what makes a girl cute? - /r9k/ (#81778420) [Archived: 367 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/10/2025, 4:34:48 PM No.81778420
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tell me stuff you find cute, not sexy or whatever. CUTE!!
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 4:37:23 PM No.81778440
She's childlike
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7/10/2025, 4:38:38 PM No.81778448
kurisu problem
kurisu problem
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>>81778420 (OP)
1. watch or read Steins;Gate VN or anime manga whatever
2. Be Kurisu
3. ????? Profit
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 4:38:48 PM No.81778451
>>81778420 (OP)
Just gonna ignore the first post. But for me its ribbons in their hair. I see this maybe once a year.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 4:45:22 PM No.81778498
hair bow
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>>81778451
ribbons kinda have a kid feel..i use to wear bows in my hair in the 3rd grade (jojo siwa fever was real) ill still go to a craft store and see if theres any cute subtle ribbons. you mean to use as a hair tie right?
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 6:32:41 PM No.81779319
>>81778420 (OP)
In terms of appearance: expressive face, pinchable cheeks, cuddly, short, braided hair, frilly dresses, pale skin
In terms of character: energetic, deep knowledge about a niche subject, kind and respectful
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 6:46:36 PM No.81779408
>>81778420 (OP)
cankles, thick calves
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 7:10:26 PM No.81779562
>>81778448
This is quite correct.
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 8:00:33 PM No.81779958
OP is a tyranny tranny trying to figure out what makes you tick
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:01:38 PM No.81781121
>>81779319
thanks! finally an actual answer.
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:14:42 PM No.81781279
still looking for answers op?
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:19:04 PM No.81781321
>>81781279
yea, i asked a guy a like and he says am cute buut i wanna be cuter.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:20:09 PM No.81781332
>>81781321
i also want just an objective view of whats cute, the general opinion of what most guys think is cute
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:26:29 PM No.81781394
>>81778420 (OP)
looks: pale - maybe a bit sickly/tired looking, dresses in alt fashion (bonus if lolita), has bangs or a layered haircut and long hair, skinny or toned
not looks: is autistic in a fun quirky way (like a yumejoshi or fujoshi), really into her hobbies, motivated, silly and fun to be around, caring, likes animals
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:28:03 PM No.81781409
>>81778420 (OP)
basically being like a small animal and kind of weak and helpless. its the trait that both makes me want to protect you and also easily overpower and ravish you
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:29:10 PM No.81781424
>>81778420 (OP)
>what makes a girl cute
When she posts her panties
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:30:19 PM No.81781433
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>>81781424
how many pantsu fetish robots do we have
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:32:27 PM No.81781448
>>81781321
i find cute when girls smile, i don't know why but i also like when they're a bit insecure or scared of horror movies, a bit chubby, pale, messy hair, but the cutest thing is being kind and caring.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:35:09 PM No.81781471
>>81778420 (OP)
When they joke sarcastically
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:37:23 PM No.81781488
>>81781409
oooooh, good to know tho i already sorta do that. am short and not muscular so am pretty weak + i like being manhandled so it works out for me
>>81781448
that describes me lol, aside from the chub. am just soft, not fat. tho i do want to gain weight
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:41:39 PM No.81781520
>>81781488
>that describes me lol
then you are the cutest, being soft is nice too. what is your height and weight?
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:44:14 PM No.81781544
>>81778420 (OP)
whatever the fuck she has
https://mangadex.org/title/0976963e-c0b4-4bdc-abde-831e9cb29cc2/damedol-to-sekai-ni-hitori-dake-no-fan
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:45:58 PM No.81781555
>>81781520
kinda 5'3 and rn 107. i want to get to 115 tho
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:46:58 PM No.81781564
sun dresses.
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:50:24 PM No.81781593
>>81781555
>short
>thin
>nerdy
damn you are my type. what kind of places do i need to frequent to find women like this or do girls like this just dont go outside
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:54:39 PM No.81781629
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>>81779319
this anon is onto something, but he is focusing on the leaves and not the forest
what makes girls cute is first a mindset of not being aggressive or judgemental, cuteness comes from a free spirit enjoying their time, when that state is reached, any clothes or haircut can become charming
i remember back in highschool, there was this giant black chubby chick with hideous hair in my class, she smiled with such sincerity that she melted the hearts of everyone
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:55:33 PM No.81781639
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>>81778420 (OP)
trick question
everything a girl does is cute in some way if she's wearing a skirt and thigh highs
I also think shoulder or so length hair is super cute
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:56:32 PM No.81781649
>>81779319
This is why the foids call you pedophiles
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:56:52 PM No.81781657
>>81781555
you are fun sized then! that's very cute. i'm a bit jealous of the guy you like
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:57:07 PM No.81781662
>>81781629
oh yeah this is so true i am also attracted to women that are genuinely good people
i wonder if women have the opposite logic, since we see goodness as feminine i wonder if women see evil and process that as masculine
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:57:13 PM No.81781663
>>81779319
a girl who's non energetic, stupid and kinda mean can be cute too especially if she's stupid
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:57:56 PM No.81781673
>>81781593
i dont really go out, and when i do i do things that dont involve ppl.
