Has anyone on here successfully dated someone they met on /r9k/?

I started talking to a guy I met here on r9k a week ago, and now he keeps saying that we are dating and talking about moving in together. I let a lot of his behaviour slide because I understand he has never talked to a woman before, but I dont know if I made a mistake or if this is a good sign since I am just as inexperienced.

>>81830694 (OP)
give him a reality check

>a week ago
dude is crazy. Tell him to plan a date and stop talking about moving in together until you see how that goes.

>>81830694 (OP)
That's kinda funny. Better be careful though, he might cut your face off.

Lol you're dead, he's gonna kill you

>>81830694 (OP)
If this isnt a larp, (and it is) tell him so. People on r9k are severely retarded and wont get the memo if you are beating around the bush

Do not do it. Learn from my mistake.

>>81830694 (OP)
I would NEVER date a guy who regularly browses 4chan

>e-dating
MEET IN PERSON

>>81830694 (OP)
I wish I didn't live in bumfuck nowhere and could date a foid from here. I could never build the same level of emotional connection with normie women, I am intrinsically broken that way, and I can only share a true connection with someone who gets it.
I just wish my life wasn't so fucking boring, I have never felt any connection with normies irl. Feels like I am completely alienated from society

>>81830752
Then why would a guy want to date you?

>>81830760
hopefully they don't know I go on 4chan?

>>81830694 (OP)
block him and talk to me instead thatll teach him for sure boo

>>81830752
but why tho you are a robot

>>81830786
Okay but just being hypocritical. I guess you are a woman so that's pretty normal. Still kinda messed up though.

>>81830786
I'm going to date a girl like you. I will find out very early on that she's on 4chan. We're going to get serious and plan a wedding. Surprise! My side of the aisle is a /r9k/ IRL meetup

>>81830694 (OP)
Stop dating from 4chan

>>81830799
Women are all hypocrites, anon.

>>81830814
eww i'd probably cry lol... but to be safe i'll date a really hot guy who only uses social media

>>81830839
this is a mtf baiting guys

>>81830815
He is really nice, albeit a loser exactly like me. I have never had any guy interested in me before, online or irl, so at this point 4chan is a bit of a last resort but it sort of worked out, even though I know online dating is cringe

>>81830694 (OP)
>I started talking to a guy I met here on r9k a week ago
as a guy on r9k why would you ever do that to yourself.

>>81830839
4chan is social media you mongrel.

>>81830852
some of us are not as bad, just like there are decent women on r9k
a very small minority, but still

>>81830852
I am a guy and I get it. There is nothing more fun than dating someone with mental illness

>>81830852
Theres a reason im on r9k just as everyone else, cant find a guy that likes me, so at this point beggars cant be choosers

>>81831017
what kind of man are you looking for?

>>81830814
I'd be there!

>>81831074
that's good because i invited you!

>>81830694 (OP)
>picrel
Foid
orig.

>>81830694 (OP)
a week is way too fast and he is desperate as fuck
do try to use good judgement and stay safe

A girl messaged me on duolicious and told me she loved me within the first 10 messages what should I do

>>81831164
You are a victim bro

>>81831266
a victim of LOVE

>>81831095
im a virgin and most actual femcels are but ok chad

>>81831292
>but ok Chad
I wish, dude. I haven't talked to anyone in years other than my family even though I'm only 18. I'm more truecel than any of you, especially you foids. I'm lost and don't know where to go, and I'm too scared to try.

>>81831292
the "lonely femcel" I met off of here turned out to have a bodycount of 15 with boy guys and girls and also blocked me because she got back with her ex. she was 18 btw

>>81831439
>with boy
with both. also she was a former cocaine addict and was in rehab before and had BPD and an eating disorder. I dodged a cannonball sized bullet

>>81831439
how can you even find this place with a bodycount of 15

what the fuck was she even doing here

>>81830694 (OP)
I would love to but I haven't met one that was from my state yet.

>>81830694 (OP)
Yes, soon 2 years together. We already met irl multiples time. I love him

>>81830786
>woman has hypocritical double standards
Yeah not surprised.

>>81831084
NTA but I'll take the invite too, yay!
Anon's wedding I'm so excited.
Not to spoil the surprise but my gift is a bad dragon horse dildo, enjoy.

