Cis Tomboy Acquaintence has Autogynephilic Tendencies? - /r9k/ (#81764615) [Archived: 569 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/9/2025, 10:34:37 AM No.81764615
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Anyone else ever hear of anything like this?

I have an acquaintance / friend (we met playing pickleball) who is a fairly tomboyish cis female. She is physically rather feminine (5'2", curvy but thin build, and not all that muscular) yet has a lot of masculine interests. She is not trans.

Anyways, we ended up making out one day and she told me she has a "misgendering kink" and, as far as I understood it, that involves her pretending she's been magically turned into a girl against her will. So it's similar to AGP but in a cis female. She isn't into yaoi or Yuri, she just really likes to imagine she's a guy in a woman's body and is being forced to accept her feminine desires. Tbh, I was so confused that it took me a while to know how to respond.

Has anyone else encountered anything like this?
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:17:19 PM No.81765057
She broke the game.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:36:21 PM No.81765169
>>81764615 (OP)
>Has anyone else encountered anything like this?
Why can't it be me
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:42:57 PM No.81765207
That's hot. Go with it. Gradually introduce more feminine stuff: "You're a girl now: you have to wear hot pink lipstick".

Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

Genuinely, good for you that she would make herself this vulnerable with you. But you probably shouldn't have gone on here and told us freaks.

Treasure her.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 1:06:23 PM No.81765353
>>81764615 (OP)
You literally have a free pass to turn her into a bimbo barbie doll or any other hyperfeminine trope you're into. Thank whatever god you subscribe and have fun with your gift.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 1:45:05 PM No.81765649
>>81764615 (OP)
>pickleball
I TURNED MYSELF INTO A BALL AND CRIED TO MY SLEEP, MORTY. BUUUUUUUUURP
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 2:31:30 PM No.81765927
>>81765353
Why would you ruin a tomboy like that? Turning her into that means no more fun.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 2:33:58 PM No.81765939
>>81764615 (OP)
>cis
>using troon language unironically
Consider the rope, scum.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 3:51:25 PM No.81766484
>>81765927
Pink obsessed women turn me on.
They're like a carricature of femininity, an attempt at projecting the perception of a hyperbolized beauty standard towards the world through constantly making sure their appearance aligns with what they think others want.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 6:26:58 PM No.81767818
>>81765207
>That's hot. Go with it. Gradually introduce more feminine stuff: "You're a girl now: you have to wear hot pink lipstick".

I tried going with it and it definitely was a huge turn on for her.

>But you probably shouldn't have gone on here and told us freaks.

Tbh, I figured if anyone has heard of this it'd be 4chan lol
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 6:32:00 PM No.81767867
>>81765939

