>just ignore women and focus on my purpose
>they just ignore me right back and I remain single for a decade
Anons it wasn't supposed to happen this way

you know that people assume men who keep to themselves want to be left alone, right?

>>81784827
caveat: if women want to fuck they should talk to me
caveat for the caveat: otherwise, you don't need to talk to me

>>81784822 (OP)
You had contradicting wants just like a woman lol

>>81784833
No, you guys told me men who don't give a fuck have all the "pull", and that they'll come to me. so that's the way I acted. I stopped trying to tease them, make conversations, make them laugh etc.

>>81784856

anon that only works for chads dummy lol otherwise you just look like you are very closed

>>81784856
1. nobody ever told you that.
2. focusing on yourself means building relationships with women if you want relationships with women. it's generally a bad thing to chase girls for the sake of sex or just having a relationship, but even if 100% of your attention is on selfish, personal growth and "purpose" then you're probably spending around 5-8 hours every day talking to and hanging out with girls, assuming you are heterosexual. if you have some absurdly demanding career or unique talent that preoccupies your normal working days, then you just make up for it by spending 10-20 hours on the weekends hanging out with girls. there's no scenario in this universe where you "focus" on yourself and also spend your free time alone.

>>81784822 (OP)
So you did it to get woman?
well you didnt do it for the purpose in the start, you did it because in your mind woman would want you then.

kinda shoot your own foot here

>>81784890
There's plenty of people in those /sig/ generals playing monk, that just tunnel to work, to the gym, straight home then read or bike alone. It's definitely a thing

>>81784901
By this logic why follow any advice on women at all

>>81784905
monks are chill, they pray all day and live for spirituality

npc retards who only wagecuck and consoom and then act frustrated or cynical about their sexlessness are simply fools

>>81784919
It's natural, you shouldn't need advice. Men and women are attracted to each other. There are a handful of ways to fail at this, and one of the ways is to obsess over women and fall behind in every area of your life that would support a meaningful relationship. Fedoracucks were always told to grow a spine because they were servicing and harassing women like a shitty car salesman rather than a human being, and that made both their own lives turn into shit and it also made dating awkward for a while for everyone because we had to prove that we weren't spineless cucks to every girl.

>>81784890
>focusing on yourself means not focusing on yourself
Holy fuck I hate normalnigger retards so much it's unreal.

>>81785018
Focusing on yourself means building relationships, yes. As long as you have a human brain and breathe oxygen, a social life is one of the most critical parts of your "self"

>>81784822 (OP)
ok and whats your purpose anyway?

>>81784856
>No, you guys told me
he actually fell for the memes. hey buddy might want to buy a bridge as well while you're taking advice from
>/sig/ generals
L.O.L.

>>81784822 (OP)
You fell for the self-improoooovement memes? Kek. The people who are into "self-improvement" have never known the touch of a woman, that should tell you something about their social competence. Turns out that women enjoy being chased and desired and they like men who can make them laugh. And if you want a gf you actually need to talk to them. Who knew. The truth hurts.

>>81784905
Lmao basically what I've been doing for the past two years except running instead of biking. I don't even care about the solitude anymore, think I developed some kind of OCD and body dysmorphophobia combo since I'm measuring and timing all foods and workouts and physique changes.