>>81831424
>I'm more truecel than any of you!
It's not a competition you faggot.
You shouldn't WANT to be one of us.
Get out while you can, 18 is fucking nothing.
t. 30s

>>81831748
Thats great, so happy for you!! Are you living in the same country or international?

>>81830694 (OP)
he is gonna rape and kill you, and you saying "he never spoke to a woman before" is a complete lie. Either you are easy to manipulate or just retarded. He probably just love bombing so you sends nudes. Btw I hightly expect you are underage, and he is mostly likey over 18. So you are letting yourself get groomed, you are a mentally ill whore please kill yoursf

>>81831648
>how can you even find this place with a bodycount of 15
she told me she's into raceplay (she's latina) and would come on 4chan to get off to people being racist and sexist on here. also she told me she posted her tits on here before. yeah at that point I was just talking to her because she was sending me nudes, every single part of her personality viscerally disgusted me

>>81830839
>but to be safe i'll date a really hot guy who only uses social media
yeah. I'm sure you would be able to date a "really hot guy" LMAFO. why are you even here on the incel board you poser.

>>81831017
You are just some wannabe, I wonder why you are here? probably heard about 4chan from discord, you mentally ill whore kill yourself.

My body count is two.
One was standard highschool thing, one was a girl I met here. I fell much harder for the girl here, despite only having sex with her once.
I actually met her on /x/, only to find out she also posted here. I had to encourage her to stop posting here for the sake of her mental health because she was starting to really hate herself for being a woman. We dated for a few years before she blew it up SPECTACULARLY.
She wanted space due to her health problems getting worse and the plummeting self esteem over "not being a good girlfriend", and I understood and let it happen. I mean, I was friends with her before the relationship started, and I was planning on being friends with her after it while she dealt with her health stuff, with an expectation that we would pick it back up later.
Then she fell for the ONE other guy she was talking to, she confessed and he turned her down. Funny thing is, she knew he would do so, but did it anyway for the... confirmation I guess? Idk. Felt horrible to hear of course.
Some stuff happened and then I guess she had a psychotic break thinking I was trying to kill her or something (I wasn't, obviously).
She later deleted all her accounts and I haven't seen or heard from her since; it's been several years.

>>81830694 (OP)
>I let a lot of his behaviour slide because
Don't let any behavior you don't like slide. I'm not saying to flip out and ghost him, but you need to clearly say what you're comfortable with and not comfortable with. Best case, the behavior you don't like will continue in perpetuity, worst case it will snowball into something REALLY bad and then you'll be hearing "wtf why didn't you say anything?" from him.
>>81830739
This. Do not assume any person you date is a mindreader. Women are notoriously bad at this, though men do it too.

>>81831825
I wouldnt say im retarded or easy to manipulate, just never have talked to a guy before even though im 20 kek

>>81831881
>just never have talked to a guy before
did you grow up on a Christian compound in the woods or what?

>>81831881
thats cute i love retarded women like this

>>81831881
>I wouldnt say im retarded or easy to manipulate, just never have talked to a guy before even though im 20
Lmao no need to lie now. Most people are easily manipulated. And for the retarded part I mean eh. You are here so you could've done better with your life, but I'm here too so can't say much. And Wow Why are you crying about never talking to a guy? you're only 20 you have time. Unlike people like me who haven't never talked to a girl in 40+ yrs. You still have time tho, Consider yourself lucky, stay safe tho 1 week to move In together is crazy. Stay safe good luck dont get raped.

I've never met anyone from /r9k/ in real life or online outside of 4chan. Maybe you should keep it that way.

>>81830694 (OP)
I don't understand how that would happen. Doesn't moving a conversation from here to somewhere else involve publicly sharing your contact information with the entire world?

>>81831964
maybe OP should date this retard if hes 40+ with no gf hes too much of a pussy for rape

>>81831790
>Get out while you can,
I don't know how, you retard
>>81831998
samefagging lol, none of us have ever talked to women.

>>81832096
no im not samefagging im a zoomer and i think weird zoomettes should date older miserable men from here

>>81830694 (OP)
No. The only person I've talked to online is chicken. She didn't like me much

>>81830694 (OP)
Yeah a femcel I met off this board. It was nice while it lasted but her parents ended it when they found out about us

>>81832112
>im a zoomer and i think weird zoomettes should date older miserable men from here
Why bro? I'm also a zoomer, doesn't mean I want ugly old bastards stealing our women.
Either way, failed larp cuckllennial

>>81832274
lol why the fuck do you want to date the subhuman women from here

>>81832283
I'll take anyone, man. I'm lonely and want someone to understand me. Besides, I'd connect more with a BPD loser than a normie, as long as she's also a virgin.

