Any virgins passed 30 here?
What does it feel like?

>>81785819 (OP)
not 30, but i'm killing myself if i'm still a virgin by that age

>>81785819 (OP)
I fap 24/7 to feminization fantasies so it feels like nothing. But theres a growing fear that it is becoming too late to be normal. Also sex looks disgusting but maybe its good in the moment.

It's not that bad, but it's not great. Lately I've been having cravings to hold someone or something, and no a body pillow doesn't help even if it does feel nice. The other issue is that it's just a bit boring at times.

>>81785973

same here. got 4 shitty years left to go.

>>81785819 (OP)
37 and a virgin in every conceivable regard. It feels like I fundamentally do not belong in this world. Like I'm a permanent outsider whose existence that is merely tolerated so long as I keep to myself.

>>81785984
>theres a growing fear that it is becoming too late to be normal
Yeah kinda this. I have similar fetishes but I'm becoming older and uglier and it feels just pathetic. Am I really going to be fantasizing about sissy shit or whatever the fuck when I'm in my 40s?

>>81785819 (OP)
34 here
Feels meh. The truth is that if you didn't lose your virginity at 14 or earlier then it was over for you, and being a betabuxx oofy doofy deluxe is the only way to have a woman.

I am 30 and lost mine last year at 29. Lemme tell you, getting laid occasionally is a lot worse than never having sex. Knowing what it's like and getting a hankering to fuck and eat some puss but being at the mercy of foid's sky high standards is hell on Earth.

30 years-old wizard here. I never really cared about woman or relationships, so I didn't go out and look for any. Still get horny, but you just rub one out and your good.

>>81785819 (OP)
36 and I don't think about it, my dick doesn't work after many years of gooning anyway, and this plus lower libido is mostly a feeling of relief.

31 here.
Lost my virginity at 29 to my e-gf at the time, 6 months before my 30th birthday.

>>81785819 (OP)
I'm 35 and it, what am I supposed to feel? I don't really care that much, I care about love, which I'm sad about not having

>>81785819 (OP)
Me and I'm so insanely lonely I feel like my heart is gonna give out. Just turned 30.

>>81786134
I think its fine but yeah if thats all we do id wager it could get grim. Probably good within a balanced life.

>>81786115
nothing matters in the grand scheme of life. everybody is going to die one day. it doesn't matter if you have regrets or not; if you've lived your life or not, if you were successful or not

none of it matters. whether you die a virgin or not, it doesn't matter. people will say you haven't lived your life and you missed out on so much to the point where you will regret it on your death bed, but it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

if being a virgin matters to you, do something about it. fuck social expectations and what other people might think of you

what it like before you were born? do you remember?

i don't. i didn't exist.

that is what it's going to be like when we all die one day.

who cares if you're a virgin. it doesn't matter. if it matters to other people then they are the problem in society

>>81785819 (OP)
28, it used to bother me a lot. Now it's more s not actually ever experiencing romantic love that bothers me.
Being a virgin at my age though also makes me scared to even try because it'll make me seem like a weirdo or pathetic. It's a really fucked up little cycle

>>81785819 (OP)
Feels like I don't give shit anymore.

>>81786115
I feel the same way. I don't know where things want awry, I'm sorry man.

>>81785819 (OP)
It feels normal, the very idea of sex and relationships just become more baffling and alien. Imagining having a wife and kids is like trying to imagine being a mongol warrior under genghis khan or something, sure you know that it is a thing that happened to people but you have no frame of reference to even remotely guess what it really felt like and no way to ever get the first hand experience required for that frame of reference.

>>81785819 (OP)
>was going to give the OP shit for not giving this thread a rest for a month
>realized he's posting at wildly different times each week
>britbong time gets the most engagement

So do mostly British people post on /r9k/?

>>81785819 (OP)
yes. 38 years old. Honestly, it is great. I mean it depends on your intelligence level, status, goals in life, all that stuff. Being a virgin has never bothered me and it is a voluntary choice. I've rejected females.
There is a huge long list of benefits of being alone, a strong independent male, just like with everything else in life. This is however not for the weak of mind and character, not for pussies and whiny cunts.
Understand, at this point in life it is pretty much always a voluntary choice, unless one is utterly disabled/immobile and a vegetable. There are always hookers, there are always ugly and/or fat single mom wasted bitches in all of the bars and at all of the clubs, looking for a fuck. There are always escorts and just money hungry sluts and whores.
>What does it feel like?
It feels like I make this choice on a daily basis and I never regret staying a virgin. In fact most of the time, I don't even think about it. At all. It's like the virginity disappears automatically, nobody ever assumes you are one, and people simply don't care, and they shouldn't.
Life is great and there is so much stuff to do and enjoy, I don't understand why people are stuck on the idea of losing their virginity at all costs, whatsoever. Seems, and always did, utterly retarded to me. Typical monkey behavior.

