My husband lost his temper with me - /r9k/ (#81810302) [Archived: 470 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/13/2025, 9:39:06 AM No.81810302
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I was tending to our new born son and he was angry that I put pesto in his meal, he got up and started yelling abusive things to me saying that I was useless and that hes tired at work and that he feels like nobody loves him. He threw the plate on the floor, took a shower and went to bed. He still hasnt spoken to me since. Im currently in another bed with our baby sleeping, literally wiping out tears. Why is he like this? Is it really my fault? Cause I feel like such a failure
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 9:40:29 AM No.81810311
>>81810302 (OP)
You should go to advice instead
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 9:42:53 AM No.81810331
>>81810302 (OP)
i don't fucking care
go to reddit retard
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 9:49:18 AM No.81810387
>>81810331
Um if you dont care why did you reply?
>>81810311
Thx I fuess
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 9:52:29 AM No.81810406
>>81810302 (OP)
you should probably tell him behavior like that isnt okay very sternly and seriously. if he doesnt stop and he doesnt care divorce him if he doesnt stop but does care try therapy
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 9:57:50 AM No.81810447
>>81810406
Whoa divorce? Im just turned 22. And I love him so much. I never even thought about that word
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 9:59:24 AM No.81810460
>>81810302 (OP)
that sucks anon. Bring it up with him when he calms down. One thing like this isn't worth torching the relationship over but make sure u communicate, or you'll end up in a codependent marriage where both spouses hate each other but won't get divorced like my parents.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 9:59:45 AM No.81810466
>>81810447
lol knocked up teen mom yeah you're a failure
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:00:51 AM No.81810473
Definitely a divorce material.
Consider that he is literally lying about being tired at work, men don't do shit at their jobs. He just wants to abuse you.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:07:12 AM No.81810503
>>81810466
Im not a failure. Im a stay at home wife, and just have a normal life. Hes the one who wanted to get married at 19
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:09:30 AM No.81810520
>>81810473
Why would he want to abuse me? Thats really cruel and his job is really high responsibility
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:10:36 AM No.81810527
>>81810302 (OP)
You can't farm upvotes here you retard
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:14:11 AM No.81810556
>>81810460
Hes the one who never communicates
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:22:42 AM No.81810618
>>81810302 (OP)
Go suck his dick and he'll be happy
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:24:34 AM No.81810633
>>81810618
Ew gross lol
Replies: >>81810820
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:25:54 AM No.81810644
>>81810473
This, another abusechad secures his wife who will do nothing when he treats her like literal shit, many such cases! OP you will do NOTHING and think you can fix him LOL
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:26:23 AM No.81810648
Why do women sleep and have kids with abusechads. The fuck
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:29:00 AM No.81810667
>>81810644
>>81810648
She deserves it because she hasn't milked his angry cum out. Everybody knows if a man doesn't get his balls drained he gets angry. Just let him fuck your face and ass and he'll be happy and content. Having heavy angry backed up cum filled balls is the cause of things like school shootings.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:30:47 AM No.81810676
>>81810302 (OP)
It's only gonna get worse from here dude. Better start planning your way out
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:31:07 AM No.81810678
>>81810667
>>81810648
>>81810644
What the hell is wrong with you guys. I gave birth 2 months ago. He isnt an abuse chad. He used to be really not so good looking but had an insane glow up. But its not looks that matter much.
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Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
7/13/2025, 10:33:19 AM No.81810689
Abusive pos.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:34:02 AM No.81810697
>>81810503
>wife
>mother
>asking r9k for advice
>not a failure
uh huh
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:34:35 AM No.81810699
>>81810678
So go give him a suckjob you lazy retard.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:37:44 AM No.81810714
>>81810699
How do we go from him losing temper to sucking penis, which is gross btw. We believe in God
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:39:52 AM No.81810736
>>81810302 (OP)
Men are simple creatures. He feels neglected by you since all focus is on the newborn. Solution: Do your duty and wake him up with a blowjob now and then, ideally a couple times per week.
