Okay I did it I went to the animie convention but I am too afraid to talk to anyone.

Good now go to the bathroom and post tits, toots

>>81810946
I am a dude, I just like ashbie.

>>81810982
Nice try, fembot. You almost had me there.

>>81811018
Dude stop this shit. I made a thread about this yesterday.

There are so many cute girls there but I can't do anything

that's what i said. we're all going to the _________ 2006 20 year reuinion.

>>81810920 (OP)
was it smashcon?

>>81812164
No lol I am at shirocon in germany.

It is just as I thought being an shy autistic incel who comes alone to a place like this means I will stay alone.

I can't just walk up to one and talk to her this is impossible. Should I go to the maidcafe?

Why do I have to be such a loser I hate myself

>>81812264
Just breathe, anon. Put the phone away. Go try and enjoy yourself. Go to the maid cafe, check out the merch, maybe go meet a VA. Try to feel good that you're actually trying to go out and do something instead of just rotting inside. Maybe try complimenting a girl on her cosplay if you're feeling bold. Just do something, you know. Live your life.

find a group that looks friendly and relatively your age and ask to join them
this works pretty much everywhere in the world

>>81812338
I already checked out the merch but it is way to expensive. I don't really care about va. I will try out the maidcafe but I think I will go home after this. I already complimented a girl on her cosplay but nothing happened because this is real life and nothing happens.
>>81812348
I can't they all know each other I am just a outsider.

>>81812399
>already complimented a girl on her cosplay but nothing happened
Did she say thank you at least? That's something that happened. What were you expecting to happen going to the anime convention? I think you'd feel less like shit if you tried to align your wants with reality.

>>81812453
Yes she did but that was it because like I have said this is the real world and nothing happens. Idk some anons yesterday talked me into it because I knew it would be kind of a waste of time.

>>81812489
>nothing happens
But that is something, anon. You had a positive interaction with a girl. What were you wanting to happen?

>>81812399
>I can't they all know each other I am just a outsider.
life doesn't end at being a secondary figure

>>81812518
Not sure maybe more than that, a conversation.

>>81812527
But I know I will just annoy them nobody wants some lonely autistic guy.

>>81812399
nothing happens unless you decide to change something. go wild, anon. have some more trust in yourself. you sound like you hate yourself too much and you're ostracizing yourself from everyone else. truth is, people aren't as malicious as you think they might be and all of it, quite literally, is all in your head.

i know it's hard and i'm not claiming i understand you or your situation, but i don't want you to waste your life thinking you can't do this or it won't work out. just try, anon. if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. but don't be afraid to try just because you might fail. strike up more conversations. try to talk to other people about stuff. even if it's small or simple. trust me, people actually enjoy this stuff more than you might think

i managed to talk to a few cute girls like this. i was about as autistic as ever, but they liked it. one of 'em even said they knew i was an autist from our first conversation, but clearly didn't mind. just trust yourself. and if they don't like it, then that's their problem. but at least you tried. you have one life anon, don't waste it

>>81810920 (OP)
ask if they like Dragonball

>>81812532
Well, how many woman have you complimented? Was it just the one? Compliment some more girls or a guy. A guy would probably be more likely to strike up a conversation, honestly. Maybe you could also try to get a picture with one of them? I'm sure they wouldn't mind. I think you really should try to feel good about putting yourself out there though. That is definitely something.

>>81812566
Yeah I hate myself because nobody likes me and there is nothing I can do to change that. Everytime I try nothing happens, it is like I am a ghost. I know I am wasting my life, it was always like that I am already in my late 20s and still a khhv. I thought if I go outside or to some even something will just happen but nothing happens even when I take all my courage togheter and say something first.
>>81812578
But I don't like dragonball.

>>81812627
Yes only one. I wanted to ask someone for a picture but I was too shy to ask.

>>81812552
Lonely autistic guys can be cool but really I'm not surprised because cons fucking suck. Maybe they'd be better in some metropolis of minimum 1 million people but in my mid-size city it's just teenage girls cosplaying random gacha characters and I just get the feeling that people there tend to be the bad kind of mentally ill along with a good dose of narcissism. Can't even buy shit, 5 years ago or whatever there were at least decent stalls with cool figures and stuff but the last time I went to it, there was nothing but shitty little keychains and "how to draw manga" books. Just to top it all off, there are so many people crammed in there it's crazy, just an unpleasant experience all around.

>>81812706
Oh they have figures and everything here but I don't feel like paying over 100 euros for a figure or like 80 euros for a toy catana. Also nobody likes lonely autistic guys. There is a reason people like me are alone. I feel like I should just go home and stay online there is nothing for me in the real world.

