>>81749073 (OP)>>81749169I am diagnosed with NPD and this one time I actually had a girl show interest in me in a very obvious way. She was in my friend circle and pretty clearly in love with me, like constantly mentioning my name making the topic about me and praising me in a way that it was pretty cringy because of how obvious she made it.
It felt absurdly good having my ego constantly boosted, she was actually pretty attractive and I was already eyeing him before she fell in love, but the moment she started showing interest was also the moment I completely lost any romantic interest in her. I just felt like leading her on to torture her a bit.
I know this is fucked and I'm pretty ashamed of it, I am trying to cure myself from NPD but I just want to give my personal thoughts about this matter.
I think women enjoy getting hit on, it's basically free validation. It's why they're so addicted to social media, I compared it to being on cocaine so imagine that women get that feeling all the time because they are constantly validated IRL and on social media. Women also get a kick from rejecting someone, either consciously or subconsciously and giving them their validation or showing interest makes them lose interest usually.
I think not even chad would be exempt from this, like the girl I talked about was a 9/10 had a good personality and probably one of the few women I think are genuinely funny and I still lost all romantic interest to her the moment she made it obvious, me, the narcissistic retarded incel.
tl;dr if you wanna do well in love you need to be nonchalant, and do not give women free validation. This is why the retards who simp for fembots never go anywhere with them