A homeless guy with a Norwood 0 hairline looks "cleaner" than a successful guy with Norwood 3 who showers 20 times a day. It is what it is. Incels look dirty and icky. I wish I could give you the run of the mill "it's your personality" gaslighting but it ain't. Chad could have any personality in the world and get called confidence (even emo). Meanwhile everything you do will always be weird, desperate, awkward. lol.

>>81791532 (OP)
unironically a good chunk of this is lighting, angling (chest height vs. eye level) and the fact that his beard and bald head make him look like a rattier bill burr.
>genes vs hard work
that's a high school wrestler amount of muscle with very little body fat. guarantee he would look better if he bulked up and didn't cut so aggressively.

>>81791532 (OP)
I'm a tourist here. I went to the gym for a while. I don't give a fuck about working out and I just did it cause I wanted a hobby
but I've seen a bunch of these types. it's because they're not real people. It's hard to explain
I see these construction worker dudes often, they're not that surgically cared for, they're not groomed, they are fit but in that rough way of people who log shit around all day in the sun, but they're real. the people in the gym aren't real. I've seen this guy who took selfies of his biceps. another guy was like 5 foot 5 and he lifted more than me but he had that nintendo energy. People bigger than me I couldn't respect. I respect those guys drinking heineken, can't respect those guys.
I'm sure they get more game than me but that's because they have jobs while I'm neetmaxxing. I strikes you instantly when you see them in person. you can't respect them as men because they're like skinwalkers trying to look like men. that's why they all look like that
on the other hand I have no advice for you if you went bald that young. I'd probably kill myself