I felt what it is like to be a girl in dating - /r9k/ (#81749073) [Archived: 503 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:35:21 AM No.81749073
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Had a 3/10 girl obsess over me, always come up to me, ask for my number, start texting me nonstop, a female simp, essentially. It was the most annoying thing ever as I felt nothing for her but she clearly wanted me. I know what girls experience now and why they sometimes respond so negatively towards guys now. If this happened to me regularly, I would snap just like they do
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:36:55 AM No.81749101
i read your thread and i will now proceed to cut myself
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:37:38 AM No.81749109
>>81749073 (OP)
yeah im ugly and i simp as much as i can to punish women. its fun
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:39:30 AM No.81749136
>>81749073 (OP)
you are a homosexual, I don't mean it as an insult but a descriptive fact
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:40:59 AM No.81749149
>>81749073 (OP)
>this is what incels think of any woman that's not stacy
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:41:12 AM No.81749154
>>81749073 (OP)
>tfw no 3/10 girl that's obsessed with me
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:42:29 AM No.81749169
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>>81749073 (OP)
There may be nothing more that makes me understand women than being asked out, especially by someone you aren't attracted to. So much power, and any of the shame and humiliation that comes from putting yourself out there completely negated. I understand why women never ask men out. Why would you possibly embarrass yourself by getting rejected when you can have them grovel at your feet?
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:44:35 AM No.81749187
>>81749073 (OP)
men are so evil
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:46:37 AM No.81749211
>>81749073 (OP)
I think its much worse if a dude does it, its atleast a little endearing when a girl is trying to get your attention but when a guy does it its very childish and pathetic.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:50:51 AM No.81749259
>>81749136
What makes yu say that?
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:52:25 AM No.81749277
>>81749211
>endearing
A friend had to deal with a psycho that tried to be "endearing" and ended up with a pickaxe in his car's engine for not wanting to date her.
It's not a UwU kind of trying, it's a tryhard retard-tier shit from someone who can't get a hint. Even worse when it's from ugly women, cause they are dead-set on punching way above their weight class.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:53:41 AM No.81749290
>>81749073 (OP)
How did you manage to make her obsess with you?
Where do you know each other from?
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:24:29 AM No.81749603
>>81749073 (OP)
You don't even need a simp, just amplify any negative interaction you have had and that's what women go through everyday, it's shit.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:28:48 AM No.81749654
I had one stalk me for a while, it was a lot. She came to my work once and I simply noted that I remember her from elementary school. As we were in the same class. From there she basically just assumed I must be interested, started coming to my work every day. Finding my facebook and adding me, constantly messaging me and inviting me over. She was not pretty and I had a real hard time trying to get the hint across that I wasn't interested. Even ran into her at my local gas station a few too many times for it to be coincidence.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:31:38 AM No.81749692
>>81749073 (OP)
>>81749169
I am diagnosed with NPD and this one time I actually had a girl show interest in me in a very obvious way. She was in my friend circle and pretty clearly in love with me, like constantly mentioning my name making the topic about me and praising me in a way that it was pretty cringy because of how obvious she made it.
It felt absurdly good having my ego constantly boosted, she was actually pretty attractive and I was already eyeing him before she fell in love, but the moment she started showing interest was also the moment I completely lost any romantic interest in her. I just felt like leading her on to torture her a bit.
I know this is fucked and I'm pretty ashamed of it, I am trying to cure myself from NPD but I just want to give my personal thoughts about this matter.
I think women enjoy getting hit on, it's basically free validation. It's why they're so addicted to social media, I compared it to being on cocaine so imagine that women get that feeling all the time because they are constantly validated IRL and on social media. Women also get a kick from rejecting someone, either consciously or subconsciously and giving them their validation or showing interest makes them lose interest usually.
I think not even chad would be exempt from this, like the girl I talked about was a 9/10 had a good personality and probably one of the few women I think are genuinely funny and I still lost all romantic interest to her the moment she made it obvious, me, the narcissistic retarded incel.
tl;dr if you wanna do well in love you need to be nonchalant, and do not give women free validation. This is why the retards who simp for fembots never go anywhere with them
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:32:39 AM No.81749703
>>81749692
>eveying him
eyeing her*
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:36:21 AM No.81749743
>>81749654
if the girl who was into me would have given me at least 1 fifth of this energy instead of being as invisible as possible i would be married by now. instead she just found me in the park one day just to straight up tell me she used to have a crush on me, but not anymore. those were her words kek
why even tell me that. im mad
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:38:03 AM No.81749762
>>81749743
have you told all your crushes that you were into them?
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:40:32 AM No.81749785
>>81749073 (OP)
I had the same, but I was in middle school and didn't cared about women. Nowadays I'd accept it easily. She was virgin and that's my only dealbreaker
To be fair she was a 4/10 and years later when I saw her again she was like 5/10. It'd be a good investment
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:44:21 AM No.81749825
>>81749743
I once had a girl tell me she used to really like me but didn't do anything because I hung out with nerds. Like fuck you bitch, I'll choose my autist friends over some roastie any day.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:52:07 AM No.81749878
This happened to me and I ended up dating her because it was the only time anyone was interested in me and I didnt want to be alone anymore
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:55:30 AM No.81749905
Good now gtfo outta here chadlite. I never had a 3/10 girl obsess over me and if I ever do I will take her in. I'm so fucking lonely.