Having Friends is over rated - /r9k/ (#81732060) [Archived: 477 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/6/2025, 1:59:57 PM No.81732060
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>invite friend out to watch Jurassic World with me
>he wants to bring his gf with him
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>I buy my tickets hours early and tell him my seats
>he waits until the last minute to buy their tickets, so one seat next over to me gets filled up, which means he can't sit next to his gf
>they get seats way up in the nosebleed section, leaving me by myself
>realize how pathetic I look, being the third wheel to basically their own little date

Deleted his phone number and blocked him. Just going to ghost him after this. Hope he enjoys life with his new stupid girlfriend.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:03:36 PM No.81732089
>let's sit in a dark room and not talk to each other
Movie theaters are the dumbest way to "socialize." Nobody thinks you look pathetic. Nobody cares.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:05:26 PM No.81732116
>>81732089
You have legit autism.
Do you really believe everyone just sits there quietly and don't whisper amongst their friends/ family members about the movie?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:06:56 PM No.81732130
>>81732089
Agree somewhat, but the point of (socially) watching a movie is largely to talk about it afterwards.
Also he did ask you and you did say yes. Next time if it bothers you say "I'd prefer it be a guys' night out".
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:08:29 PM No.81732141
>>81732116
>Do you really believe everyone just sits there quietly
Not him but yes.
>whisper amongst their friends/ family members about the movie?
My apologies I wasn't aware I was speaking to a nigger. Don't forget the lawry's seasoning for your popcorn shieet
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:08:49 PM No.81732146
>>81732130
Then it would have made things awkward and he wouldn't come.

This is the 4th time something like this has happened within my friend circle and im running out of friends all because they keep wanting to do shit with girls.
>>81732141
Well you have autism too
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:13:36 PM No.81732190
>>81732146
>This is the 4th time something like this has happened within my friend circle and im running out of friends all because they keep wanting to do shit with girls.
As you get older the social scene changes. People do things "with couples" and then "with families". You as a family invite over another family and teh dads do whatever while the moms talk and the kids play. You're being edged out of your social circles because you're not keeping up.
There's also nothing awkward about making the intention clear beforehand.

>Well you have autism too
No u.
It's one thing if it's movies at your place on the couch. But movie theater is a different experience. I can hear whispers and it's rude to do.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:16:31 PM No.81732211
>>81732190
You're too autistic to get that movies in a theater are just a different experience than watching them on a couch on Netflix. That's why wanted to invite him in the first place- to hang out and have fun watching a movie with my best friend, except this time I was sitting by mself and he was doing all that with his girl instead and barely even spoke to me.

I feel like a total moron and just don't want anything to do with people in relationships any more. I have nothing in common with them.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:19:39 PM No.81732249
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>>81732060 (OP)
>Deleted his phone number and blocked him. Just going to ghost him after this.
Based Anon. I remember getting a bunch of people's numbers and I ALWAYS had to initiate the hangouts, the get togethers, the interactions. It's annoying and I hate normies, they only befriend people for mutual benefits. To normies, friendship is transactional.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:24:57 PM No.81732289
>>81732211
>and barely even spoke to me.
how was he supposed to speak to you if he wasn't sitting near you?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:51:38 PM No.81732494
>>81732289
The movie ends and we leave , anon.
Think for a second
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:52:57 PM No.81732509
I think you might be being needy.
Its a challenge to balance recognizing when you are being taken advantage of and not taking things to heart.

PS. What do you think NYN-aneki smells like?
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 3:01:15 PM No.81732565
>>81732060 (OP)
>invite friend out to watch Jurassic World with me
at that point i also wouldn't want to hang out with you
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 6:07:08 PM No.81733964
>>81732060 (OP)
So how was Jurassic World?
Was thinking of watching it. Resident Evil X Dinos (Dinocrisis lmao) sounded cool but the theater nearby closed down