Why do males think they are entitled to sexual acts from their female partners?

>>81717193 (OP)

Alpha widow... Alpha widows everywhere

>>81717193 (OP)
Why do fefails think they're entitled to resources from a man?

>>81717193 (OP)
If you find something gross, why would you bring it up having done it in the past?

Men should just negotiate and compromise instead of chimping out about a past they weren't part of

>>81717272
>Men should just negotiate and compromise
What good does that do for them?

>>81717265
Because you asked, retard? What, you want women to lie to you?

>>81717193 (OP)
The solution is to just never tell them obviously

>>81717193 (OP)
They feel like you like your ex more than them.

>>81717193 (OP)
i've realized this recently but men are a lot more insecure than people think

>>81717193 (OP)
idk man but all I know is I won't be with a girl if she doesn't throat my cock and take it up the ass I'm not staying with her more than a few months.

those are my convictions and I won't budge.

>>81717368
>i've realized this recently but men are a lot more insecure than people think
You're a foid, aren't you.

>>81717317
I never asked a hoe if she did anal before. Gererally, men don't want to know the things their girlfriends did with other men.

>>81717193 (OP)
It depends on one crucial thing
Did you perform the sex act once or more than once?

If once, it's reasonable to say that you tried something, you didn't like it, you decided you wouldn't do it again with that parnter or anyone else.

If you performed the sex act several times with a previous partner, it makes the dude think that you find him less desirable than your previous partner. Clearly, you didn't like it previously but you did it either because you derived some kind of pleasure from your ex doing it to you or that it was very important for you to ensure that your ex-partner found you sexually desirable. It's particularly hard to explain if you did it for more than one partner, unless you accept that you don't like your current boyfriend enough to do it.

Men want to feel desirable. They want being with them to feel special, to be the best you've had. You don't have to tell them this, you just don't have to talk about other dudes in a way that makes your current man think about how these gymbros might've made you squirt.

>>81717440
Granted, but in this situation the OP has posted, it is assumed the man asked the woman what she did before. If you dont ask and dont want to know, thats cool and fine. I dont either, none of my business what happened before me.

>>81717193 (OP)
I've answered this thread before and I'll do it again, when you deal with women who question sex, give you hard time about it, make it weird, simply ghost them and move on, I've met plenty of sexual women who don't make it weird, don't play games, and don't make you feel guilty, this is all just power play

>>81717193 (OP)
What is stopping you from just doing it? If you are seeing a girl and she is agreeing to meet up with you then at least legally she is going to have trouble proving anything. And you can just lie and say it didn't happen or she consented. If you are dating and she pulls this, the relationship isn't worth it so just go for it. Married you might risk a divorce, but ironically I have heard tons of stories of women just being okay with it and not raising a fuss.

Women shit test men all the time and say no, but then when you go ahead and do it they don't care. Caring about women's opinions is retarded.

>>81717518
>just rape a woman bro
You glow

>>81717552
Maybe, but am I wrong? I never understood this. Rape is such a circumstantial crime. When someone is murdered it is obvious since dead bodies don't just happen, but sex happens all the time. Literally a he said she said situation.

>>81717576
With today's divorce laws you must be insane to do such a thing.

Chad here. I can fuck women in the ass and bondage play with her but once she settles down with one of you beta cucks she just cant get off from your loser ass. Enjoy the mediocre sex that is a chore for her.

So bros, if you somehow end up in a relationship, what's your plan if you end up with a dead bedroom?

It seems like long term most relationships end up in that state, but I imagine if you were an incel for much of your life and miraculously found someone willing to fuck you for a year or so before it all dries up it might hit harder.

>>81717672
>what's your plan if you end up with a dead bedroom?
murder suicide

>>81717193 (OP)
girls say this shit but they experience retroactive jealousy like no one else so why can't they fucking understand

>>81717675
>man chimps out over lack of pussy
Another day that ends in Y. Just stay single, fag.

>>81717748
Just lie and say something like "I took my ex-gf to [place you know she wants to visit] for a month. It was great!" Then whenever she tries to plan a similar trip say you're not interested because you already had your fun on that other trip.

>>81717193 (OP)
One time I accidentally nutted in my wife while she was alseep

>>81717782
So the rape was on purpose?

