Why do people, principally women, think that possession is abusive? It's contradictory
My woman is my belonging. Why the fuck would I ruin my own thing? Do you kick your PC? Imagine something way more priceless then

>>81829213 (OP)
A lot of people are, in fact, abusive to their possessions.
I agree that it isn't inherently abusive and can even foster a healthy pair bond

possesion > taking away autonomy and individuality > getting mad when the thing you 'own' doesn't do exactly what you want it to do > abuse

anon would you let a woman own you?

>>81829213 (OP)
there is a big difference between commitment and abuse and lots of incels don't know one from the other

>>81829248
>getting mad when the thing you 'own' doesn't do exactly what you want it to do
Like what?
Also, there's something called tolerance. Just because your car died a couple of times doesn't mean you'd kick it and throw it away. People even more so since they aren't machines

>>81829248
This. You retarded subhuman faggots that are so stupid and lack any sense of empathy just have to inverse the problem. Would you want a woman to treat you like her car? An object that exists purely to benefit her, an accessory to her life at her beck and call. That she crashes into curbs trying to park and yells at and degrades when you won't start or need repairs? Nobody wants to be treated like a possession/object you're just too self-serving and dumb to get it. The best you'll ever get with a female is being treated like an important business partner she doesn't want to piss off into leaving the company. Don't think like a sociopathic narcissist like they do have some dignity and decency you're man for fuck sake.

>>81829354
>That she crashes into curbs trying to park and yells at and degrades when you won't start or need repairs?
Wow, bad owners are bad owners, what a discovery
That's like saying just because some people abuse their pets that means that having a pet is inherently negative

>>81829248
Let's say I'm sub fag, why not?
>I'll protect you, I'll love you, I'll take care of your emotional and physical needs, I'll provide for you, I won't hurt you and etc.
>All you need to give back is your loyalty and pleasure
As long as she honest, that's a great deal

>>81829481
And if they decide to do something their partner does like, what happens then?

>>81829345
how bout when she cheats on you with BBC. do you even still want to possess her

no, you probably want to kill her

>>81829248
>anon would you let a woman own you?
yeah, as long as she doesnt cheat on me in any way shape or form or severely abuse me then id take that deal any day of the week

>>81829516
Cheating isn't "doesn't do exactly what you want it to do"
In any relationship you expect that at the very minimum

>>81829248
>anon would you let a woman own you?
Yes, next question

>>81829544
a car cant cheat on you tho. a lamp does not have the autonomy to go get fucked by chad

>b-but the chances of you getting abused
As if normal relationships don't have any abuse? That's like only picking skinheads and saying that white people are trash

>>81829238
>A lot of people are, in fact, abusive to their possessions
I follow a simple rule. If you ever smashed your controller when playing a game, you don't appreciate your belongings and probably has anger issues

>>81829604
Why are you fixated with other men?

>>81829739
bc im gay you psychopath

>>81829213 (OP)
>my woman
what woman, you little curry dumbass

>>81829213 (OP)
>Possession = insecurity
Why? Because some armchair expert told them that so they parrot it

>>81829248
yes. Women are unironic retards for turning down the easiest existence possible in this world for some weird ass sense of "agency" when all that agency does is give the possibility of suffering.

>>81829268
"You belong to me" is an innocuous statement. In a serious relationship you have a shared joint life, you both belong to each other and your life isn't solely your own anymore. What I find more common is extreme commitment phobia from people who fear engulfment, because they think being bonded to another person means they cease existing or having their own interests too.

>>81830333
but that's also mutual and not really what the topic is about which is why I pointed out commitment > possession. some people really do treat others like objects they own and nothing more. if that's a shared kink it's fine but also not the types of abusive people being addressed

>>81829213 (OP)
A better example would be a pet, i want to take care of them and see them be happy, i wouldnt kick my dog :( . But when push comes to shove, im in charge. I get that right as a man because as a man, when shit hits the fan its ultimately my job to protect them. You aren't going to 'free equal woman' this household through an emergency when my biology is made for that. Sorry biology isnt fair

>>81830333
>>81830349
That's the thing. Possession in terms of relationships and people is normal... but it goes both ways. The man owns the woman but the woman also owns the man... atleast that's how it's supposed to fucking work.

>>81830374
>i wouldnt kick my dog :(
There's people that kick their dogs too so tards would argue against it anyway

>>81830198
nah, women always say that shit when you're against them going on a girls trip to Jamaica
>"YOU'RE TRYING TO CONTROL ME!"

>>81830536
the point is possession doesn't have a direct relationship with abuse. Not everyone who possesses an item damages it. Some people praise and worship items in their possession. Some people break and hurt their possessions. If someone "possesses" something that doesn't inherently imply anything of their treatment of that thing.

dont care
if she doesnt do stuff i want it basically means she hates

>>81829674
yeah I did that once or twice as a overly hormonal teenager but quickly got over it. I'm still an angry enough retard to go nigger mode on anybody who truly insults somebody I love.

>secular atheists ITT trying desperately to figure out life and morality when they have nothing to go off of but their own erratic feelings.

The guys that abuse women do it exactly because they feel like they don't have control over her, besides the ones that are straight up cruel.
If you think your woman is thoroughly yours, there's no reason to abuse her. That's like ruining a Porsche. Unless you're a psycho that does it for fun, there's no reason to do so

>>81829248
>woman thinks its okay to fuck other guys
Fuck off foid. Go be a whore on onlyfans if you dont want to commit to one guy.

>>81831340
Beat me to it lol. Glad there are other people who can recognize this