>>81812773
>100 euro figures
>80 euro katana
Damn that's fucked up, it better be premium goon-grade imports from Japan because I got this giant cool custom "Mandalorian blaster" that's almost as tall as me for I guess about 50 euros a decade ago. Anyway nah, here's the thing, being lonely and autistic doesn't mean you can't be cool, I know this because I'm lonely and autistic yet I am actually very cool. Being a self-hating faggot absolutely shines through everything you do but the first step to change that is to understand that you're not the problem in your situation. Cons fucking suck unless you enjoy being surrounded by a thousand sweaty, vapid airheaded normies and no man of taste and culture would thrive in that and it isn't your fault. Social skills are skills, you have to train them, and you can't do that if you're not comfortable, eg you're in shitty surroundings like today.

>>81812862
I have no problems with social situations if I know the person or it is a one in one. It is just too much for me. I think it is really the best if I go home now. I know I will hate myself for not talking with any more girls here but I can't do anything. Forcing myself will lead to nothing. This is not some anime where a girl comes out of nowhere and starts talking with you. This is the real world and nobody cares about you.

>>81812937
That's exactly what I'm trying to say saar. There's no point trying to force yourself into unpleasant and uncomfortable places to "socialise", especially since if you're a sperg, you're going to struggle a lot more with nasty social situations, but that's also all fine. Again, it ain't what it used to be, narcs and attention whores all around, and if you've actually watched Evangelion and Berserk like a proper weeb you're in the minority, it just isn't a place for us. My friend is similar and he actually had success at the gym, eventually people start to recognise you and someone may eventually be brave enough to start a conversation, it happens. I'd rather stick to my cool gaming clans because I'm quite happy to remain a basement dweller obsessed with Vtubers, either one of these roads would probably be much better for you. If your lesson from all this is "I'm sad and pathetic" then you'll only make things worse for yourself in the end.

>>81812998
My leason is that everyone who says "just go outside bro" is lying. Or at least it it pointless for an autistic guy like me. You need a friend group or at least one person you know for that.
I thought it would be easier to meet girls irl but it is simply impossible. I think the only way is online or to become a regular somewhere.

>>81813063
Have you tried talking to guys? Try to make some friends, anon. What you're doing is like not knowing how to swim and just jumping straight into the deep end.

>>81813190
I have a friend and have no problems talking with guys. I am not sure if I want more friends but why should I try to get a male friend when I want a gf? My only friend is not interested in animie and lives over 300km away so we only see us rarely, mostly online.
> What you're doing is like not knowing how to swim and just jumping straight into the deep end.
Yeah I know but what else should I do? I have tried online and only got ghosted and treated like trash.

>>81813273
Yeah anon, you need more friends. Most people meet their partners through friends. If you don't have any then that will significantly hurt your chances of finding anyone. Not that that should be your reason for making friends. It's just not doing you any favors. Do you have any cards shops around you or anything? MTG and DnD are good ways to meet other autists.

>>81813323
Yeah there are cardshops nearby but I don't play any card games. Also I doubt that I can get a gf when I befriend some autistic guys who also have no contact with other girls. I wanted to play dnd at the con but they were already full. I could have played with a girl that cosplay marcile from dungeon meshi, the same girl I made a compliment. I really hate this world nothing works out. I am already going home now I could not stand it at the con anymore.

>>81813371
>I doubt that I can get a gf when I befriend some autistic guys who also have no contact with other girls
Well I guess just keep doing the same thing over and over again, anon. I'm sure things will get better that way.

>>81813390
I tried to do things different. I have used dating apps, I tried finding a gf here, I went to vacation, I went to some socail gathering where you can meet random people, I went to a con. Nothing ever happend. I sometimes talk to girls but it is all just fleeting nothing comes out of it. Next I am going to try to join a club in hopes to find a girl. If that does not work then I have no idea what to do else. I simply can't cold approach. I mean I guess I could but I am so bad at it and so nervous that it would not work out.

No anime for your face.

>>81813471
Idk the girls I have talked with said I look cute or even handsome. You can look very ugly and still get a gf. It is all about being NT.

>>81813455
Anon, you need friends and you need better social skills. Jumping right to a relationship is most likely not going to work out. Women also don't want to date guys without friends. Also you need to try and focus more on just enjoying spending time with people rather than it being a task you do to get a gf.

>>81813563
But friends take up so much time. I am already not spending enough time with my only friend. I think there are girls out there who are fine with guys who have no friends/only one. I am already in my late 20s my time to get a gf is running out. I don't want some old single mom. I rather stay alone. I don't see the point in spending time with other people when I want a gf. I get enjoying spending time with people but doing that will lead to nothing.

>>81810920 (OP)
Were you expecting to go to a social gathering and find asocial people?