>>81717368
Most of society, male and female, deeply loathe themselves. You can see it in everything they do

>>81717193 (OP)
Post wall roastie settling for betabuxx

>>81717773
If you dont want to have sex with me then dont marry me.
simple as

>>81717790
It was implied that we were supposed to have sex but she got drunk and passed out as usual . In Minecraft. This never really happened

>>81717801
>Post wall roastie settling for betabuxx
Story as old as time.

>>81717804
Trust me, I wont, buddy. But you arent entitled to sex from your wife every time you feel like it and if you think you are, just stay away from all women since you just wanna use it as an excuse to hurt them. What happened? Mommy hit you as a kid? Some bitch rejected you in high school or you got cheated on or something? Grow the fuck up and stop taking that shit out on other women.

>>81717825
Chatgpt just told me this is how narcissistic females view realtionships

>>81717838
Thats cool. Idc what AI says since I am neither a narcissist nor female so. *farts on your balls*

>>81717844
>farts on your balls
You are fucking weird

>>81717825
>But you arent entitled to sex from your wife every time you feel like it and if you think you are
holy projection lmao

>>81717825
>But you arent entitled to sex from your wife every time you feel like it
Literally nobody said this, retard.

>>81717193 (OP)
Why would, you, as a man enter a relationship with a whore that openly talks about sexual acts with previous partners lmao
Incels are unironically higher than you on societys pyramid

>>81717866
>>81717872
Please see >>81717804
Dumb fucking mongoloids.

>>81717895
>Incels are unironically higher than you on societys pyramid
No they aren't. Even though they have dignity, they're lower on the social scale.

>>81717236
I was about to deny it but youre right, shes not a whore, its worse than that, she is an alpha widow whore

>>81717896
You're still wrong, retard.
There's a difference between forcing your wife to have se with you every time you feel like it and being stuck in a dead bedroom marriage. If you don't understand that then there's no hope for you.

>>81717279
>Good
Maybe feminist just dont care about your well being, crazy possibility

>>81717907
True, but considering the reaction is as extreme as murder suicide, I wont give the guy the benefit of the doubt in assuming he understands the nuance of such a situation.

>>81717368
>Insecure
Arent we supposed to be vulnerable to women? Stupid cunt

>>81717193 (OP)
okay first of all
>marrying a non-virgin
thats a cuck fetish in the making desu.

This should clarify my view on that:
>be me
>have GF who really likes foot massages
>long ones, 30+ mins, every single day.
>problem is, I'm not a footfag. They don't do shit for me sexually, my hands get tired and uncomfortable, from a physical perspective, It really just isn't for me
>BUT
>I know my GF loves them. And I love my GF.
>If GF needs foot massages to be happy, I will provide them, and I will be happy too, not because I enjoy the foot massages themselfes, I enjoy her enjoying them.
>Sometimes when I've had a really hard day at work, or am ill, or have a headache, I'll tell my GF no foot massage today, and while probably a little bit disappointed, I'm sure she'll understand
fast foreward 2 years
>I grew bored, I suddenly stopped giving my GF foot massages,
>I know how much she enjoys them, and I know not getting them makes her sad
>but sometimes I gotta prioritize myself
>not just for a few days, but weeks or even month. At the start I still used "I'm tired" "my hands hurt" "I'm not in the mood today"
>now I just get annoyed or angry every time she brings up the topic
>I will look her in the eyes and tell her that apparently all she cares about in our relationship are foot massages
>to be honest, I enjoyed watching the light in her eyes dim
>hey, maybe when I especially want her to do something for me, she'll get a short pity-massage thrown her way or something
>wait why the fuck is she breaking up with me?
The ONLY reason someone would ever deny their partner intimacy for a prolonged period of time (weeks) and without due cause (e.g. medical reason) is because they don't love them anymore and dont give a fuck about their partners happieness anymore
So yes IMO you have a DUTY to your partner to try to at least sometimes / somewhat satisfy their needs. If you don't perform that duty, eventually breaking up or even divorcing over this issue IS a valid crashout IMO.

>>81717672
In the current social climate women are always going to decrease the amount of sex in a relationship as time goes on. Plan ahead and hide assets in anticipation of the inevitable breakup when you reach dead bedroom status. If by some miracle you don't get to dead bedroom status then great the relationship keeps going.

Because modern men are delusional and have to cope with the fact that their girlfriend is a cheap whore (the way they do that is to recreate every degrading sexual act she did, so he can still feel like a man).

