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>mfw i realized the reason people suddenly act weird around me is because they take a look at my look at them and hear what voice i use talking to them, feeling how i feel being around people
>mfw it was never their disdain of me, it was mine of them reflected back at me
how do i break the cycle?
I feel this is one of the biggest things people who end up socially isolated struggle with is not seeming like an asshole.
People who are withdrawn often get assumed they don't like people, which causes them to act and seem funny, which in turn confirms to others that they are an asshole.
Not saying you are OP and I don't have a good solution, but maybe you're on the first step in the first place.
Realizing the problem isn't entirely other people(not saying it's entirely you either) is a good start, since there is a lot of victim mindset thoughts are very self destructive when it comes to actually improving how you interact with people.