>>81832096
>I don't know how, you retard
There were two ways to take that.
>stop coming to 4chan
Should be obvious enough. Just walk away.
But the one I meant was
>stop identifying with the incel label
You're taking pride in calling yourself a "truecel", like, "yeah I'm a REAL incel not like those fakers".
Distill that for a second. "Yeah I'm TRULY unwanted not like those fakes who could get a gf if they asked her out!"
Like, what the fuck is wrong with you to take pride in that?
Besides which, I would bet money on the fact that you haven't asked out many women at all in the first place. Your restrictions are entirely in your head.
I could maybe cede you some ground if you were to say "look man, I asked out over two dozen women and all of them either said no or just laughed in my face".

>Another shitty LARP thread gets more replies than the actually good thread I posted
No wonder this place is such a shithole

>>81830694 (OP)
You met him a week ago? No move in with him. Give him access to your bank account.

>>81830694 (OP)
>he keeps saying that we are dating and talking about moving in together
god i just want to experience this maladaptive frenzy of passion and excitement :(
but actual good advice: tell him to slow down. its easy to behave like this when he's getting the first bit of attention from a woman period.

>>81832595
It is nice, sure, but I want it to be sustainable. if I dont respond for an hour if im busy, he will be incredibly anxious and I constantly feel guilty for making him feel that way. Its a weird situation

>>81832656
needy people need to be raped to death

I'm currently e-dating a girl I started emailing from one of the generals here. We talk every day and usually call for a few hours. Sometimes we do sleep calls too.
I've never had a gf before so I don't really know what I'm doing but she seems to think I'm really cute.
We seem to like each other a whole lot and are both pretty autistic and think being fun to talk to is each other's most attractive quality.
We're on opposite sides of the world but we're planning on meeting up once her living situation is more stable.
The few robots I know are good people, just very shy or autistic. I think it's worth giving them a chance. If they do something wrong tell them and they'll probably try their best to address it. I never thought it would happen so I'm grateful for her every day.

>>81830694 (OP)
>dated
Yeah, I play it up but I've gotten pretty intimate with a few of the girls here
>successfully
Hahahahahahahahahahaha!!!! That's a good one femanon.
My most sucessful interactions with women on here:
-Some 18 year old that kinda dug me that I ghosted after she befriended my stalker, seemingly was preplanned
-some 19 year old I watched a couple movies with and she opened up to me a lil before ghosting
-the psychopathic schizophrenic who strung me along at my weakest only metaphorically smash my head into a wall and dox me because she was raped as a kid and I supposedly groomed a 15 y/o or whatever a year ago(I didn't)
uhh....
-A bunch of chicks I bailed on for various reasons
-a few of them let me see them naked/lewd/masturbated with me(not saying who)
>I started talking to a guy[...] inexperienced
Everything you just said was the most redflaggish shit I have ever read.

>>81832699
its literally that easy to escape inceldom if youre american. why dont you faggots take the edating pill?

>>81832727
I'm not American but she is

>>81830694 (OP)
I tried to talk to a girl from here and she was so dry and uninteresting I blocked her.
>picrel
Stacy is correct lol
>>81830755
>I wish I didn't live in bumfuck nowhere and could date a foid from here
Are you new here? You'd ironically have an easier time trying to build an emotional connection with an NT woman. The foids here are far more insidious.

There's currently a girl going around who's name I won't say in case it gets deleted who's dated damn near the entire board who gets called out every time she makes a thread. And there are many stories from other Anons where they'd get ghosted at the drop of a hat.
>>81831017
You're lying unless you're mtf
>>81831095
Right girl is definitely that e-slut I mentioned earlier.
>>81831164
Convince her to call to confirm she's not a man and is serious.
>>81831292
Even if you are a virgin, you're definitely not a 'femcel' you just want to relate to incels despite not sharing the same struggles.
>>81831648
>what the fuck was she even doing here
Fishing for attention, like 99% of other fembots.
>>81831723
Refer to my 2nd response.