There, I just fixed your relationship. You're welcome.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:40:40 AM No.81810746
>>81810736
Okay whats wrong with the people here talking about blowjobs? I dont do that
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:41:11 AM No.81810751
Obviously sexually frustrated and feeling unappreciated.
Cook him something good, as in something he likes. Make sure he cums frequently enough. Tell him you are grateful to have him as a provider. These basic tips solve 99% of all relationship problems.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:41:12 AM No.81810752
>>81810714
it literally works like magic. just do it
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:42:45 AM No.81810767
>>81810302 (OP)
You picked a self centered asshole as a partner and now you are reaping the consequences. You'll then divorce and complain on crystal cafe about "all guys are garbage"
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:47:48 AM No.81810815
>>81810767
I would never divorce my husband >>81810752
No Im not
>>81810736
>>81810751
Why would he feel neglected? Hes the one never home
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:48:40 AM No.81810820
>>81810633
>performing sexual act on life partner is gross
you're cruel
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:50:23 AM No.81810832
>>81810820
This, all you have to do to keep a man happy is fuck him at least once every 3 days that's literally it
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:50:36 AM No.81810833
>>81810714
So you're sexually frustrating your fella and wonder why he's angry? The Lord made the male body in a way that it needs the female touch now and again to feel content. Do your duty, woman! Release his cum!
Believe me, sister, if he wakes up to his dick being balls deep in your throat he will love you in a way you have never thought possible! Poor fella, blue-balled for 2 months is a horrible torture and there's no wonder he had an angry outburst.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:51:48 AM No.81810844
>>81810815
then post this on reddit if you want an echo chamber instead of actual advice retard
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:52:11 AM No.81810846
>abusive man obviously in the wrong does something bad
>niggas on r9k will do mental olympics to justify him
most of you probably dont have a consciousness
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:53:52 AM No.81810858
>>81810846
He didn't do anything abusive at all. He made his feelings known and went to jack off and sleep.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:54:19 AM No.81810861
>>81810844
>>81810833
>>81810820
I think that blowjobs are disgusting
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:54:47 AM No.81810864
>>81810746
Why are you denying the ultimate sexual pleasure for your husband? Don't you love him? Be prepared to lose him to a chick who knows how to pleasure a men, then. Or, learn that skill to keep peace in your family. Your choice, darling.
Why are you objecting to gift your husband oral sex, anyways? You're one of those "no sex drive" people I assume?
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:54:55 AM No.81810865
>>81810861
You should let him get blowjobs from somebody else then
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:58:12 AM No.81810880
>>81810864
>>81810865
Obviously you guys are perverts
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:01:09 AM No.81810898
>>81810861
Are you saying that the male body, created in the image of God, is gross?? Blasphemy! Repend sister! Repend your sins by worshipping your husband's penis! It literally takes just a couple of minutes to help him feel calm and wanted, do it, for the love of God!
Just take a shower together as foreplay and then do your womanly duty!
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:02:16 AM No.81810904
>>81810880
My wife blows me regularly and lets me cum wherever I want. Normal wives do this.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:03:36 AM No.81810912
>>81810898
>>81810904
Nice try you incel pervs
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:05:49 AM No.81810925
>>81810302 (OP)
This is the start of something very bad. Just know, the pesto is completely irrelevant. There are much larger problems.
