>>81778011 (OP)you don't
i tried to find people to talk to on /soc/. besides a few random interactins, i managed to talk to two people, but they seem to lose interest in the conversation.
i can ask them questions about themselves and get answers as much as i want and discover all about them, but they don't really care. they do like talking about themselves i suppose.
this time i won't try to keep the conversation going like a retard. what i'm learning is that trying to find people who are interested in me as much as i am in them isn't going to happen.