why do i keep doing this to myself - /r9k/ (#81734297) [Archived: 554 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/6/2025, 6:42:33 PM No.81734297
wojak-balding-head
wojak-balding-head
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>match with girl who is totally my type on a dating app
>we follow each others socials and message each other for a week
>i get scared at the idea of actually having to go on a date and get burnt out from texting every day
>i ghost them
>repeat the cycle
I want to be in a relationship but i always feel this immense burden when i meet someone new, im scared that by the time im ready to enter a relationship ill be an old out of shape slob and no one will want me
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 6:44:48 PM No.81734321
>>81734297 (OP)
Man, thats kinda understandable. I usually date and fuck them for a while but they never actually want a relationship. Im depressed as fuck, i only want to take care of some woman under my wing and simp for her, but they are all porn degenerates and gold diggers. Im demoralised as fuck
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 6:46:21 PM No.81734337
>>81734297 (OP)
I can't even get a match. Actually, I did match with one e-girl but she kept ghosting me and re-matching me on another dating app, so I stopped liking her back. But other than that, I haven't had a match that could lead anywhere.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 6:47:27 PM No.81734351
>>81734321
change your selection criteria you fucking retard

the problem starts at the swiping stage
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 6:53:36 PM No.81734408
>>81734351
Trust me, i try to get the most normal ones. I dont go for obvious whores or wanna be instathots. Hoeflation and feminism ruined everything, 10 years ago it was easy to get a gf