so we're never gonna have gfs so what?
all you need in life is
good health
a hobby
and your squishy little family
if you have those three things you're all good.
if you want a gf that badly just buy a gf from a poor asian country. throw away the pride, you're unfuckable, there are girls for unfuckables they just happen to be in asian countries.

>>81734207 (OP)
I need to continue my legacy, I need to raise a child, I need to have a family, I need a wife, I need a sex life, I need someone to live with
I need more than what you say

>>81734234
then get a cheap asian gf from like thailand, they're easy as fuck and will appreciate the western lifestyle and the novelty of it all.

>>81734310
Well I'm moving to China soon so I'm hopeful I'll find a gf there
but I'm kind of fat so maybe I won't

>>81734207 (OP)
All I need is a job/income/more money and I will be comfy, that is literally it
from there I will go about fixing my life
in progress
that's all I care about for now

Unfortunately my health isn't great.
Don't get a SEA wife, there's high chance she will leave you once in the west. They're only for sex.

>>81734234
>I need to continue my legacy, I need to raise a child, I need to have a family, I need a wife,
You don't need any of this stuff, you just want it. Have you ever asked yourself why you want it? Have you talked to people with families about the hardships they face every day?
Because I have and most of them seem to be miserable. A lot of them are broke and their wives don't have sex with them anymore. Most divorces are started by women. Kids are insanely expensive and these days they grow up with tablets and smartphones, so most of them are retarded from looking at brainrot.
Even if you care so much about 'muh legacy', you will be completely forgotten within 2 generations. I have no idea who my great grandparents were and to be honest I don't give a flying fuck either.
None of this stuff matters and in today's economy and society you'd have to be a brainlet to do them. All they represent is risk and expense. Unless you and your wife both make a very high wage, you'll be stuck living paycheck-to-paycheck for decades, vulnerable to inflation, food prices, gas prices, natural disasters, economic disasters, disease, medical bills and so on.

>>81734506
>You don't need any of this stuff, you just want it.
Well I guess you know me better than I know myself and I should throw my entire lived experience out the fucking window.
Retard.