>>81831790
>It's not a competition you faggot.
He's highlighting the difference between a truecel and a 'femcel' (AKA fakecel)
>>81831853
Unfortunately she probably is. Female hypergamy rules.
>>81831872
Smartest anon ITT
>>81831993
Prob msging privately through discord or smth
>>81832264
Care to give more details?
>>81832382
Look at my reply to 81830755
>as long as she's also a virgin
Who's gonna tell him?
>>81832491
>You're taking pride in calling yourself a "truecel"
This is something you inferred from your ass lmao. Stop projecting unc.
>>81832513
I'll give your thread a read anon. I hate this too especially when a good thread gets a ton of replies but strays entirely from OP's topic.
>>81832699
>>81832727
Because they go terribly 99% of the time and you'll just end up worse off.

>>81832723
> everything you just said was the most redflaggish shit I have ever read
How am I supposed to know what is a red flag and what is a green flag when it comes to talking to men unless ive dated a man before, which I havent kek

>>81830694 (OP)
>Has anyone on here successfully dated someone they met on /r9k/?
I hope no one does

>>81833130
>Because they go terribly 99% of the time and you'll just end up worse off.
or you can fuck some premium weirdo pussy. 1% odds of a happy ending is better than being an incel and having a 0% odd

>>81833225
Biggest hater on r9k, have you never had any luck

>>81833130
>This is something you inferred from your ass lmao.
It's literally part of the name. If it wasn't you would use the proper term incel.
What's the difference between a truecel and an incel? Go on I'll wait.

>>81833320
Funny enough what you want is also what he wants.

>>81833219
Man is able to learn from the experiences of others. Animals can only learn from their own experiences.

I wouldn't even know how to meet a foid, with a vagina, from my city on this shithole.

>>81833229
>you'll just end up worse off
Can you comprehend English anon? Or do I have to get specific?
>99% chance of getting stressed out by a whore (most likely) and eventually end up having your time wasted or 1% chance of having sex for a few minutes, incurring more risks like STDs and pregnancy scares
If you pick the latter have to be insane or retarded (maybe both.)
>>81833339
So you admit you don't even know the difference between the terms lol. It's fine unc I'm happy to help! It's an important distinction from so called "fakecels" who claim to be an incel but had attention from women and chose not to reciprocate, never even tried, or have literally had sex but it was a while ago so it doesn't count or something. Basically it'd be disingenuous to lump them in with people who genuinely tried and failed. In the case of the anon you were replying to, he was creating a distinction between him and OP, who is a foid who's most certainly either
>lying about her celibacy
>raped (tragic but unfortunately still not celibate)
>unrealistic standards
>got attention from guys but turned them down
>whored around but is "born again" (nalafitness)
>homeschooled her entire life
None of these are indicative of someone who struggles to get with someone, just one hasn't/chose not to/lying. Hope that helps!

>>81834216
OP here, not raped, nor have I ever rejected any guys or actually had attention from them irl, or any of the other green text criteria you added. I am just flat out unattractive, it is unfortunate but I just was not blessed genetically and men are not interested at all, regardless of how I try to improve myself. I know you all believe that women are instantly man magnets so youll probably respond to this saying I never tried or some other cope, but I do and I have for many years at this point. Rejected every time

>>81834327
Not this shit again, please stop. You know this is untrue and you wouldn't give a real ugly guy a chance

>>81830694 (OP)
>I started talking to a guy I met here on r9k a week ago, and now he keeps saying that we are dating and talking about moving in together
>>81832656
>if I dont respond for an hour if im busy, he will be incredibly anxious
King

>>81830694 (OP)
Long distance relationships are impossible to make work without letting them do some shit like move in.
No risk No reward

i;ve been dating my bf whom ive met on soc for 2 years naoww :3 am happy happy girl it is not over for us robots!!!!!!!!!!11

>>81834327
Do you live in the US? If so I know you have to be full of it. I've met hideous girls that have men lined up to have sex with them. Like >>81834351 implied you probably just ignored any guy who you didn't find attractive enough. Now this next part is a little out there so I won't genuinely argue it but I did hear there was a study that if you're unattractive enough, the average woman doesn't even register your presence. Perhaps this factored in somehow.
>>81834476
I wouldn't say impossible but definitely not common. I've seen very little work out and they always end terribly.
>>81834477
tranny

>>81834477
I met mine on a server from there. He's pretty hung and buys me a lot of stuff, I even introduced him to my family and he says he'll marry me within 2 years

>>81834652
>He's pretty hung and buys me a lot of stuff,
i see you've got your priorities straight