I aged into being hot and I have no idea what to do with myself
>raised in strict christian household
>mom used shame like a heavily sharpened tool
>absolutely zero intimacy or relationships in my life
>almost thirty
>finally doing my own thing my own way
>catch on to women looking at me
>women are awkward and anxious when I talk to them
>experience "pretty privilege" frequently

Even just today
>hanging out at a bar I used to go to a lot
>talking to an older guy, he's a cool dude, he's watching over his teenage daughter and her friends that are there for the bands
>they walk up, it's time for them to leave
>they see me and freeze
>he introduces me, I don't really care, they're kids and not what I'm there for but alright
>they awkwardly introduce themselves, they can barely maintain eye contact
>catch them all looking back at me a few times as they walk away

I'm not used to this, I'm a loser, I'm gross, what the fuck do I do?

>>81809431 (OP)
Chad, do we look like we have any idea how you should handle this?

>>81809431 (OP)
happened to me too
just be chill and don't worry about it
get some conversation practice if needed

Similar situation but in 20s. You must make friends with women first then see what they think will be good for you. They have a good idea of whats compatible with you and how you should approach said archetype and good ones will tell you why and how if you disagree with their methods

umpteenth humblebrag normalnigger thread of the day

Supposedly, some women think I'm attractive; but they never talk to me, let alone fuck me.
They'll stare, but never speak. I get some likes and matches, despite being a bald manlet, but they mean nothing.
Had seven 'chances' to get laid this summer, but they all ghosted me, or had red flags of their own.
Was told I was photogenic at 16 and 36. Maybe I'll be ageing into this 'daddy' thing, but I am still very much incel as fuck.
I'm getting contradictory information, and I am too head-fucked with autism, NEETdom, and inceldom to ever have confidence.

>>81809431 (OP)
Similar problem
>get into looksmaxing
>start looking halfway ok
>not a chad, but 6 or so
>also tall
>every time I ride train they stare at me
>I automatically start jojoposing

>>81809431 (OP)
I've got the solution to your issue OP