>>81781629
sooo just be a good person? lol
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:00:21 PM No.81781709
>>81781673
>sooo just be a good person? lol
i think its more than just doing good deeds its being a genuinely good person i think
>i dont really go out, and when i do i do things that dont involve ppl.
how did you meet the guy then?
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:06:25 PM No.81781780
>>81781709
....4chan x-x we live close tho so were gonna meet up :DD
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:08:15 PM No.81781813
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>>81778420 (OP)
1. be fictional and visually appealing
I have never seen an irl girl who I thought was cute
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:12:13 PM No.81781851
>>81781780
>4chan x-x
aww shit. i wanna meet girls like you without resorting to 4chan
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:15:51 PM No.81781884
>>81781851
yea very fair, am not even ugly. am just shy + refuse to use dating apps
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:21:35 PM No.81781951
>>81779319
I'm all of those and now I feel pretty happy... thank you, anon. Genuinely.
Unfortunately, I also have many flaws that would deem me unlovable.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:23:12 PM No.81781969
>>81778420 (OP)
If a girl invokes a burning desire in me to protect her and provide for her, she is cute. In my mind, I fine cute women most appealing and therefore sexy, as well, so they invoke lust by being cute, incidentally.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:27:20 PM No.81782008
>>81781969
you sound like a massive faggot, textbook definition of gay for women
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:29:40 PM No.81782035
>>81782008
An ex friend of mine said that cute girls aren't sexy for him, which made no sense to me, but he hangs out with transwomen (men who pretend to be women and engage in homosexuality), so I guess it's one of those things the other sexualities prefer. You wouldn't understand unless you were a straight man, which you can't be, sorry!
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:30:02 PM No.81782039
>>81781884
i hate dating apps for ltrs id rather meet them irl if possible. not too fond of edating either
>>81781951
>many flaws that would deem me unlovable
only thing that would make you unlovable as a woman is treating your partner like shit and constant nagging if you are not an asshole to your partner then you cant be unlovable
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 12:05:22 AM No.81782434
>>81782035
you even think like a woman, incredible, its obvious youre a faggot pretending to be straight lol
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 12:07:46 AM No.81782463
>>81778420 (OP)
round faces, soft features, bangs, ribbons, autistic interests, easy to talk to, etc
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 12:21:52 AM No.81782634
>>81782039
I think my biggest flaw is being a hag. Maybe I'm too self-defeating.
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 12:24:15 AM No.81782660
>>81782634
being old definetly doesnt make you unlovable by men yesterday some 32 year old chick did a bread saying she did multiple degrees bla bla bla and the thread was full of 18-23 year olds wanting to date her
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 12:44:49 AM No.81782914
>>81781951
hey anon if you don't mind, what's your age?
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 12:46:26 AM No.81782924
>>81782914
I'm 29 (but almost 30)

>>81782660
You made my day so much better, seriously.
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 12:51:23 AM No.81782984
>>81782924
>I'm 29
you aren't even that old! i'm like that age too, maybe you think you're old because most women on r9k now are like 18, but you aren't old.
plus, if you check all the boxes in that anon's list, then you'll have no problems finding a partner. have you ever had a boyfriend before?
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 12:56:51 AM No.81783058
>>81778420 (OP)
Huge breasts, big eyes, pale skin
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 1:05:00 AM No.81783146
>>81782984
Sorry in advance to other people for turning this into /soc/.
Well, I'm a virgin (I dated briefly a long time ago but we only kissed 'cause I was terrified of being touched). I'm not exactly sure what's wrong with me mentally, I really don't know.
But yes I think I check anon's boxes 100%, even the energetic part, and I wanna get better, you know?
Wanna talk a bit about you as well, anon?
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 1:10:15 AM No.81783199
>>81782924
>You made my day so much better, seriously.
yeah just make sure youre putting yourself out there men will definetly appear
>>81783146
id bet on autism
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 1:13:59 AM No.81783253
>>81783146
>Sorry in advance to other people for turning this into /soc/.
it's not that bad... it's not like we're posting pics of ourselves and such.
the fear of being touched is ok, being touched is a very private thing and it takes time, it can take years for some, so there's nothing wrong with you. maybe there was something about that person that made you feel even more scared?
>I wanna get better
how do you want to get better?
