>>81730805Sometimes, when people are victims of abuse they'll seek to reenact the abuse. They'll also rationalize this to no end with various justifications, but I think the truth is that they have internalized their place in existence as a victim and they don't know how else to behave, where else to fit. Being treated good feels wrong to them.
This is not a female only thing btw. BIology is different, but man and woman share the same soul blueprint. Not that you'll understand... it is just interesting to think about.