fellow anon! Wishing you well, and godspeed.

>>81717234
>what happens if one or the other turns out to have, or develops, a weird fetish?
You people are unbelievable. Is EVERYTHING about sex to you? Oh she's a virgin the sex will be bad. Oh you don't care well what if she has a scat kink and wants to shit on you what then huh???!?!??
KYS (KILL YOURSELF)!!!!!

>>81715912 (OP)
>What is the appeal
i want her to be as experienced as i am

>>81717234
>They're having less sex than previous generations.
I see, i must have imagined all the surveys and studies pointing out that the average numbers of sexual partners per woman have been on a rise, must also have imagined the ungodly amount of single mothers with children of several different fathers on government aid, phew, thanks anon for saying a phrase with no backing or source, you really convinced me otherwise!

>>81715912 (OP)
>Tfw virgin but no one would ever believe be because i wrecked my vagina from ten years of gooning
I promise it's loose from plastic and not penis :(

>>81717257
>You people are unbelievable. Is EVERYTHING about sex to you?
No, but this particular thread is.

>>81717281
>i must have imagined all the surveys and studies
you probably did, cause they all point to the contrary
Here's one
https://fortune.com/well/2023/05/12/are-teenagers-having-sex-cdc-gen-z-situationships-sneaky-links/
>For years, studies have shown a decline in the rates of American high school students having sex. That trend continued, not surprisingly, in the first years of the pandemic, according to a recent survey by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The study found that 30% of teens in 2021 said they had ever had sex, down from 38% in 2019 and a huge drop from three decades ago, when more than half of teens reported having sex.

Gen Z also drinks less, goes out to bars and clubs less, wants less sex on TV, dates less, etc.

>>81715912 (OP)
I am willing to make a concession on the virginity thing if she is very similar to me and I love her. But it'd make it a lot harder for me to relate to her, and would likely be an obstacle between us for a long while.
It'd be something that sticks in my head. A clear difference between us that i'd always remember.
It'd make it easier if there was a valid reason, like she got pressured into it, or she had to do it to survive.

If she's been in any sort of relationship, virgin or not, I would see that as a clear difference between me and her.

Virgin here. I would only want a virgin because they tend to treat you better, also share the same experience and would have the same goals and ideals

This thread proves all the bots, cels are dirty disgusting whores anyway. they aren't virgin.
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