You need to figure out why he's angry and feels ignored, and what it is that he wants from you.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:07:12 AM No.81810930
>>81810880
The male body is literally designed to derive pleasure by mating with females. THAT is God's design and calling enlightened people "perverts" is no way to live, sister! Your husband NEEDS your help! If you're feeling a little bit prudish, you might want to ease yourself into it by giving him a handjob with gloves on. Under the cover. Wake him up with a little handy that'll put a smile on his face for days.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:07:20 AM No.81810931
If my boyfriend did something like this I'd tell him plainly that such behavior is unacceptable and he would not be getting any sex for the next six weeks. Ridiculous everyone's advice is lol reward his bad behavior with sex. That's the exact opposite of what you should do.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:07:44 AM No.81810934
>>81810302 (OP)
Try honey mustard next time.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:08:21 AM No.81810941
>>81810912
He already nutted in you before if you have a kid
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:08:29 AM No.81810942
>>81810925
But he never tells me anything , and why would he feel ignored?! He doesnt even help me with the baby. He got mad that I was holding and coddling the baby
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:09:36 AM No.81810953
>>81810931
This is why even though I am bisexual I choose to be a faggot. Men deal with my shit and then suck my dick afterwards anyway. Not that it's right. It's a flawed behavior. Sometimes my partner acts like a nigger too but I don't care and dick him down good anyway. Men move on from shit. Bitches are resentful as fuck and can't deal. Not worth the time.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:09:48 AM No.81810955
>>81810925
We all know what he wants already. He wants to cum and not eat fucking girl dinner. Suckjob and some beef and potatoes is what every man wants.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:10:48 AM No.81810959
>>81810925
She's a total prude who's too precious to give her own husband blow/hand-jobs. She'll get cheated on by a chick who knows how to satisfy men and then enjoy being a single mom for the rest of her life.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:11:21 AM No.81810961
>>81810861
okay, that's fine. can you please just post your tits?
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:13:11 AM No.81810970
>>81810959
She only tells us about the pesto outburst and not anything else surrounding the relationship because any flaws she has she cannot recognize. Women withhold sex like a prize and then wonder why men have outbursts.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:13:42 AM No.81810975
>>81810931
Blue-balling males that are already sexually frustrated is a bad idea and you know that, you little devil!
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:15:38 AM No.81810990
>>81810302 (OP)
Lmao fucking what is it with you and pesto? Good shit though
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:17:25 AM No.81810999
I hope he kills your baby in front of you and then kills himself. There, that's what you want to hear you whore
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:18:59 AM No.81811011
Sister, I'm God, using a chud as a vessel to carry out my will!
SUCK your husband's penis to save your marriage! Do your duty, woman! Do it for the sake of your family unit!
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:19:39 AM No.81811014
>>81810999
You evil piece of crap
>>81810970
>>81810975
Im NOT WITHHOLDING ANYTHING!!! I just gave birth, give me a break. Have you no empathy? You know how stressed I am. He always complains about my hair or how im not trying enough: I feel so overwhelmed
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:21:17 AM No.81811024
>>81810999
Nice trips, checked.
>whore
Actually, she's the absolute opposite. A prude that didn't learn about sex-ed in school to the detriment of her family.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:22:02 AM No.81811027
>>81810746
>Okay whats wrong with the people here talking about blowjobs? I dont do that
Neither did my ex. It ended when she walked in on me getting deepthroated by a girl who actually knew how to please a man. You're welcome.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:22:46 AM No.81811029
>>81811014
You do seem stressed. You should have a pesto sandwich to help you relax
UVG
7/13/2025, 11:24:05 AM No.81811033
Shouldn't have mated with Chad. Fair, next.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:24:18 AM No.81811038
>>81810302 (OP)
just kill your husband and put your son up for adoption
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:25:22 AM No.81811041
Henlo pilot anon fren.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:27:32 AM No.81811049
>>81811014
You are denying sexual release to your husband for TWO months and are wondering why he's frustrated?!?!?!
Trust me, a sexually satisfied male won't care at all about hair or pesto. A hand-jobs takes like 5 minutes and no work if he's that backed up. Just fondle his dick next time you're lying in bed and give him a handjob if he seems receptive.
Doo it! It'll make him happy and wanting to improve the lives in his family. Trust us, sister!