I'm a straight, right-wing guy. I just used the terms so people wouldn't think I'm messing with a transwoman. She's a bio woman.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 6:53:43 PM No.81768050
>>81764615 (OP)
>Autogynephilic
Lol you fucking autistic
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 7:25:51 PM No.81768278
>>81766484
what if i just think its cool and cute as a color
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 7:35:15 PM No.81768373
>>81768278
>what if i just think its cool and cute as a color
Sure, sure, bimbo slut!!!
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 7:38:44 PM No.81768399
>>81764615 (OP)
Once I heard an gonewildaudio with that theme. It was hot, too bad the man who did trooned out kek
I am not feminine so I have fantasies of guys making me act and dress feminine and reminding me that I am supposed to be barefoot and pregnant. Basically FtMtF with a dose of misogyny, to cope with the fact I hate I was born a woman
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 7:39:19 PM No.81768408
>>81764615 (OP)
This is extremely normal for tomboys. All tomboy media has the moment when the girl dresses up for prom or the date and she turns out to be a beautiful feminine woman who loves to be treated like a regular girl from time to time. I guess zoomers can't help but dress it up in some psychological gender bullshit, but what you're dealing with it otherwise normal. She just likes being a girl sometimes, and for whatever reason struggles to accept she likes it. Probably she's built her identity around being a tomboy, but as she gets older she finds herself enjoying being feminine more and more, and now she's created this weird identity to cope.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 7:41:43 PM No.81768430
>>81768399
Do you mind if I ask you a bunch of questions?
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 7:43:02 PM No.81768442
I'm an ugly tall cis female and I wish I was mtf trans
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 7:46:47 PM No.81768494
>>81768430
>Do you mind if I ask you a bunch of questions?
Not at all, go ahead
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 7:52:06 PM No.81768569
>>81768494
>Not at all, go ahead
Yay.
1. Since you hate being woman, have you considered being gender neutral instead of being ftm or now as a girl again?
2. Just how much do you hate being a woman?
3. What kind of interests do you have?
4. Does the fantasy mean you still consciously want to feel like a woman sometimes? Do you think there's a reason why you might want something like that?
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 8:11:05 PM No.81768782
>>81768569
>Gender neutral
I didn't transition or anything. Probably what they call repressing. I am aware that I am a woman and no hormone or surgery will change that. Being gender neutral is just slapping an useless label to feel myself speshful and won't change things that I already do, wear men's clothing, not shaving when I feel like or not wearing makeup
>How much do you hate being a woman?
Quite a lot. I could write a long paragraph about it, but the gist of it is that I feel like being punished for not being what I should be as a girl. Also I dislike that we women are slaves of our biology.
>My interests. Those are a mix desu. I like nerdy hobbies, anime, vidya, manga, you name it and I like things that are considered masculine: sports, history. But also I like things that are considered female hobbies, drawing, reading. I think the most stereotypical one I have is being a fujo kek
>Does the fantasy mean you still consciously want to feel like a woman sometimes? Do you think there's a reason why you might want something like that?
I know I am a woman, just a failure of one. That's why in the fantasy I always want the man/my handler/master/whatever you would call him always remind me that I am a woman, degrade me and remind me of my biological functions
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 8:12:55 PM No.81768809
>>81764615 (OP)
this is mef (masochistic emasculation fetish) not agp
t. knower
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 8:19:44 PM No.81768883
>>81768782
Thanks for indulging my pseudo-autism
>useless label
I agree to be honest. In fact, I think they're harmful for those who are less stable. I was just trying to understand.
>I feel like being punished for not being what I should be as a girl.
How would you feel about people having different opinions of what women should be? There are plenty of men like me who love tomboys, who won't mind you not shaving or not wearing make up. Plus, you still have some feminine hobbies.
>Also I dislike that we women are slaves of our biology
That's what most living beings are I'm afraid.
>I like nerdy hobbies, anime, vidya, manga, you name it and I like things that are considered masculine: sports, history. But also I like things that are considered female hobbies, drawing, reading.
How do you still have time for all that? These days I only do sports and play an instrument if I get home early enough.
>I think the most stereotypical one I have is being a fujo kek
Do you like admiring men or do you sometimes self-insert?
>degrade me and remind me of my biological functions
So you would like something like a tradwife relationship?
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 8:42:30 PM No.81769166
>>81768883
How would you feel about people having different opinions of what women should be? There are plenty of men like me who love tomboys, who won't mind you not shaving or not wearing make up. Plus, you still have some feminine hobbies.
I feel okay with it, but it's hard to get rid of something that was ingrained ever since I was a little child
How do you still have time for all that? These days I only do sports and play an instrument if I get home early enough
I cycle them. I don't play a lot of sports, don't play a lot of games and usually limit myself to one or two
Do you like admiring men or do you sometimes self-insert?
I do both things. I like to imagine how it would be to be a man, to feel my body, to cum as a man. I imagine how it would be to be fucked or fuck another man, to be with a girl. In some scenarios I even like to imagine crossdressing myself, going to parties and teasing men, for only for them to discover I am a woman and punish me for it.
> you would like something like a tradwife relationship?
No, it would be awful, kek. Surely I do house chores just fine but I couldn't be a SAHM or wife, let alone be a mother. I want him to make those comments when he is having sex with me and even sprinkle some breeding talking but not actually breeding
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 9:05:34 PM No.81769396
>>81769166
>I feel okay with it, but it's hard to get rid of something that was ingrained ever since I was a little child
How did that happen? Quite impressive that you started noticing those things as a kid. I was rather normal but gradually became more and more distant from your average person.
>I cycle them. I don't play a lot of sports, don't play a lot of games and usually limit myself to one or two
Hmmm, I guess I will need to do that. Right now I'm just focusing on sports and music. I want to get as good as I possibly can in the sport I play, while for music, I want to be able to play a song. I estimate it will take close to two years to play the whole thing lol. What have you been playing?
>I like to imagine how it would be to be a man, to feel my body, to cum as a man. I imagine how it would be to be fucked or fuck another man, to be with a girl.
That's a lot to experience lol. Have you tried any of that? Ideally, how would you like to be able to try those? With one person or with many?
>Surely I do house chores just fine but I couldn't be a SAHM or wife
Ahahaha I get what you mean. It does feel quite limiting.
>I want him to make those comments when he is having sex with me and even sprinkle some breeding talking but not actually breeding
How about doing that day to day every now and then? Not too often
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 9:08:00 PM No.81769421
>>81764615 (OP)
More common than you think. I still think it's weird.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 9:33:12 PM No.81769681
>>81769421

