Thread 81734836 - /r9k/ [Archived: 539 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:36:30 PM No.81734836
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the-beach-boys-surfs-up-v0-7tojgpwn8u391
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4 year relationship, and I got dumped by e-mail... Her message read like an HR severance letter. Not a single "I loved you". The whole message was about her.

Songs for this feel bros? My heart still aches to communicate with her, as we talked every single day for four years, but she blocked me from everything from one day to the other. I'm abroad and all of my friends are family are far away.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S4asq3SicN0

How do I get through this and build myself up? I feel like I'm sinking.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:39:48 PM No.81734864
>>81734836 (OP)
Stay strong anon
https://youtu.be/LIPc1cfS-oQ?si=Jk5XyZQWqQa16MN2
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:43:45 PM No.81734898
>>81734836 (OP)
what did you do to her?
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:43:49 PM No.81734899
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https://youtu.be/vZa0Yh6e7dw?si=66Z3kceffLjcb4Zz
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:43:59 PM No.81734900
>>81734836 (OP)
>I got dumped by e-mail... Her message read like an HR severance letter. Not a single "I loved you". The whole message was about her.
What did she write?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:47:32 PM No.81734929
>>81734836 (OP)
Beats suicide baiting and fucking randos or "tee hee I was also sexchatting with another guy for two years and now he's my boyfriend sorryyyy".
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:56:19 PM No.81735029
>>81734900

Me reaching out to her:
>If this truly is the end and you've already made up your mind in your heart, can you face me and tell me?
>I've had a lump in my throat these past few days because of the abrupt change and not being able to communicate with you. You abandoned and discarded me in silence, without any warning. I didn't deserve that.

Her response today, 3 days later.
>I'm replying to this email to "face you" and let you know that I no longer want to have a romantic relationship with you.
>It was never my intention to hurt you - only to set boundaries and avoid falling into confrontations.
>I kindly ask that you keep your distance, avoid calling or reaching out to me, as I'm going through a grieving process and dealing with many things at once.
>These almost four years of relationship made it clear to me what I need to work on in myself, and for now, I can't commit to a long-term relationship.
>As you once told me, "you're going to be okay," and I truly hope we both find the right path forward.

My response to her:
>I loved you until the end.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:00:20 PM No.81735078
>>81734836 (OP)
here you go pal. feel it for a few days then work on yourself and delete everything from her.

https://youtu.be/cAjfKWQ8PP0?si=glsDQWxAYuAdQELi

https://youtu.be/sycW0zUQQXY?si=whQrV5QCJju_MhJ1

https://youtu.be/vMv9kjFp1gk?si=hTtVbwF7J90Wr1v9
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:06:08 PM No.81735135
>>81734836 (OP)
she was probably painfully mid
>>81735029
also a self-absorbed cunt

she did you a favor . Years ago I would have probably cared about a woman's opinion like you do now, not worth it bucko
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:08:12 PM No.81735155
>>81735029
That last response is pointless, you're just stroking the ego of someone who treats you badly.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:26:02 PM No.81735296
>>81735155
I agree, it was a moment of weakness. Thought maybe she'd feel the same, but clearly that's not the case.

>>81735135
Yeah

>>81735078
>>81734899
>>81734864
Thank you anons.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:26:18 PM No.81735301
>>81735029
>>These almost four years of relationship made it clear to me what I need to work on in myself, and for now, I can't commit to a long-term relationship.
She's fucking Chad and having her insides worked on by his dong
>>As you once told me, "you're going to be okay," and I truly hope we both find the right path forward.
Kek moidy-woidy is sad about getting cucked? Be a strong moid while I humiliated you
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:32:27 PM No.81735356
>>81735301
>Be a strong moid while I humiliated you
Who hurt you, anon?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:45:05 PM No.81735476
>>81735356
someone who shouldn't deserve any more attention from me
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:49:06 PM No.81735519
>>81735476
>someone who shouldn't deserve any more attention from me
Poor you. But why lash out at randoms? We can be nice to you too.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:49:13 PM No.81735522
>>81734836 (OP)
Anon it time for you to rape
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 9:10:36 PM No.81735731
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Feelsbadman
https://youtu.be/Ekew5-OO6Bc
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 9:34:56 PM No.81735927
>>81735301
Why are you filled with hate anon
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 9:52:22 PM No.81736124
>>81735519
because it's bullshit, you can't tell women that you're not okay with them breaking up with you because it makes you either look weak or deranged while if a guy breaks up with a woman she can cry all she wants to her friends about how it made her feel
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 9:55:17 PM No.81736149
>>81735731
So fucking soulful anon. Do you have anything more like this?

>>81736124
It's the truth. A woman when she is dumped has almost always a wide net of emotional support and the guy will be villainized. A guy left in the dust has to pick himself up, most of the time
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 10:01:53 PM No.81736222
this is my healing music, maybe you'll like it.
https://youtu.be/EYGwxf1gCC4?si=ugC4__o4BNaLMIsl
https://youtu.be/zOAhjWwEyO0?si=JH9IHGwIXMA7__G8
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 10:04:07 PM No.81736246
this is my healing music, maybe you'll like it. I'm sorry for what you're going through
https://youtu.be/EYGwxf1gCC4?si=ugC4__o4BNaLMIsl
https://youtu.be/zOAhjWwEyO0?si=JH9IHGwIXMA7__G8
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 10:22:08 PM No.81736455
anon needs obscure blvck mvtal
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=STZrNoPgIN4&list=RDEMksyd4yFSL9VUNgCQrxGZ8A&start_radio=1
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 10:59:04 PM No.81736841
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Blackwaterpark
md5: a38548635219fbcb0c195ae4eee10ac7🔍
>>81736246
>>81736222
Bless you anon.

>>81736455
Not too fond of it, but I appreciate the thought anon. Something like this is more my vibe:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YeTNkPXRrVY
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 12:07:14 AM No.81737530
Thank you anons. God bless you in all your endeavors
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 12:15:02 AM No.81737613
>>81734900
always don't reply or reply "k" if you must.