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:27:59 AM No.81811056
>>81811014
I don't know what to tell you. Maybe your husband is just a sperg. You came to r9k for advice and are either larping or gennuinely getting baited by incel replies. I imagine this whole situation will feel like nothing soon enough. Talk to almost any couple and you will realize moments like this are happening all the time. We are all emotionally driven. I would say just to focus on your baby and if he still is continuing such behavior long term then try to figure out the root causes. There is really not enough context in your post to provide much concrete advice.
>why is he like this?
How the fuck are we supposed to know? None of us know this nigga. It's a pointless post unless you intend to give some serious backstory behind the whole thing. Otherwise if this is just an out of the blue one time deal then fucks sake he is just a man who had a melty. Almost certainly wont be the last one either. Quit obsessing about what you could or could not have done to prevent this. If he was pissed off then something was going to happen anyway even if not for the fucking pesto.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:32:45 AM No.81811084
>>81810815
>never home (because he's working a job to support me)

See, the thing you don't get is that if he's constantly working a job which is high responsibility and high stress, no one ever cares about him or what he wants and he's spending all day dealing with other people's problems and either managing other people, doing strenuous physical labor or taxing mental work. Your lifestyle doesn't just come out of thin air, and everything that you have at home is paid for by him being "never home." If, when he gets home, his wife is too busy dealing with other things to even care about him, then literally nobody cares about him and he's spending all day just trying to fix things without anybody ever taking into consideration what he wants. That builds stress, a lot of it. If he already told you before that he doesn't like pesto or whatever, then you still making food with it is a constant reminder to him that no one is paying any attention at all to his wants and needs, and if he hasn't told you yet, then it's probably something he hasn't been comfortable saying since he feels bad for you having to deal with a newborn but is a constant reminder of the fact that no one prioritizes what he wants. Obviously, as a mother with a newborn, you have a lot to deal with, but that doesn't mean you can't occasionally try to find some time to do smaller things for him, the point is that you made an effort to show him that you care. At least don't make food you know he won't like. You've been kind of making fun of it, too, but him being sexually satisfied is important as well. Again, you're a new mother, so you can be a little less attentive to him and more to the baby, but if you think it's unchristian or something to give him a blowjob then at least use your hands or let him see you naked a bit. If you initiate, that's bonus points.

But of course, this'll all go unheeded since there are no women on 4chan and erm dumb scrotes don't deserve any effort just divorce him xister
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:38:07 AM No.81811119
>>81811084
She's a larper. If she has time to shit post here, she has time to crank one out for her husband. Shrimple as.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:43:48 AM No.81811149
>>81811119
>there are no women on 4chan

I know, that's what I said, but all the retarded reddit whores were annoying me with their replies (the second part of my last paragraph) and the trolling was kind of getting to me because of how common that attitude is in real life, even in situations where the woman is far less justified than she is.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:49:41 AM No.81811189
>>81810942
>and why would he feel ignored?!
That's something you have to ask him.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:55:57 AM No.81811221
>>81811084
>>81811189
>>81811149
My husband was never really liked and he still isnt. Hes extremely anti social. He genuinely doesnt care about anything or anyone (he cares very very little) hes an extremely direct person but at least hes neutral when it comes to people but hes extremely negative in general. He tells me that everything he gave me and its all because of him which is true. But I dont like the fact that he always critizes me and orders me to do stupid things. I want your hair to be like this. Tomorrow I want a ponytail. Why dont you love me? Why do you ignore me? He knows I have panic attacks concerning our babies health, yet he still tells me you dont love me
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:58:18 AM No.81811236
>>81811084
And youre right many lives depend on him. Hes an airline pilot
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:58:45 AM No.81811238
>>81811221
Why do you go on the Internet and tell lies?
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:59:31 AM No.81811239
>>81811238
What? How am I lying?
