>>81796297My Asian history professor in college was 100% black from Trinidad and Tobago and he speaks Mandarin, Japanese, Korean, Tibetan conversationally and has lived everywhere those are local languages. He is now learning Hindi and investigating Southern Asia. He's an extremely hard worker and stays in shape.
Now think about it. You don't even feel the calling to do linguistic and sociology research all across Asia, correct? Your workload is like 1/8th of my former professor's. But you still have work to do. All you have to do is be man enough to grab life in your hands.
If you don't, is it really a fantasy? Do you really have a dream about such a woman? If you do, then let it be a source of energy. Imagine my former history professor knowing you and how dumb you'd feel saying this to him.