incelism could be a revolutionary force if they had the theory behind instead of believing in essentialist theories that put them by essence to the bottom of society.

This may make some women mad because it's hard to accept that while you are oppressed by a force, you may be part of a force that oppresses others. Just like some proletarians vote far right because they hate how minorities are considered more precarious than them.

Incels have material conditions that make them outcasts by society and they are then piledrived into by even progressives, because all atributes of evil are those descriptive of the lower castes. So in the public discourse, the only words that the genneral public has for incels are those that demean them... By being constantly attacked by the other castes and with their backs to the wall, there might be a way to turn the incel class into a violent revolutionary class...

They need theory. they do have an enemy and its the class society, not in the productive center, but the social one, where the ends meet at.
The violence of the incel class has to be channelled towards the real destruction of their oppressors.
By means of for example, not participating in efforts that gratify the higher classes, by engaging in power struggles whenever they can, but not to take over, to completely disrupt the functionning of this society.

Create situations. where happy unaware people are forced to see your reality, ruin people's day like a railway strike... make yourselves seen, disrupt dating apps with billions of shit accounts, shit on your bosses door, do all you can and federate yourselves with other losers should be a good praxis