now i'm going to be at home by myself until i'm almost 21

>the year of our lord 2025
>college
This is God trying to stop you from destroying yourself, retard.

>>81762442
bye

6890

>>81762430 (OP)
that enrollment board basically sentenced me to death

>>81762459
i think this life is a punishment because SO MANY comically bad things just keep happening to me in a unlikely way. i wouldn't be surprised if i did something bad and this is my punishment because it is literally torture. or maybe i took a drug that makes you hallucinate a really bad life so see how long i can last, or make me grateful for my real one

>>81762483
Just wait until you're 30, kid.

>>81762525
yes that is what i want to avoid. i don't see any value in adulthood because i am basically aromantic and asexual, so i wanted to have fun in college before i have nothing to look forward to.

>>81762551
If you want to have the college experience without the college bullshit then take a summer job in the nantahala gorge. There's plenty of rafting companies with staff housing and you'll probably end up having a better time. Just stay the fuck away from Paddle Inn and everyone there.

>>81762430 (OP)
Im 23 and cant go to coolleg because i failed elemtary school lol

>>81762551
>i am basically aromantic and asexual
No, you are retarded.

>>81763278
all unfortunately :(((((

>>81762430 (OP)
What happened? Did you get suspended for academic misconduct or where you put on academic probation and failed to get off probation?

>>81763813
probation sadly :( i should have done things differently. i know i'm young, but the point of that is making the most of your youth. i wont be able to do that, because i'll be stuck at home with my dad that doesn't let me use my phone past midnight. am i over exaggerating or is this a really sad situation? be honest

>>81764036
This isn't a great situation to be in. You need to try to fight this. Idk what your social life looks like now, but coming back after being gone from uni for a year is going to be difficult. You'll be taking classes with people who don't know you and haven't seen you before so you might feel less integrated. You may also feel demotivated. Have you tried everything possible to fight the suspension or mandatory withdrawal? If you're diagnosed with something like adhd for example you can use that to argue that you being put on probation was unfair due to lack of access to accommodations. If this is mandatory withdrawal, do you know what to do to maximize your chances of being accepted back? Will you be accepted back into the same program?

>>81764087
i honestly don't think there is a way to fight the probation, as i already appealed and they denied it. yeah, this will really fuck up my social life. i think it's stupid that they probably don't take that into consideration.
i will be accepted back though, but i have to take a year off. man it sucks wasting my youth like this

>>81764104
Do you have a diagnosed disability or think you could get diagnosed with one?

>>81764131
i have adhd. i think could get diagnosed with autism or avoidant personality disorder if i wanted

>>81764149
Have you tried using your disability to appeal the suspension? You could argue that you lacked certain accommodations or that you weren't properly medicated

>>81764169
i wasn't properly medicated, i mentioned that in my appeal but didn't stress it.
i suppose i didn't get accommodations but it seems like a big stretch, especially since it's implied that you only get one appeal.
overall, i have accepted the fact that i have to stay home.
one crazy idea i have is to take the required classes i have to take before i return all in one semester and come back early. don't know if that is mentally possible though. also i know it's retarded that i will be doing work all year just at home at community college not my university
thank you for the help by the way

>>81764185
If you could provide proof that you weren't properly medicated (new prescriptions for example) and argue that you didn't have accommodations you needed I think you would have a good chance of having your suspension overturned.

>>81764215
i really doubt it, with all the information i have

>>81764231
If you can't get the suspension overturned the best thing you can do is finish as many electives as you can while suspended and figure out how to better manage your adhd and other disabilities to ensure you're successful academically when you return to uni. You'll feel more confident if you're a strong student which might help with your social life

>>81764036
Making out the best out of what? You are "asexual" "a romantic" or whatever the fuck that means retard fuck off.

>>81764250
yeah, i'll do that. i appreciate the replies

>>81764343
i'm not really attracted to people, thats what it means

>>81764354
How do you pretend to make the best out of your youth if you are "asexual" YOU HUGE FUCKING RETARD

>>81764389
calm down omfg, and having friends and exploring the awesome town my college is in
you cant make a friend group after young adult hood i think

>>81764348
Good luck. I hope you make the best of this situation and succeed academically and socially when you get back to uni

>>81764402
>>81764410
HOW DO YOU EXPECT TO DO THAT IF YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN PEOPLE FUCKS SAKE

>>81764410
thanks!!
>>81764416
WHY ARE YOU SO ANGRY CHILL THE FUCK OUT

>>81764434
FUCK OFF YOU FREAK RETARD