But it's women's fault: they want to be whores and give their best years and unique experience to the top men, while still expecting the common man to accept them and settle down with them after Chad gets bored. It's not realistic, and no one is happy with this arrangement (outside of a privileged small elite of men...a group of people women can't stop complaining about, but also can't stop fucking).

>>81717922
>I wont give the guy the benefit of the doubt in assuming he understands the nuance of such a situation
The guy is me, you retard.

>>81718026
Ok and? You could have said nothing and contributed the exact same amount to the convo, redditor.

>>81717193 (OP)
Its proof you respect them duh

>>81718088
Forcing a woman to do something she doesn't want to do isn't respect

>>81718215
Guys on this board wouldnt understand how to respect a woman if you gave them detailed instructions

>>81718243
That's why they're here

I used to take my ex-gf out to nice dinners, buy her jewelry, etc. Few times we took vacations to mountains, lakes, etc. Europe, Asia, etc.

Now that im older, I dont think that's necessary anymore - i had my fun and saw the world, I'm not really in the mood to re-do it all.

Why does my current wife always nag me about traveling with her, buying her nice things, going to dinners all the time? It's a hassle and I only really did it for my ex-gf, although at the time I really enjoyed it too, but not so much anymore. It makes me feel used and that she only wants me for my money.

If she doesn't owe me sex then that would mean I don't owe her fidelity right?

>>81718430
You do, yes. As she owes you hers. If you will cheat, just leave. Because it is completely pointless to be with someone you do not respect, especially as it mirrors you not having respect for yourself.

>>81717368
insecure is the hot buzzword whores call men who don't approve of their past behavior

>>81718425
>Yeah, I took my last gf on a trip to Venice, Florence, and Munich. It was okay, but I don't want to do that ever again. Too expensive, and I've already done it and seen everything.
>The gf before that? We went on a tour of east Asia. Spent a week in Tokyo having a blast, but why would I do that again?
>My gf before that? We did a road trip of America. The Grand Canyon was fucking crazy! Still, it's not something I'd bother doing again.

>Huh? You wanna do all that? Why are you so entitled?

>>81718509

Oh so she can pick and choose what she owes me but I can't pick and choose what I owe her? Why get married if it's going to be uneven like that?

>>81718646
It's your duty to do so.

>>81718713

And it's her duty to provide sex for me. If she breaches the contract so can I.

>>81717672
In this imaginary world where I have a gf, I will I assume I won the lottery and got a house.
In which case I will convert the attic to a model railway and she can join in if she wants.

>>81718646
Sure, anon. Be willfully obtuse and twist my words for your own agenda even though I already explained why you dont do that and do in fact owe each other your respective loyalty. Clearly self respect is too challenging a concept for you. You wanna be a piece of shit, then go for it, idc. But you are a worthless sack of shit if you cheat and it is not comparable to a woman not feeling like having sex sometimes. Have a good night, I am going to bed.

>>81718838

You lost the argument. If I have to go full trad then so do you. It's that simple. If you don't want to go full trad then I don't have to either.

>>81718868
There's an expectation if you get married that you love each other and want to provide for each other.

I've been in relationships where a woman will fuck me if I want it even if she doesn't really want to. That's what a marriage and relationships are about in general, you make compromises on your wants and desires for another person.

If a woman just decides she doesn't want to have sex anymore, I'm gonna assume she's cheating and that the marriage is over.

>>81718887

If I decide to stop working and providing for the house that means the marriage is probably over as well. You're either all in or you're not. And a woman who had a wild sexual past with other men that she won't do with her husband is not all in.

>>81717402
that's why you are an incel you are subhuman

>>81717193 (OP)
Because men like to fuck and be serviced.
The fact that women bait men into a relationship just to stop doing the sexual things he likes, even cutting off sex, is despicable.
Yet it happens all the time.

>>81717193 (OP)
>why?
you just know the top comment is gonna be something like "Because they HATE women and dont want use to be free"

If she ain't gonna do the thing she put out for Chad, guess what, there's always another younger hotter girl who will. You can always move on to the next mistake, and then you'll be the guy that she got blasted in all holes by in the past and now won't do it for her now-boyfriend.

Man suffers because he takes seriously what the gods made for fun.

>>81717193 (OP)
I'm not. I just don't think a sea monkey like me should be ridiculed for my looks and height. Is it too much to ask for people not to react to me as if a monstrous figure just walked by?

>>81717444
It's telling this has no replies. Based and truthpilled