>>81797040unless you've usually just left the house before for no apparent reason too, believe me, she notices.
And babies will pick up emotions like dogs.
Listen, I think both of you are just stressed as fuck. I'm assuming its your firstborn. Well no shit you're stressed as fuck and your wife has eyebags and no time to put on makeup.
I'm cheritably assuming that you're actually a good provider and work your butt off to put food on the table while your wife takes care of the household and your new family.
But especially a newborn is an entirely newly added full time job.
It will get better, but obviously your wife is fucked because when before she could focus all her efforts on being a good wife, putting on makeup, cooking elaborate meals for you etc, now she suddenly got an additional 40+ hours of work added to her schedule.
Look at her fucking face, her eyebags have eyebags, she's working really fucking hard. harder than she ever has in her life, and obviously she HAS to gain more independence at the moment because sorry to say, but from what I've gathered thus far, you aren't really doing a good job supporting her and she's withering away.
Maybe you can't depending on how much you have to work to put food on the table.
But at least don't fucking complain and make her life even harder.
you know what you need. a fucking vacation, your wife too.
If you have the money to afford a nanny do that, or give the kiddo to some relatives for a weekend.
I think both you and your wife are under way too much stress, and if you can't do anything about that at the moment, no relatives, not enough money etc, then at least endure, because it WILL get better, newborns really suck hard till they at least can sleep the night through and don't need constant diaper changes.
But they do grow up.