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:01:50 PM No.81811254
>>81810302 (OP)
Sounds like a narcissist abuser, many such cases. Man, women are stoopid.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:02:33 PM No.81811256
>>81811254
I am not stupid and he isnt a narcissist, i dont think
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:05:10 PM No.81811280
>>81811221
>>81811256
You just told us he's a cold sociopath, think a little.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:06:41 PM No.81811294
>>81811280
He isnt a sociopath. He cares for others a little
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:07:10 PM No.81811296
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>22
>married
>child
>abusive husband
You're like a white nigger, minus your baby having a dad, & the dad having a job.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:22:38 PM No.81811379
>>81811236
>airline pilot
>actually hardly ever home, even moreso than a normal really stressful job

>>81811221
Well yeah obviously he's going to be really stressed all the time. Telling you he likes it when your hair is a certain way is completely normal, if he's too direct then you can talk to him about that but just telling you that he prefers your hair a certain way is not controlling at all. He's your husband. He thinks you're prettier with your hair done a certain way. Again, you're a new mother, there's some flexibility there, but if you aren't even willing to put in the effort to do your hair the way your own husband likes, or if you only do so resentfully, then I think it's pretty clear why he feels neglected and unloved. Again, you're a new mother, so obviously you're going to have to take care of your newborn, but you're also his wife and you can't just neglect him completely. Try to keep your hair how he likes it when he's home, try to make him food that he likes but at least make sure he doesn't dislike it, try to plan some time for the two of you to spend together as a couple, and for God's sake don't ignore him. Ignoring him is absolutely not ok, try your best to at least acknowledge him and let him know why you can't give him your attention, do not just ignore him. Are you Eastern European (not related to ignoring him you just seem ESL in a slavic way)?
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:26:22 PM No.81811398
>>81811379
Im Italian and no I dont ignore him, he says I ignore him, I try to be nice but hes not nice. When im holding the baby he tells me that he is sleeping and for me to put him down
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:29:26 PM No.81811419
>>81811398
Is there some reason you have to hold the baby in your hands all of the time? You need some alone time, just the two of you.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:32:16 PM No.81811434
>>81810648
Mixture of
>i can fix him
>hes mean to everyone but nice to me
>pussy tingles
>maybe if i have his kid hell stop abusing me
>attracted to their assertiveness
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:32:32 PM No.81811436
>>81811221
>He genuinely doesnt care about anything or anyone
He's a liar. It's a literal coping mechanism. You married a narcissist.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:36:05 PM No.81811474
>>81811436
What is a coping mechanism and why?
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:38:30 PM No.81811495
>>81811434
He isnt mean to everyone
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:43:06 PM No.81811530
>>81810302 (OP)
I will never understand why women choose assholes for their partners. And yes women do choose them, they are the ones who choose in relationships.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:45:06 PM No.81811544
>>81811530
He isnt an asshole
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 12:57:05 PM No.81811642
>>81811544
He's just extremely selfish and self-centered but he's not a bad guy. Hmm...
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:14:41 PM No.81811794
>>81810678
I'm amazed the birth affected your mouth.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:20:03 PM No.81811838
>>81811474
Saying that he doesn't care about anything or anyone is a coping mechanism.
Why? Because he cannot be vulnerable. Probably becaue something that happened in his childhood.
Which also explains why he's a social recluse.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:21:05 PM No.81811844
>>81811398
>When im holding the baby he tells me that he is sleeping and for me to put him down
HE WANTS ATTENTION FROM YOU YOU DUMBFUCK. No. I'm not going to help you further. Suffer the pain of your ignorance.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:21:35 PM No.81811849
>>81810302 (OP)
after a hard day the last thing you want is a shitty meal when you get home, its the one thing you're looking forward to and having even that go wrong makes you snap. after all this time you dont know what he likes to eat ?