>>81786115
I feel like our suffering is caused by being stuck between worlds: not wanting or being able to let go of where we don't belong and what wasn't meant to be and not wanting or being able to embrace where we do belong and what is meant to be.

>>81785819 (OP)
Just turned 30 and therefor wizard. I just fap one or two times per day and get done with it. I don't crave any love or affections. I see all the people i know, who are in a relationship, living in hell, so fuck that. We probably are better of like this, we weren't meant to be like the others

>>81785819 (OP)
32
Same as ever really. I'm already alienated from society thoroughly. Love doesn't exist in my eyes. Sex is and always has been worthless to me. I have other things in life to worry about like being a slave to my older family and watching this country burn itself out slowly. Although, the more things change the more they stay the same.
I have digestive problems at worst. Sometimes heartburn, a lot of times monumental shits. It's not the worst I could have rolled for 30+ body problems. I still have almost teenager metabolism. Weight hasn't really changed.
I eat what I want and that's just life for me. I will probably end up under a bridge once my family unit passes away. They never taught me anything of value and they constantly overwork me while investing their time in my baby-faced half-brother who doesn't even supply an income at 22 years old.
I am nothing more than a family slave and I do not possess the will or motivation to break out of this. I only carry on out of spite. Perhaps I will rope one day when things get too dire. I do not want to have to shoot drugs to stay warm in the winter on a cardboard box.

>>81787112
Bongs had the right idea to stick to a general, when a board is shit, general threads are like an oasis.

>>81787116
But you have hugged and been embraced by someone who's cared for you right?

I'm 29 so maybe I don't count just yet. I was fine being a virgin until I started chatting with a lady who was sympathetic to my issues, would start conversations with me, would talk about starting a family with me, before it fizzled out. Getting a whiff of love this late in the game was a genuine infohazard. Made me realise what I was missing out on this whole time.

Be careful anons

>>81787719
I'm not sure exactly what it means, I've never cuddled for a prolonged time, whatsoever. Sure, sometimes people hug, it's just a given in life. Whether they cared for me or was it just a social situation, or were they perhaps people, who saw me as a means to their ends and wanted to use me by faking the intimacy of a hug remains unknown. And we will never know, because as I've stated before, I have always rejected all of the people.

>>81786134
The key is to watch the sissy porn but rule 63 everything in your mind.

I was 31 when I lost my virginity. It's never too late.

30 yo wizard here. Its just something I've realized will never happen to me. All the friends I used to hang out with all have kids and wives now and don't do anything except hang out with other couples or go on family trips. Throughout all the years I spent drinking and socializing like a normal person would, women just hated me and I know its because im short and ugly. Not at any point did I receive any kind of warm reaction from a woman and I began to treat them the same way. Then covid hit and my social circle kind of just fell apart and I spent all my time playing vidya. I've never really escaped that.

>>81789298
You should Danny devito-maxx

>>81789148
This. I was 28 when I lost mine and didn't get my first gf until I was 32. There's really no reason to be scared about inexperience. Lie about your past if it'll make you more successful. Sex and relationships progress naturally no matter when you start.

>>81789298
They will all get divorced and will maybe come back to you.
Has happened to two of my normie friends so far.

>>81785819 (OP)
When you hit 30 you instantly get the male equivalent of "baby fever" but wanting to lose your virginity. You'll inevitably fail dozens/hundreds of times and it'll just continually eat away at you with every failure until you kill yourself. I shit you not there is no alternative path if you're a virgin at 30. I'll probably end it at the end of this year I'm so tired of this solitary life.

i lost it at 34. the act of sex itself honestly wasnt anything special besides the fact my gf was also a virgin together. its definitely feels amazing to finally experience it with someone you mutually love and built up to it over than span of months.

there more 20+ virgins out than you guys realize. youre just never gonna find them online or even have to fly aboard. always work on appearing your best and make your intentions clear from the start that youre not interested in a friendship.

>>81789439
To key is to just let go. Don't let desires torment you when it's unattainable

>>81789439
I didn't even get that in my case. I got intimacy fever. Just this feeling in your body that longs for love and comfort, where the dominant desire isn't sex but for someone to trust.

>>81789439
I am sorry you are a failed normie and not a dark wizard like me

>>81789460
Nah, there''s nothing for me in this life without love. Like, you can rationalize it however you want but a life without purpose is a life that might as well skip to the end. No point spending another 30-40 years living in the same empty home with no human connection and just drowning in escapism. That's such a sad existence. It's like being a animal trapped in a cage watching other happy people pass you by and pointing and laughing, knowing you'll never have what they have. There's no point to living that kind of life. Like, what are you even living for, just to consume more media? Just to generate more money for your employer? It's all meaningless without love.