I did find a couple similar accounts, there's a woman named Wren Adams who was producing this type of "oh no, I'm a girl" content like 10 years ago.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 9:33:58 PM No.81769690
>>81768442
do you like dinosaurs
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 10:25:12 PM No.81770168
>>81768809

If it was all about being submissive (or if she was into BDSM stuff) then I would agree but it isn't like that. Her fetish seems more similar to AGP.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:58:22 PM No.81771171
>>81768278
That's just what you tell yourself, silly.
If we follow hume's model, you're simply rationalizing aesthetic judgement after the subconscious sentiment has already materialized.
If we follow Bourdieu's model, your conscious preference is just a shape formed by your social dispositions, your class, your upbringing, your habitus.
You find it cute because it has been imprinted into you.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 12:02:42 AM No.81771219
>>81771171
what if im a normal straight white man that thinks its cool? blue used to be a color associated with women, and pink used to be a color associated with men back in the day. your pseudo intellectual argument really doesnt hold much weight. colors are associated with the meanings WE as people give them
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 12:27:43 AM No.81771508
>>81771219
I was just indulging in some mental masturbation out of boredom, but what I said is still sound.
I'll assume that you responded to my initial post, since what you said is completely unrelated to the second one, but congrats on managing to repeat what I said. Make sure you understand the text before replying with useless trivia next time.
The crux of your argument is the pronoun you used - "we".
The meaning of a color isn't individual. It is a shared experience with set associations of meaning that get drilled into you from the tender time you start wearing clothes.
You don't decide collective meaning individually, so it will always be there, even if an experience unique to you reshapes your individual association.
The gender argument is irrelevant because colors have different effects depending on the circumstances, among those being the gender of its' presenter.
Pink, when worn by women, is associated with femininity and softness and you will always feel this, even if only subconsciously.
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 2:01:12 AM No.81772587
>>81764615 (OP)
She is a he. Be forewarned
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 2:01:39 AM No.81772592
>>81764615 (OP)
That's one retard kink, pity her a lot
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 2:25:22 AM No.81772786
>>81769396
>How did that happen? Quite impressive that you started noticing
My bad, I was referring to gender roles. I grew up having to help my mother with domestic chores while my older brother didn't have to lift a finger, despite being older and more useful in helping mom. Every kid would notice this kind of unfairness and hate it
>What have you been playing?
I have started Octopath Traveler. The grinding feels very slow imo
>Have you tried any of that? Ideally, how would you like to be able to try those? With one person or with many?
The farthest I did with both sexes was making out and some fondling.
I would like to try those in places where the sexual energy is high. The crossdressing I would want to be in a fancy gala or ball. I quite enjoy suits. Realistically I would look more like of a teen boy in those clothes so it stays in fantasy, alongside with consent issues
How about doing that day to day every now and then? Not too often
It would be the perfect scenario
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 2:47:51 AM No.81772974
>>81772592

A lot of the "small quirky tomboy types" have unusual kinks.
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 2:58:02 AM No.81773048
>>81772786
Oh, I'm glad I decided to check the thread out again.
>while my older brother didn't have to lift a finger, despite being older and more useful in helping mom
Ahh no I understood what you were saying. It was the same for me. I used to hate my older brother and he used to hate me. He had a lot more leeway with everything while I was expected to just succeed while also doing all the chores and stuff. Do you still talk to your brother? My brother and I have an amicable relationship these days.
>I have started Octopath Traveler. The grinding feels very slow imo
Ohhh so you're an rpg kind of person? The last one I played was osrs but yeah, I'm not a fan of grinding either. Are there no mods to speed things up? It's why I tend to play action games, but then they always miss the rpg elements.
>I would like to try those in places where the sexual energy is high.
Hmmm, like nightclubs? Can't really think of other places with a high sexual energy.
>I quite enjoy suits.
I like them a lot too. They look good without being too extravagant or showy, and you can dress up or down in them. I like formal occasions too. I feel more at home in them.
>Realistically I would look more like of a teen boy in those clothes so it stays in fantasy, alongside with consent issues
Ehhh, I think it depends on how you style yourself. I tend to look far younger than my age but I had a few pics of myself where I thought I looked like a businessman lol.
>It would be the perfect scenario
Very cute.

I have to sleep now because of work tomorrow, but since we have some common interests, do you want to talk elsewhere? You can tell me your preferred platform by emailing anony.1262@proton.me.
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 5:20:16 AM No.81774016
>>81764615 (OP)
IDK, but it would be nice if you faggots posted more tomboy pics.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 6:19:05 AM No.81774441
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>>81774016

Appropriate to tbe thread...
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 6:23:41 AM No.81774480
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>>81774441

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