Thread 81747951 - /r9k/ [Archived: 436 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:47:12 PM No.81747951
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When did you give up on women and why?
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:51:51 PM No.81747993
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>>81747951 (OP)
never even tried lol, fuck them all
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:53:37 PM No.81748016
>>81747951 (OP)
I didn't. There's not really a point in "giving up" on women, anyways. Either she comes along one day or she doesn't. I'm prepared for either.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:53:51 PM No.81748022
Around 2009 I approached over 550 women, after that I knew it was over and I spent my time on PuaHate.
Now I'm also a healthcel, low T, chronic fatigue, fucked up back and stomach. The stress took a toll.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:59:07 PM No.81748062
>>81748016
yep, this is how i feel. i'm not going to go out of my way to look for a woman, but if i meet one and we have a relationship, then that's cool. I'm not expecting it though.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:55:42 PM No.81748649
living with women is like living with a human performance evaluation
>>81747951 (OP)

I don't know if I can love women still after seeing them for what they really are.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:01:53 AM No.81748713
>>81747951 (OP)
14 when my oneitis told me I would never amount to anything in life. I realized at that point every woman I had ever met hated me. I have yet to be proven wrong.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:02:14 AM No.81748716
It just clicked one day, honestly it's better to give up instead of seething forever, one less source of stress. The concept of a relationship or sex with a woman is now completely alien to me, it doesn't factor in my mind
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:03:24 AM No.81748727
>>81748016
>>81748062
>waiting for a girl to fall into your lap
not gonna happen unless youre chad
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:04:15 AM No.81748735
>>81747951 (OP)
I didn't give up on women, just gave up on hoping, i still try but like, pretty indifferent overall about it
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:30:36 AM No.81749679
>>81747951 (OP)
I noticed not even top tier men can make them loyal and act human.
Chads get cucked
Monster dickers get cucked
Criminals get cucked

Its fucking over
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 3:00:48 AM No.81750528
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>>81747951 (OP)
Probably when i was 16
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 3:24:10 AM No.81750705
My gf cheated on my back in 2018 and I chemically castrated myself with hrt for about two months and gave up on women. Didn't make me attracted to men unfortunately. It did make me look younger though and get gyno. I can still come but it's severely premature, but sex has always been like that for me. I'm severely lovely and depressed now though. Don't give up
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 3:25:39 AM No.81750714
>>81747951 (OP)
I only gave up on millennial women because they are so old now they are set in their ways.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 3:27:07 AM No.81750727
>>81747951 (OP)
never did
i just gave up on ever finding my own woman, but women in general are still cool in my book
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 3:45:09 AM No.81750852
>>81747951 (OP)
Idk but I don't know what it means when a short haired blonde girl walks up to you and starts chatting? Am I just too autistic to tell what this means?
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 3:57:33 AM No.81750945
>>81750852
I want to know if I'm overthinking it or is she flirting with me. I can't tell
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 3:59:20 AM No.81750955
I gave up a few years ago and the reason was I hate the humiliation ritual that is dating.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 4:24:47 AM No.81751183
Beginning of 2023 I was KHHV, had never even been on a date with a woman. I was 28 at the time.
A year later I'd been on a couple dozen dates (most of them first dates) but never made it past a third date, and never even kissed any of them. I did manage to get a couple of hookups but I regret them, both of the women were fat and not very attractive.
I gave up in summer 2024. A couple of times I've reinstalled some dating apps but never even had a match since then.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 4:42:42 AM No.81751361
>>81747951 (OP)
Constantly chasing was exhausting for slimmer gains. When I stopped trying I got more attention, and that showed me the error of my ways.