everyone i become friends with ends up hating me within 3 months am i really that bad :<<

>>81774103 (OP)
what do you do for them to end up hating you

>>81774103 (OP)
Same. I lack the ability to be able to tell whether people are genuinely upset or not or what theyre feeling in general and it ruins everything. Maybe you have a similar problem.

>>81774103 (OP)
>everyone i become friends with ends up hating me within 3 month
online? irl? where do you meet these friends?
>>81774111
this (nice trips btw)

>>81774111
I get too comfortable and I just become my true self and they say everything i do makes them uncomfortable

>>81774103 (OP)
Don't ghost people, use negativity to get attention, blow off plans with people, lie to people, rapid cycle between clingy and avoidant, share things people tell you in confidence, friend collect so you can't spend time with anyone. If you do none of these things and you're still hated they are likely just normalfags.

>>81774127
No way what the fuck I also do this.

>>81774127
>my true self
what is your true self like?

>>81774135
>rapid cycle between clingy and avoidant
How do I fix this?

>>81774116
Yeah im bad at that too.. i read the vibe wrong and i say the wrong thing and they wanna stop talking

>>81774143
Im just a chill dude who wants to play games but i guess sometimes i get too touchy

>>81774169
touchy in what way?

>>81774184
you know... like touchy touchy

>>81774149
Stick to one, people don't like being destabilized and get weird if expected interactions change

>>81774192
do you sexually harass them

>>81774205
I wouldn't say that its like mutual touching but I guess maybe yeah sexual harassment maybe

There's only like two people I've met online that I didn't eventually come to resent for one reason or another. Wasting my time on online interactions from mid teenage years up to now (late 30s) has ruined my life, and chatting with other people from the Internet was the biggest mistake I ever made in my life, upon retrospect. The Internet was a mistake. I've been ghosted, ghosted, used people as emotional and sexual rags, and been used the same, and it's all just a matter of time before it becomes meaninglessly stale, reading the same predictable responses and entertaining the same general subjects. Without actual interaction, it's all so hollow and masturbatory.

>>81774103 (OP)
I will never hate you or ghost you people say I am annoying and clingy though add me on at discord: wolfgang_akire_333 i literally do not care who you are as long as you're not a child rapist I have met worse people on here

>>81774245
i agree, but its hard not to just hit up online strangers when you're in your room all day... its a vicious cycle ..

>>81774275
True. It's a safe, distant means of satisfying that urge to communicate with someone, while also disliking being around others. But ultimately, it just burns itself out. I don't expect anything from anyone now.

>>81774103 (OP)
Same. I can't help but act like I'm walking on eggshells 24/7 so I guess people end up somewhat matching my attitude but aren't as forgiving, so the first time I say something that might come off slightly disagreeing they get offended and leave

>>81774370
Using it to get close to others and becoming real friends is the goal. Faceless nameless unattached communication is pointless.