How do you get a gf as an asocial with no friends?

>>81825057 (OP)
You can't you fucking niggerfaggot

>>81825104
>You can't you fucking niggerfaggot
Why not?

>>81825057 (OP)
I dated an obese 28 year old I met off /soc/ when I was like 19. Would be a virgin otherwise

>>81825146
How did you manage to do that?
Was it a discord exchange thread kinda thing?
I have been ghosted by most femanons I met here

>>81825057 (OP)
You get friends and be social you fucking retard

>>81825175
>You get friends and be social you fucking retard
Literally why?

>>81825163
I posted in a thread looking for friends and this was way back when discord didn't exist or maybe just came out. Everyone was using kik. She messaged me first and we kind of just hit it off. I think it's just harder to meet people online nowadays honestly. No one wants to put effort into getting to know anyone anymore.

>>81825201
Not that anon, but if you have no friends, you're a 0/10 in foid eyes (unless you're a 8+ but since we're here I know you're not). It's the female lazy, subconscious way of filtering bf/sex candidates: other girls want him, therefore he is a decent guy; girls and even males do not want anything to do with him, then avoid him at all costs.

>>81825057 (OP)
The question you should be asking yourself is how you KEEP a GF (By nature an obligate social climber excepting the few that can rise above their feelings) as an asocial with no friends.
Even if you got one you'd be fucked, cunt. Change or accept it.

>>81826287
the question I should be asking is why you are crushing OP's dreams for no reason

>>81825057 (OP)
>be me
>28yo KHHV
>make dating app profile.
>write it openly in bio that I was never in a relationship, that I'd only be comfortable with intimacy if I had a really strong emotional relationship etc
>get match with 23yo
>says she likes my stance about intimacy, we chat a lot more and I explain further what/why I think and am that way
>she likes it, confesses she had sex one single time
>was about 5 years ago, got pressured a lot by her then highschool BF
>wasn't really rape, wasn't really fully consentual either
>she's kinda traumatized about it, tells me she'd also want a strong emotional connection first and get to know me
>chat more, she's nice, switch from gay dating app chat to whatsapp.

pro:
>she knows I'm a 28yo autistic virgin who plays video games and still wants to talk to me
>she plays videogames herself, watches netflix series, some anime, listens to simmilar music
>introverted type, not too many friends etc, no "male best friend" beta simp etc.
>good relationship with her parents
>wants to build a genuine connection and a long term (ideally lifelong) relationship
>builds lego
>big tiddy nerdy goth/metal gf
>said she deleted her dating apps today, even though we've only been chatting for about a week and aren't even officially e-dating, let alone real dating
con:
>even tho she only had sex once and it sucked, she still isn't a virgin
>she's on the cubbier side, not obese fat, but cubby
>she has tattoos
>she smokes cigarettes
>she works a dead end retail job
>she lives a 5 hour car drive away which sucks.
>she has funko pops

Anons and femanons, thoughts?
Should I do it to escape inceldom, because she is kinda fun to talk to and we do agree on a lot of philosophical and moral stuff.
Is 1x bad semi-consentual sex 5 years ago close enough to virginity to qualify or am I still getting metaphorically cucked by her past ex-bf?

>>81826611
normalfags won't fucking leave this place for some reason and they are literally incapable of understanding any other perspective on life and think their lived experiences with stacies exclusively is ubiquitous.

>>81826780
the only downsides I actually see are the tattoos, funko pops and 5 hour drive but sounds far, far better than nothing

>>81825057 (OP)
You keep asking this question everyday and we keep on giving you the same damn answer: you don't.

>>81826787
yeah, I don't get why they always word their shit as offensively as possible too
>Even if you got one you'd be fucked, cunt. Change or accept it.
if the rest of the post was fine this entire extra line has literally no reason to be there other than to assert superiority dominance, demonstrates perfectly normalfags just can't help but have malice towards people lower than them

>>81826868
nothing I hate more than retards who think they know everything

>>81825146
Are you talking about chickn or whatever?

My ex was homeschooled who had like 1 friend outside her family.

>>81825297
>No one wants to put effort into getting to know anyone anymore
Tru, people want the absolute prefe t as-if clone of themselves or Mr/Ms perfect in everyday on the surface that chooses them for some reason. A major problem too is women not just cant but refuse to stand by their man, who needs a loyal women to become a true man and reach his potential, that's why ever dude just hops on Xbox after work now no matter the age.

>>81826833
yes, I am kinda concerned about the virginity thing too, ideally Id want to have a virgin-virgin first time experience, no expectations or demands, just curiosity and love etc.
But even despite that I'm leaning towards yes.
As the chances of someone who I could
>get along even better, is more fun to talk to, is okay with me being a near 30 khhv, and at the same time is a virgin, doesn't have tattoos, and meets my physical expectations even better...
are probably quite low, I do have to kinda be realistic with my expectations too I think.
(she isn't ugly or anything, just normal, probably pretty much my looksmatch as I certainly wouldn't be a khhv at 28 if I looked like chad, a bit chubby, maybe 6/10, 5'5 and I'm more into the petite skinny type, but I certainly think she does have some good qualities, its not like I think she unattractive that I'd struggle to get it up if it ever came to that, she just doesn't fit my type 100%)

Obviously we've only been talking for a bit over a week, but I think I might actually try to give this more serious consideration rather than just a random match on a dating app.

>>81825057 (OP)
Look in Chad's bedroom

>>81826935
I am chickn, I dated one person irl from soc and he only tells the communities he's in about me. And those communities arent 4chan or have anything to do with 4chan.

>>81825201
If you can't even maintain a friendship then what makes you think you have the ability to maintain a full on relationship?

>>81827315
nta but what if you can maintain a friendship... you just don't want to.

>>81826780
It is nearly impossible to seriously date someone who is 5 hours away.

>>81827418
just move 5head

>>81825057 (OP)
that's virtually impossible, virtually every normie relationship started because of friends, because their friends invited them somewhere (like a house party) and there were girls there and they hit it off

>>81827463
>every *normie* relationship
what about non normies?

>>81827474
If you have a gf you are a normie