>>81785819 (OP)
I'm 27 and I just stopped caring.
I'd rather just jerk off or look at VR porn or some shit unironically.
And no I'm not low test since I can masturbate multiple times a day still you just stop caring with age lmao.
Also maybe I'm just fucked in the head so don't take my word for it necessarily I just don't need much human interaction in general to survive.
I have friends and that's good enough for me.

>>81789439
No anon it's just you.

I'm a 41 year old virgin and it makes me sad/mad sometimes but I mostly do not think about it. Some people just need to accept that they are unlovable. undesirable

32 here. I don't really mind the fact that I'm a virgin. Not like having fucked someone is a badge of honor, unless you're a braindead normie or some dumb kid whose entire identity revolves around being a virgin. I'm way more bothered by the fact I've never had a gf, and that it's lonely out there on your own. If I was offered sex with the hottest girl on earth vs a loving relationship, I'd take the latter.

34.

Never tried to get a gf, and at this point I don't think I want one, a relationship, or sex.

Truecels stand back and stand by

I just stopped caring after my late 20's.

I've always felt like an alien that doesn't deserve or understand human intimacy. When I get hugged I don't even feel anything.

>>81786115
>It feels like I fundamentally do not belong in this world. Like I'm a permanent outsider
you are literally being gatekept out of sex and love. You are an alien kept outside of earth.

>>81786907
>e-gf
elaborate

>>81789458
>my gf was also a virgin together.
press x to doubt. What was her age?

None of you would be 30+ and virgins if you dated at your own level instead of expecting to land a 10/10 virgin. There's a lot of women out there that are your age with body counts under 5. Some even with a body count of one or two. Contrary to popular belief, not all women are whores who have sex outside of relationships. I'm not saying this to be hateful, I'm saying this with tough love. You are all deserving of love and intimacy you just need to be more realistic with your expectations.

>>81791079
>None of you would be 30+ and virgins if you dated at your own level instead of expecting to land a 10/10 virgin.
It is a personal choice indeed. Remaining a virgin after 30 is voluntary, hence the wizard meme.
>There's a lot of women out there that are your age with body counts under 5.
Doesn't matter.
>Some even with a body count of one or two.
Doesn't matter.
>Contrary to popular belief, not all women are whores who have sex outside of relationships.
Doesn't matter.
>I'm not saying this to be hateful, I'm saying this with tough love.
Doesn't matter.
>You are all deserving of love and intimacy you just need to be more realistic with your expectations.
It doesn't matter. You simply don't understand. A wizard does not care about such earthly bullshit.
You want a heterosexual monogamous relationship? Invent a time machine and talk to these 30 year old back when they were 15 or 16 years old. Don't talk to me though, as idgaf about bullshit like relationships or children whatsoever. Even as of today, it isn't my expectations, that are a problem. It's yours. Funny how it works though, isn't it? You try to tell me what I have to do, for some reason, as if I have any of the goals you think I do. Why? I don't care, I never did.

>>81785819 (OP)
>Any virgins passed 30 here?
Me, i achieved magical powers last month
>What does it feel like?
Like being a virgin in your 20s, but older

>>81789439
>there is no alternative path
Too short-sighted. Already posted my thoughts to the contrary, no need to reiterate them. All you want to do is talk, not listen.

>>81791079
I expect nothing, that is as realistic as it can get. It won't happen.

>>81785973
You young fags always say this but you won't have the balls the to do it. Get used to it.

late 30s. in odd, unfortunate, position as someone who had, very poor quality, sex a few times about 20 years ago, but each time couldn't cum. and nothing since then.

>>81785819 (OP)
I lost my virginity at 20 and I've been single and sexless for over 10 years and I suggest you young virgins just use a prostitute or something to get out of your imagination and get sex off a pedestal. You really want affection and intimacy more than sex, sex isn't really worth the bullshit women put you through. Women aren't really capable of love so it's better for you to understand what you actually want is unobtainable. You're better off having a realistic understanding of the situation and life.

I've been making videos detailing my experiences for years.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=evUblVjiL14

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flaHUESdZsk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-mz3LLR7B0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XTO-fe7uSK8

>>81790957
>>e-gf
>elaborate
I met her on /pol/ and flew to America to meet her.

>>81791079
>date a whore
no

>>81791079
I'm not expecting anything. Hell, I've never dated at all, I don't know what my level is. I just prefer to sit around at home rather than go out.