>Wanna talk a bit about you as well
i'm terrible at talking about myself, even more so on r9k
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 1:17:58 AM No.81783308
>>81783253
>the fear of being touched is ok
nta but no its not if youre scared of being touched by your own bf to the point you end up a virgin at 29 as a woman.
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 1:20:11 AM No.81783340
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>>81782634
Sorry for butting in, but it's always nice to find someone energetic and into something niche.
>I think my biggest flaw is being a hag
The mental side is a lot more important than the physical side, especially when there are many things you can do to keep yourself young.
>>81783146
>I wanna get better
What do you need getting better at?
>Wanna talk a bit about you as well, anon?
I can try describing myself following what the original anon wrote:
>appearance
Flat affect, pinchable cheeks, toned, kind of messy hair, look good in formal attire, smoothskin
>character
determined, calm, somewhat autistic (can spend months researching on stuff even if they are a bit mundane), edgy kind of humour, kind and respectful
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 1:22:04 AM No.81783362
>>81778451
now that whores wear them not so much
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 1:30:43 AM No.81783455
yep, another /soc/ thread
Replies: >>81783561
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 1:40:59 AM No.81783561
>>81783199
>yeah just make sure youre putting yourself out there men will definetly appear
I feel like men here on /r9k/ understand me better, but then what's the next step? I really don't know how to deal with things like these.
>id bet on autism
I have my suspicions about it too, but I'm pretty good at reading social cues.

>>81783340
>>81783253
>how do you want to get better?
>What do you need getting better at?
Dating, I guess. I'm honestly really lonely. I think I look cute enough and normal and I act normal in public, but I'm just always alone.
Thank you for the rest of the replies by the way, can't quote everything.

>>81783308
Yeah, I agree.

>>81783455
Can you forgive me?
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 1:43:00 AM No.81783572
>>81783561
>Dating, I guess. I'm honestly really lonely.
would you want to be friends first? i am not good at the whole dating thing
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 1:46:42 AM No.81783607
>>81783561
>but I'm pretty good at reading social cues
I feel we're just built differently. We have different instincts. I kind of act autistically but I can read most emotions and social cues just fine, and I act within the confines of social convention even if a bit awkward.
>but I'm just always alone
Do you have friends at all? I made two friends from a hobby group (1 friend and then his wife), and then a colleague is also pretty much a friend these days. I don't really go out to any other social settings because I don't like them, especially as they almost involve alcohol which I find is quite unnecessary.
>can't quote everything.
Noooooo, was curious how people would feel about my traits.
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 1:59:20 AM No.81783711
>>81783561
> feel like men here on /r9k/ understand me better
eeeeh i guess, but thats not necessarily a good thing lol. if you want to date a /r9k/ guy youre gonna get well... a guy from a /r9k/.
since youre a woman you can run a number's game until you find a decent enough guy. but i think meeting someone and connecting irl is always better
>what's the next step? I really don't know how to deal with things like these
you ask about putting yourself out there? as long as you're meeting and talking to different men your age you are putting yourself out there. if you find a single guy you like you gotta play the flirting game like everyone does.
>suspicions about it too, but I'm pretty good at reading social cues.
you could be like me i have autism but im also extremely good at understanding and reading people
>>What do you need getting better at? Dating, I guess.
to be fair most women suck at dating because men are the ones doing all the heavy lifting dating wise. imo whats more important than dating is working on you not liking being touched. sex and being cuddly are non negotiable. like really they are vital for pair bonding and being open for sex, kissing and being cuddly are necessary to maintain a ltr.
You can tell when a couple is not doing well if they lack in these three areas
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:00:52 AM No.81783727
am gonna sound like a bitch but how did my "how to be cuter" thread turn into sm theraphy session ;-;
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:02:15 AM No.81783743
women on r9k, men go monkey. not a new concept
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:05:47 AM No.81783772
>>81783727
just let your 4chan boyfriend fuck your pussy nice and hard if you want to be his cute girlfriend anon
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:06:10 AM No.81783775
so far ive only gotten stuff i already knew, should have asked woman. not men, you guys are clueless
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:07:12 AM No.81783782
>>81783772
am already pretty, i just want to be cute. also, do you have to be so crude? -_-
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:08:54 AM No.81783797
>>81783775
well isnt that a good thing? you should ask him about what he finds cute, what are you, 10?
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:32:13 AM No.81784048
>>81783797
he just thinks am cute, when i ask he doesnt know how. so i asked to see how i could get even cuter but most of the stuff i already am/do
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:38:06 AM No.81784086
>>81783572
>>81783607
>>81783711
I feel embarrassed replying too much 'cause I know it annoys some other anons, if you wanna talk a little more would you add me? It's nenenemnem.