Why did no one warn me that having a gf is such a chore? I have to constantly be attentive to her desires and emotions while she does nothing for me besides give up the pussy sometimes.

>>81732663 (OP)
because prior to the brainwashing era of this latest gender wars slop cycle, most men enjoyed spending time with women.

>>81732707
>most men enjoyed spending time with women.
I think my problem is that I have already have everything in life so women have nothing of value to add to my life besides sex and cuddling. I don't even understand why women date anymore when they have their own careers and shit nowadays. It's like the only thing couples can do for one another anymore is fuck or give gifts.

>>81732663 (OP)
Have you ever thought about how a Chad would simply ignore her and she will give the attention to him all by herself?

>>81732740
>muh transactional relationship
BASED and pornbrained. i hope you struggle and don't learn anything from it.

>>81732663 (OP)
Shit bait. People have been complaining about this for years.

>>81732663 (OP)
>UGH I'M A SCHIZOID WHO WANTS PUSSY BUT I HAAAAATE SPENDING TIME WITH WOMEN!
LITERALLY JUST BUY HOOKERS, SLEEP AROUND, OR RAPE, THEN. NOBODY IS FORCING YOU TO GIVE A SHIT ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS. YOU PEOPLE ARE SUCH PUSSIES.

>>81732813
>OR RAPE
I couldn't agree more

>>81732748
I think in her world I am the Chad. I blew her off for 3 days once cause I wasn't in a romantic mood and she started messaging me in the middle of the night to come over to her apartment so we could fool around. Regardless, I think if I pull that shit over and over again she'll eventually send me the "you don't actually like me" message which would lead to a break up. This is the longest relationship I've ever had and I'm starting to realize that women are a bit of a maintenance project. I need little in life to feel satisfied; she needs a lot. It's like dealing with a pre-teen.
>>81732763
Relationships have been transactional since the dawn of time you braindead knuckledragger. We are less than 200 years removed from bitches being married off for land rights and cattle/sheep. Women were mostly property and couldn't vote 100 years ago. Half of all married couples despise one another and people still regularly marry for non-romantic reasons. Your Disney princess fantasy of love has never existed.
>>81732797
>People have been complaining about this for years.
So are all men secretly fed up with their wives/gfs? Are we seriously all just going along to get along so we can get pussy? Kind of blackpilling if true.
>>81732813
>UGH I'M A SCHIZOID
I don't even have schizo symptoms. I'm anxiety and mild obsessive-compulsive at my worst, which is baby mode in the world of mental illness.
>LITERALLY JUST BUY HOOKERS
Too expensive and detrimental to my status. Cheaper and more beneficial to just sweet talk women into taking their clothes off. Free social XP grinding and the emotional attachment makes me cum harder. Based Bardock pic though.

>>81732879
>Are we seriously all just going along to get along so we can get pussy?
I don't know if it's all, but that's what a lot of you are doing when you started treating sex as the end goal. What did you think was gonna happen?

>>81732663 (OP)
how would I warn you about something i am clueless about. I never experienced that

>>81732663 (OP)
No woman has ever wanted anything from me
Post stats

I always warn of the dangers of oofy doofy life.

>>81732763
NTA, but name one relationship that isn't transactional. They all are, or else they wouldn't occur. Loyalty is just a stipulation of being in a relationship. Unconditional love is a condition of being in a relationship. Both sides get something out of it, or else why would it occur in the first place?

I talked to a lesbian in a tf2 lobby and she was saying how I viewed relationships was transactional and thus flawed and hetero-coded. But it still makes no fucking sense to me no matter what angle I go at it.

>>81732895
>when you started treating sex as the end goal.
Is there something else?
>>81732904
I was incel for many years. You'll make it eventually if you actually put in the effort and ask women out when the opportunity arises. This assumes you're a fairly normal guy with a career. If you're severely mentally ill or NEET then I genuinely have no advice for you because you're fuuuuuuuuuuucked. Women barely date non-Chads nowadays so if you're not even average then you're seriously doing it wrong.
>>81732906
>Post stats
6'2, white, green eyes, blonde hair, 165 lbs, firmly middle class average income, only an undergrad education, never touch the gym so skinny built with girly wrists, 6x5.5 inch penis with no bone pressing
>>81732932
>oofy doofy life.
What is an oofy doofy life?

>>81732850
YOU WANT PUSSY? IT'S YOURS, MY FRIEND, AS LONG AS YOU HAVE ENOUGH YANG QI!
>>81732879
IF YOU'RE DETACHED AND APATHETIC TOWARDS HUMAN CONNECTIONS HOW WAS I SUPPOSED TO NOT THINK YOU'RE SCHIZOID

ANYWAYS YEAH, IF YOU WANT TO JUST TALK TO CHICKS AND FUCK THEM WITHOUT HAVING MUCH OF A CONNECTION NO ONE'S STOPPING YOU. IF ANYTHING WOMEN FUCKING LOVE ONE NIGHT STANDS, IF YOU WANNA ENABLE THEIR SHIT BEHAVIOR GO AHEAD, MIGHT AS WELL.
>Based Bardock pic though.
IT'S TURLES YOU FUCKING SWINE I SHOULD STRANGLE YOU FOR THIS

>>81732935
lol like a lesbian knows about relationships not being transactional.
Love is not, but being in a relationship necessitates that love is reciprocal, since love is work. It's not a faggot emotion, but they help provide incentive for love.

