>mom, dad, meet my short ugly anxious neet boyfriend
>>81781740 (OP)im scared of this but in reverse since im actually succesful. imagine introducing your hikkineet autistic bpd whore to your parents
>>81781770why does what your parents think matter? put me in the seat of being successful... hell... why does what anyone think matter?
>>81781740 (OP)Idk why but that seems cute to me.
>>81781740 (OP)I am just anxious + autistic which is worse than everything combined.
>>81781794i love my family and nurture a good bond with them. i care about their opinion because i care about them
>>81781826i can't relate to that, but i'm also not successful
>>81781740 (OP)Realistically what matters most is the looks, subhuman middle class might get more rejection than loser broke neet Chad
Meeting the gf's parents is actually the part of dating that I am the least nervous about. I present very well to the future in-laws.
Also I'm not short, ugly, anxious, or neet. So that helps.
>>81781856sorry for that anon if it makes you feel better all my trauma comes from breaking treated like shit in school so i got it good in one department and royally fucked in the other
>>81781914success is like a shield that makes trauma, pain, and other people irrelevant
>>81781921yeah but i had to put in triple the work to get where i got since im not wealthy and had to do all of that while severely depressed. i put in the work it wasnt handed to me and i did all of that while in terrible mental condition
>>81781740 (OP)i guess i can only date girls with no parents from now on
>>81781770Your parents only care about the grandchildren your gf can produce. They won't give a fuck who she is as long as she isn't a serial killer or something.
>>81781770there are absolutely zero expectations for modern women
>>81781770> implying my mother would careShe just wants grandchildren and to be able to say "the bot I raised isn't a complete loser! he got a partner!".
That's why I stopped caring about her and her wishes, given the horrible childhood she gifted me, she will deserve the miserable old age that awaits her.
>>81781770Even if I found someone, I'd never let my mom know. Mainly because she's the type that would easily find a way to embarrass me.
>>81781770I worry about this too. Would my parents be happy if they knew I was edating a slightly unstable woman six years my junior?
Maybe they'd find it predatory or maybe they'd just be happy that I'm not gay.
My sister did this, dated some depressed guy who barely graduated high school, was working as a shelf stocker, basically coached him through applying to and finishing college, married him, they have a couple kids now. She was the favorite of the family too, super hardworking, diligent, full ride to grad school and stuff. Insane.
>>81781770Literally any female is acceptable as long as it is actually a female.
>>81783553How dare your sister fall in love and not marry someone for their money.
>>81781770my parents would be happy and relieved that I'm not alone anymore