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:29:45 PM No.81811913
>>81811844
Hes a grown man acting like a child. Im a new mother, I literally cannot sleep because im scared something bad will happen and he knows this. And he literally could not care. I was gone for 5 minutes last time and baby was crying and he was eating chips on the sofa not Caring
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:31:34 PM No.81811929
>>81811849
I put tiny touch of pesto in his lasagna. BIG DEAL
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:33:27 PM No.81811940
>>81811844
>HE WANTS ATTENTION FROM YOU YOU DUMBFUCK.
Literally this.
He is just jealous.
He's not the center of attention anymore.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:41:15 PM No.81812005
>>81811940
Why would that bother him so much? Why does he want to be the center of attention when he always seems bothered by me?
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:49:01 PM No.81812076
>>81811913
these people are actual parents arrgggggghhhh fucking mindrape
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:50:15 PM No.81812089
>>81811913
>and baby was crying and he was eating chips on the sofa not Caring
you realise babies cry, right? and that they have to be ignored at times and left to do so until they learn to stop.
if you run to them every time they cry immediately, even when you are watching and aware nothing is wrong, you are just educating them to do it for attention
it's not like this is even speculation, they have literally done it and studied the results, children will stop crying if it doesn't work
it is actually okay to sit on the sofa and let the baby cry sometimes when you know there is nothing actually wrong
you're very concerned with yourself and not much with him based on your post, you have no idea why he's upset and angry - you aren't generally angry for no reason its due to things happening or feelings
and if you have a new born baby its one of the most stressful times possible in a relationship, especially if you have turned into a "only the child matters now" type of couple and make no time for each other and your relationship which is more important to maintain than anything else
yeah he shouldn't have called you useless and shouldn't have thrown a plate of food on the floor, but clearly something is going on and clearly you're not communicating
or there's the possibility that you just dated and married a violent retard, this is quite unfortunately normal for women because they're bad at making choices
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:50:22 PM No.81812090
>>81812076
How am I a bad mom?
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:51:51 PM No.81812102
>>81810302 (OP)
Why the fuck would a pair of retards like you decide to have a child?
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:53:56 PM No.81812126
>>81812089
>there's the possibility that you just dated and married a violent retard
Did he apologize yet?
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:56:58 PM No.81812157
>>81812090
by not posting your womanly breasts in this very thread
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 1:58:33 PM No.81812166
>>81812076
Funny how the biggest retards become the earliest parents
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 2:01:04 PM No.81812197
>>81812157
Incel
>>81812166
Im not dumb
>>81812089
Hes 2 months old!!! He can choke on his own saliva
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 2:03:33 PM No.81812220
>>81810931
You are a retard, you cannot control a man with sex. The fact that you even THINK to use it as some kind of control tool "well if you don't behave how i want i won't have sex" when sex is an integral part of a relationship and should be had all the time because YOU LOVE THEM AND WANT THEM and not because it's a begrudging act of control, makes you a genuine low iq girlboss who thinks her iq is 40 points higher than it is. Your relationship will not last
Intimacy has nothing to do with behaviour, it is a given and it should always be happening. The correct behaviour here is to talk and listen - and not argue or get baited into arguing if that's what he does because he doesn't know how to express himself or doesn't want to say whatever it is and gets mad instead - communication is pretty fucking easy. And then to be having sex multiple times per week at bare minimum. If you aren't shagging at least 2-3 times a week, ideally like twice that amount, you aren't actually in love with them, you don't find them attractive, your relationship is just one of convenience and comfort and flying in circles waiting for something better.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 2:09:22 PM No.81812257
I have yelled at my wife before, heres one time. She has a thing of buying a 100 condiments and the entire fridge is filled up with useless shit. I woke up and the top fridge drawer had my milk in the back with all her stupid shit covering it. I went to grab it and in the process I knocked over a .5 liter bottle of some random liquid and it spilled all over the kitchen because she also has a tick of not putting on caps on bottles. I started swearing and she got out of bed and argued with me about how I need to not make a scene over small things in the morning. I fuckin lost it and started yelling look at this fucking fridge filled with stupid shit and why the fuck wouldnt you put the goddamn caps on giant bottles of liquid. She started crying and I felt terrible and apologized.

