>>81740332 (OP)Ask them if they'd date you. They'll probably tell you no. Ask them why.
Then go outside in a city or busy town, and count how many men there are. Now tell me how many of them look like you, or walk like you, or wear similar clothes to you.
If any of those women talked about physical reasons they wouldn't date you, measure up and see how many men you see ALSO have those same features they simply 'wouldn't date'.
In many cases, if the women are honest, you'll watch as 90+% of the men you see on a day-to-day basis are INSTANTLY denied just based off of why they wouldn't date you.
THAT tells you why they're struggling. Because most of the options are invisible to them, simply because they'll never consider them in the first place.