>>81827344 (OP)When they had that at my school I assumed it was something like the equivalent of a swimming carnival but for dancing or whatever and I thought it would be weird for me not to find a partner. It didn't really occur to me that it was supposed to be a safe hookup thing, my attitude was why do you want to go to that, it sounds boring. I think I just assumed people stayed vigins to 25 or so. Actually what I remember from the time is that after it people made fun of the guy who just stood in the corner and listened to the music, not even a bad or ugly guy but they decided to nit pick him because was slightly nerdy.