>>81732960
An oofy doofy is an average looking man that is often a backup for a woman, or a beta buxxer. If you were Chad, she would try to please you, not the other way around.

>>81732740
>I think my problem is that I have already have everything in life so women have nothing of value to add to my life besides sex and cuddling.
Looks like we think about the same. I have no desire to marry or have kids. I just want a fairly like-minded woman to fuck and cuddle with. No such woman seems to exist. They're all brainlets who prefer surface-level talking and they seemingly all want to marry or have kids, which I will never ever compromise on.
So as things stand, I've no issue keeping being rich without even trying and having a load of free time outside work hours.
>>81732960
Also 6'2'', white but brown eyes, black hair, 146lbs (can't get fatter no matter what I do) and 6.5in penis with no bone pressing. Average wage for my country but not having a woman, not having kids, not having to pay rent or a mortgage means I live like a richfag and have savings, investments and a good inheritance lined up.

>>81732663 (OP)
>he fell for the "relationships are when you hold hands with a girl and frolic through poppy fields" meme

>>81732960
>Is there something else?
NOT IF YOU DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT IT. IF YOU DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT MAINTAINING RELATIONSHIPS OR WHAT GOES INTO IT, YOU CAN JUST GO AND FUCK PEOPLE. FRANKLY YOU'RE PROBABLY WASTING YOUR GF'S TIME AND YOUR OWN THE LONGER YOU FORCE YOURSELF INTO IT. WE LIVE IN A MORALLY BANKRUPT WORLD, MY FRIEND, YOU CAN JUST SLEEP AROUND, YOU DON'T NEED TO PRETEND LIKE YOU GIVE A SHIT ABOUT THEM IN THIS DAY AND AGE.


SIDE NOTE
>6'2
>165
YOU NEED TO HIT THE FUCKING GYM PRONTO MEIN FREUNDE.

>>81732879
>which would lead to a break up.
So beat her to the punch. Break up with her first. You're clearly not happy in your relationship. Why drag it out?

>>81732981
Yeah, I don't know what I was thinking, listening to her. If you can't give love, then the relationship fails. I can conceed that maybe love isn't transactional, but the relationship itself is. Unconditional love is traded to make it work, and if one party can't offer unconditional love, then not much more than a very close friendships can occur.

>>81732663 (OP)
You haven't found the right gf then

>>81733242
There is no such thing as unconditional love. The closest you can get is the feelings from parent to child. Even then all love has its conditions. It's just what does it take to meet those conditions.

>>81732935
>name one person that isn't a female!
are you mentally retarded? the entire concept of transactional relationship exists because it is a stark contrast to a normal romantic relationship.

>>81732663 (OP)
Indeed. This is why I really just want a fuck-partner, not a GF.
Ideally, a post-fertile MILF, so I can cum in her with total abandon.
If only old women actually wanted to fuck me, and be grateful for some regular younger low-mileage cock.

>>81732879
>love never existed
pornbrained people dropped out of school or some shit. how can they be this dumb?

>>81733658
That's also a fair position to take. I'm somewhat unconvinced by the idea that no matter what somebody says or does or is you'd still love them. I would NOT still love you if you were a worm. But, it's also easy to see how people become extremely trusting and self-sacrifical when it comes to relationships. They can fall in love with the ideal of a person rather than the reality, and there's no condition where an ideal is molested by happenings and poor choices.

>>81732977
Did that nigga just mistake the best Saiyan for the best villain?
Kill him Turlesposter.......

>>81732663 (OP)
If a sea monkey like me has a girlfriend, I would never complain because, for once in my life, someone loves me

>>81732707
Most women were also not insufferable self obsessed fucks to this extent in the past thoughbeit

>>81735444
Hilarious how you can keep posting the same slop and not get insulted for it like you would if you were brown or black. Fuck off my guy. You don't have it that hard, I see many short Asian guys with women

>>81735517
Yes, I do. I'm a 5'3 guy with shit skin color. Do you think women want someone like me?

>>81732663 (OP)
if all you want is some pussy then just dump her and hire a prostitute. moids whining and complaining that they have to actually put forth effort emotionally in relationships will never not be sad

>>81732663 (OP)
Alot of you mongrels will settle for any bitch and then wonder why it's so awful.

>>81733242
You can't have a relationship with someone in the first place if they don't give you their attention at all either. You can love someone all you want, you can care about their well being and it can be the more pure and unconditional love there is, but a relationship can't be formed in the first place if the other person doesn't even give you their time.

my gf doesnt do any of that she just texts me pics of everything she sees and i say thats cool

>>81735487
not sure why you know most women so well but yeah that's a fair point. you have to find a woman who relates with you better.

>>81732663 (OP)
>having a gf is such a chore
>>>/lgbt/