I dont know if im in the right or wrong but I know your husband is probably in the wrong there.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 2:19:16 PM No.81812333
>>81812197
>Hes 2 months old!!! He can choke on his own saliva
And if that happens he will cough, not cry. If he is crying, he is not choking you clown.
You need therapy, from your posts here alone you're insanely obsessively paranoid about nothing. Human babies have been being born and living for tens of thousands of years, they do not just die if left alone for a millisecond.
Your relationship is 100% going to die based on your posts, you aren't having sex, you aren't being intimate, and you have very clearly turned into, as I described, an "only the baby matters" type of person when the relationship was there first and is more important, it cannot be neglected, your entire lives cannot be the baby. It doesn't work, it ends in divorce every time as people want partners WHO LOVE THEM.
Did you know that in general, when asked men will say the most important person in their lives is their partner, whilst women will say its their child?
You need to understand that difference buddy. If I had to choose between my hypothetical wife living or my hypothetical baby living, I would choose my wife in a heartbeat every time.
My estimation from this thread is you are overly obsessive with your child and you are neglecting your husband, who now has nothing and no one that cares about him or prioritises him ever he's just essentially a workhorse to keep providing for you so you can obsess over the child 24/7
Hire a fucking babysitter
Go get your parents or his parents or siblings to babysit. Put some time into your goddamn relationship woman or face the inevitable consequences somewhere down the line when he gets fed up and goes and looks for someone who will give him some attention and care
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 2:27:41 PM No.81812388
>>81812333
Clearly you donf know what its like to be a mother
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 2:28:00 PM No.81812393
Asking 4chan for advice as a Christian is like having a schizophrenic as your psych counselor.
I get you want to vent but you should try to talk with him, if he's in good standing he'll want to apologize for losing his temper over something nihil.

Do you have any friends you can confide in? Spiritual guidance? That's better than an imageboard of mainly atheists and pagans.

>>81810473
>men don't do shit at their jobs

Calling bullshit.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 2:29:56 PM No.81812410
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>>81810302 (OP)
I can't imagine doing anything else other than stabbing him multiples times in his sleep in this situation
subhumans deserve to die
then again I can't imagine being involved in this kind of predicament in the first place, if I was involved I would be a subhuman too
in conclusion you should give up that baby for adoption to a nice family and kill yourselves
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 3:25:01 PM No.81812957
Maybe he should APOLOGIZE to you ;^)
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 3:31:36 PM No.81813008
>>81812957
Why did you write apologize like that?!
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 3:37:19 PM No.81813047
>>81810714
I hate hypocrites the most. Not christ like at all to throw a tantrum over pesto. Talk to him not us retard, even when my wife and I argue we make sure to make up and talk about it before going to sleep. You mention he's never home because he's busy providing for you, why not try to find a wfh job or start an Etsy shop or something? Lighten the load for him so he can work less and spend more time with the both of you.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 3:55:24 PM No.81813203
>>81813047
Its not hypocrisy to sin
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 3:57:56 PM No.81813224
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>>81813203
Yeah your bait is boring and not believable.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 4:40:27 PM No.81813546
>>81810931
lol he will just hate you even more genius
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 5:01:36 PM No.81813716
>>81812333
My guy, you are mentally retarded human that does not know jackshit about anything and just wasted your time arguing with a man larping as a women. What an utter gutter these posts are. Garbage people replying to garbage larp with their horseshit theory.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 5:07:39 PM No.81813769
>>81811294
look if you sincerely believe that this outburst is nothing then just do better in the future. Don't cook him things he hates after a long day at work. Do things for him that he likes sometimes. You're the stay at home mom. Above all else with this type of this as FUCKING ALWAYS, TALK TO THE PERSON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if you sincerely believe he's still a good enough guy to stay with then wait for him to cool down a bit and go talk to him about it.