why do i attract mentally ill boys - /r9k/ (#81741938) [Archived: 450 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:42:29 AM No.81741938
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moids help me. you keep telling us to pick better but i genuinely don't know how to. every boy i flirt with turns out to be crazy and no i don't like it. no i'm not seeking them out. i am tired of psychos and don't want this to happen again. teach me how to avoid mentally ill men. how to see the red flags.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:44:24 AM No.81741951
>>81741938 (OP)
Are you picking tall men only femanon?, try to give men that are not 6ft+ a chance for once and maybe you might find a sane moid
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:44:47 AM No.81741955
>>81741938 (OP)
>broken moid wants girl to save him
>doesnt realize hes mentally ill
>freaks out when girl isnt prepared or told about his issues
>she leaves
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:46:14 AM No.81741962
>>81741938 (OP)
Sounds like you go for the unhinged type. Try going for the quieter types. They may seem boring at first, but as long as they have a few interests/hobbies, they can be fun to hang out with.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:46:36 AM No.81741967
>>81741951
i don't think there is a correlation between being tall and mentally ill
>>81741955
i can't save anyone
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:47:40 AM No.81741973
>>81741967
So you are tall chad only?
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:48:47 AM No.81741977
>>81741962
Not true. Quiet ones are the most freakiest if not even more crazy
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:49:08 AM No.81741980
>>81741962
no usually you find out afterwards
>>81741973
what does height have to do with this topic
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:50:00 AM No.81741985
>>81741977
Nah, there are peaceful ones. Like me.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:51:00 AM No.81741993
>>81741962
The quieter guys could also be more mentally ill though
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panties sniffer
7/7/2025, 10:51:19 AM No.81741995
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>>81741938 (OP)
Yes yes, keep rubbing in our faces how much you are popular and succesfull but the wall is coming and your eggs are drying up fast you disgusting skanks, go get abused by abusechads, we will not give you more attention.
PS: kys
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:52:46 AM No.81742001
>>81741995
why are you seething for no apparent reason
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:53:03 AM No.81742004
>>81741993
>The quieter guys could also be more mentally ill though
How? We just want a simple life
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:54:08 AM No.81742009
>>81741938 (OP)
>why do i attract mentally ill boys
I'm kinda mentally ill or you won't pick me cuz I'm a sea monkey
panties sniffer
7/7/2025, 10:56:06 AM No.81742018
>>81742001
Because op want attention and validation to help with her daddy issues and because it's a foid or a larp. In either case OP should neck it, annoying normies sexhavers are the bane of my existence. TOTAL FOIDS DEATH.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:58:08 AM No.81742026
>>81741980
Because i want to know if you are tall man only, what's your minimum height requirement?
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:58:26 AM No.81742030
>>81741980
>what does height have to do with this topic
They are seeing if you're just going for abuse Chad or not
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:58:34 AM No.81742032
>>81741938 (OP)
could you give some examples of their behavior?
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:59:39 AM No.81742039
>>81741938 (OP)
What type of mentally ill, theres dozens and they are drawn to different things
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:02:08 AM No.81742052
>>81741938 (OP)
Unironically, start going after men you like instead. There's a sort of confirmation bias where it's mostly shitty men who have the confidence to approach women at all. Plenty of quality men out there that just have a (very common) flaw that they are not confident enough to make the first move.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:10:54 AM No.81742092
>>81742026
i don't see how that's relevant
>>81742030
no i'm not. i ghost moids when they show signs of insanity
>>81742032
>extreme mood swings, goes from aggressive meltdown to lovey dovey in a second
>obsesses over shit that happened ages ago
>way too controlling
>very insecure and makes it my problem
>accuses me of stuff i didn't do like a schizo
>covert narcissistic behavior
>>81742052
noted thanks for giving real advice
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:14:11 AM No.81742106
>>81742092
It is relevant if you supposedly keep going after the same type of men
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MANLET CRUSADER ALL WOMEN HATE SHORT MEN HEIGHT IS THE NUMBER ONE TRAIT IN TERMS OF ATTRACTION
7/7/2025, 11:14:43 AM No.81742109
>>81742092
>Only go for tall men with mental health issues
>Reject any man shorter then 6ft
>Complain that those failed tall men are mentally ill
Fuck you you rancid cunt just say it how it is you despise short men and want them dead
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panties sniffer
7/7/2025, 11:15:06 AM No.81742112
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>>81742092
>>81741995
Total simps death, i hope all cucky boys talking to this larping pos get killed by mutts or jeets, you disgusting pitiful examples of men.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:19:16 AM No.81742131
>>81742106
no i don't
>>81742109
you are not exactly helping make manlets look sane
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:24:27 AM No.81742150
>>81742131
>no i don't
Ok then what is this thread?
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:25:20 AM No.81742152
>>81742150
i asked how to avoid them, i wasn't seeking them out
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:27:00 AM No.81742158
>>81742092
okay those seem legit as Ive talked to guys like that on discord
I dont think its possible to tell online and its always a gamble
if you want to keep talking to boys from here then accept the high risk low reward
I guess a non crazy but maybe shy or weird boy will still be respectful, attentive, well paced and have outlets like hobbies
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:32:14 AM No.81742179
>>81742152
Woah so they're forcing you to flirt with them?
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:39:07 AM No.81742207
>>81741967
There isn't a direct correlation but tall men are a small and extremely desirable population, so for any of them to be single very negative traits are a given to offset the desirability of being tall.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:48:33 AM No.81742241
>>81741938 (OP)
For one, your picture choice in this thread doesn't exactly scream mentally stable and self respecting.
It's probably better not to project an image of being an "easy" towards the outside, so moids don't solely pursue you because of their blood flowing away from their brain.
Maybe you could also take some more time to get to know them before you start flirting, so you know they're stable and you actually like them instead of it possibly just being the thrill of getting to know someone new.
Also, if everyone around you is psychotic, you might want to change how you get to know them in the first place (I can only speculate, but consider adding people because you like something about their personality and not because you like their attention).
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:49:11 AM No.81742243
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>>81741938 (OP)
bc u r mentally ill, bishhhhhhh
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 12:24:48 PM No.81742381
>>81742243
Is that you, Dr Meklin?
MANLET CRUSADER ALL WOMEN HATE SHORT MEN HEIGHT IS THE NUMBER ONE TRAIT IN TERMS OF ATTRACTION
7/7/2025, 12:31:49 PM No.81742428
>>81742131
WHY WON'T YOU ANSWER THE QUESTION WHAT IS YOUR HEIGHT REQUIREMENTS???