Thread 81772332

>missing her a lot
>try to get over her by finding a new girl
>getting not even rejection just being totally ignored by every girl
>realizing i'll never find another girl and i blew my only chance at happiness
>missing her a lot
how do you break this loop it's making me wanna rope real bad dudes

>>81772332 (OP)
accept the loss and be alone

>>81772348
I don't know how to accept being alone I mean I've been alone 99% of my life except for like 2 weeks but it just eats away at you, you never get used to it.

>>81772394
why did the relationship you had fail?

>>81772442
I don't know, she just woke up one day and decided she wants to be single I guess. The day before we were being very flirty and cute so it's not like there was a fight or anything.
I want to be bitter about it and be like "fucking women smdh" but I really can't hate her even if she ends up being the reason for my death it's probably my fault and I was just too autistic to notice.

>>81772332 (OP)
remembering how you felt before, during, and after the breakup breaks the cycle. things would be better if either of you had acted differently, but neither of you were ever going to. it hurts more to be alone and ignored, but the feeling of a failing relationship is on another level. it changes your personality over time.

>>81772518
that's the frustrating part though, the relationship didn't seem like it was failing. if there was something going on and it was like an inevitable end I'd probably be over it by now. but the fact it just ended instantly with no previous problems just leads me to endlessly self-doubt form the lack of closure, and then my failure to get any woman after her makes me think she was taking pity on me and just got fed up with my ass. like what do you even do at that point?

>>81772549
focus on the during and after then, because it would only waste energy and lower your self-esteem to speculate about the before without closure. opening yourself up to failure and or harm via vulnerability is required for love and maybe you are guarded and unhappy after everything. you should take time for yourself and build the things up in your life that will bring fulfillment with or without a partner. times are changing and this is how the cookie crumbles now

>>81772332 (OP)
How she was? Any physical description? I think I may know this person